Because I took the initiative to meet with my ex boyfriend, and my boyfriend was going to break up w

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe you shouldn't meet, even if you meet to talk about what you are in your current relationship? That should call him (the current boyfriend). What is he, if he wants to say that he doesn't care, that is, he doesn't take you seriously, and if he cares, it means that you hurt his self-esteem.

    Remember, lovers can't be friends and can't be friends. If you belong to the kind of fun-loving and generous girl, you don't want to look for that kind of stingy boy, you will be tired and injured.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends on your motivation for meeting your ex-boyfriend.

    If there's something that needs to be met, that's fine.

    Maybe your boyfriend cares too much about you.

    Practically every man is like that.

    But if for other reasons I think you're going to have to review it ...

    Don't believe the nonsense that you can be friends