It s really contradictory I don t know what to do Is the house really important 10

Friend, after reading your description, I think the problem is not in the house, but in your boyfriend himself, of course, you also have a problem. I think we can tolerate not having a house or a car, but we definitely can't tolerate a person who is not aggressive, especially a man. As a man, you must not be satisfied with the status quo.

In this way, he can have the possibility of self-motivation, and can have the possibility of making the future life good or bad, which is the root of the problem. As you, while relying on him, always remember to encourage him, (of course, tactfully, because most men have a strong self-esteem) so that he always has an enterprising heart and works hard.

Always remember one thing: a person who has a car and a house must be a highly motivated person, and a person who has no car, no house and no money must be a person who is satisfied with the status quo.

Therefore, if you want to have a house, you must work hard. Your mother is right to disagree. Don't hold a grudge and blame her, she's for your good.

If you want your family to accept him, you have to encourage him and make him cheer! You know, as long as a person's heart is strong, then his hope is great!

Go for it!

It is advisable that you get rid of the child, otherwise you will regret it. This man is a bit irresponsible, and he doesn't even plan for the future and says that he wants to be good to you, and what he will do to you.

Where to live if you don't have a house? Even if you have a house, you will have children in the future, and the expenses will be bigger, and you really have to think about it clearly, I am in a similar situation with you now, and the contradiction is dead, not to mention that you have children now, and the house is not yet there, and the child is born, let alone the house.

Judging by your situation, it may be that you are not a good fit. It doesn't matter if the house is heavy, that's a matter of opinion, but the word safe can be understood like this: a house above, a woman below.

A woman has to be in the house to feel safe. I think this understanding is very interesting, so let you refer to it. But the most important thing is, of course, how you feel, and if you think you love him very much and believe that he can give you happiness, then think about it.

In addition, individuals are very opposed to getting married because you have children, marriage is your own business, don't get married because you have children, no one can stop you from pursuing your own happiness, including your children and your mother.

To make a special note: love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. If you don't have the support of your family, you will love hard.

Finally, I wish you happiness!

Love without bread is tough.

If you are ready to be in the same boat through thick and thin and are not afraid of hardship, then get married.

If it doesn't feel like what you want! Or maybe you're unsure. Don't want the baby in the belly!

Although it is cruel to say this, it is better than if you have a bad family relationship after marrying him, quarrel over money or (break up). You say that he always wants to give him happiness rather than sorrow and pain, right?

Girl! Is it a bit fast to live in his house for a week? Do you know him very well and his beauty? Think twice about doing things in the future.

I've only known each other for a month. Personally, I still don't think I should get married so soon, he said that being responsible is to marry you, but what about after getting married? Does he have what it takes to support a family? Do you know? Does he understand again?

Young people these days.

Clothing, food, and housing must be solved first.

You have enough to do, we have lived together since we met for a month, and we often go to other people's houses, and you should be reserved that girls should have!!

Based on what you said, I don't think this guy is very good either.

The house is of course very important.

First of all, it proves that this man likes you very much and values you, because first he takes you home for the service to see, and then he eagerly asks you to tell your family, proving that he really cares about you and wants to marry you. I hope you think about it, what can you do with a house and a car, you have the ability to earn it yourself, I am from the countryside, there is nothing, my wife never cares about these, what he cares about is whether I like him or not, I am very pleased, it is not easy to find someone who really likes you and this person likes yourself, don't waste this relationship, make a suggestion, the final decision is still up to you.

Of course it's important. There is no house to spend every month.

For Chinese, not having a house is not a home. Asking this question, it is natural to be troubled by the question of buying a house. If you have a lot of money, you can pick at will, but if you have less money, you can rent it first and then consider the state welfare subsidies such as affordable housing.

It's always good to work slowly, work slowly, and work hard. In fact, the concept of foreigners buying a house is very weak, they like to work until the first day to rent a house there, and they are not in a hurry if they don't have a house in their lives, and the girl will never marry for the sake of a man without a house. Of course, if your work and life are fixed in the same city for the rest of your life, then buying a house can also be done.

Of course, you can't have a home without a house. If you don't have a house, how can you have a home?

There is a certain truth in the mourning of poor couples, but it is also a misfortune if you judge your happiness solely by material things, so you have to ask yourself which side to focus on, there is nothing right or wrong, respect your own wishes, and live the life you want to live by legitimate means.

Marrying someone is indeed a matter of careful consideration. If you don't have a house, you feel like a tree has no roots, and it's very insecure. If it's me, it doesn't matter if he can't afford to buy a house now, it depends on whether he has the potential to buy a house, if he is not very bad and we can work together to buy a house of our own after getting married, I think it will be a very fulfilling and happy thing.

If he was a straw bale one, I would definitely not marry.

The house is just a home, and you don't care if it's good or bad, and you can work it later.

If there is no asset, self-occupied real estate is currently the only project that can be regarded as a major asset for many families, and those who have no permanent property have no perseverance, and the elderly hope that the stability and harmony of the family will be built on owning their own property for a long time, which is also the traditional idea, yes. However, the current real estate market is indeed unsatisfactory, and blindly buying real estate regardless of one's own ability will cause self-stress, so it is better to think more. As for the next generation, it is difficult to say whether it is best to leave a property as a gift, it is better to teach her well and help her fly high.

It should be important that the house is a necessity, unlike a car and gas that it is a consumer product.

If you don't have a house, you can try to lay a bunk on the main road, but it is estimated that you will be driven away by the chengguan the next day. Wish.

Materially, yes. You didn't let her go, how did you live with her. Although you can rent, but there is a time limit for renting, and you have to worry about the rent every month

For a man. Only when you have a house do you feel like you have a home. If it doesn't, it's mutilated.

It's very important for some people, hey, if you can't afford it, let it go.

No, as long as you truly love each other, you can be happy without a house.

Personal opinion, for your reference In fact, the position of the house in marriage is not that important. The relationship between marriage and house is copied by the Chinese people. Thirty or forty years ago, many people got married and lived in collective dormitories, and even then it did not directly affect the quality of marriage and other issues, but in today's society, people feel that the house is the premise, very important, is the concept, and is also the reality of the society If you can open a store, you should first focus on the career, and the quality of life will be considered later.

If opening a store is 100% profitable, then open a store first. If it's your first time opening a store like this, consider buying a house. We have to think about what if, in case you lose money when you open a store, the house and the store will be gone.

If you are sure enough to open a store and only make money without losing money, open a store, if the family has the conditions, open your own store, and the down payment given by the parents to the house, at the same time, women can't withstand the "torture" for too long.

Not necessarily, but generally you need to give yourself a nest when you get married. From a practical point of view, it is actually very comfortable to think about having a house that is your own. If you rent a house every month, pay for the house to others. It's better to take out a loan to buy a small house and pay for the house for yourself.

From the perspective of parents, they all want their children to live well, and they must have a house when they get married, otherwise they will not marry, etc. In fact, as long as you negotiate with your parents, you want a healthy, happy and happy child, or a child who is depressed and unhappy every day. Which is the most important house in front of the happiness and health of children?

Parents love their children, and if they can't afford to buy a house, they want their children to be healthy and happy.

From an emotional point of view, that is the ultimate warmth of your love. A co-run home. It is also a place to welcome a new life, a new life.

It depends on how you decide your own life, I hope that you and your partner will agree on this point, and be willing to face the pressure of both parents together, the house is not important, what is important is the heart of responsibility for the family.

If you're a man, it's really important, you can't let your future wife come and go back with you to change places.

If my parents have me, I don't mind living with the elderly, it mainly depends on what your fiancée thinks, and people are different.

Feelings first, house second.

If you don't have a room, how can you enter the cave room? Is it into the hole?

In principle, it depends on what your girlfriend and her family mean, and if the woman insists on buying a house, it is a must...

I really can't afford to buy a house, and I can't force it, feelings are the most important, and the house can be earned slowly!

The Chinese have a very deep affection for the house! Oh.

Actually, it's still very important, how to marry a wife without a house, hopefully.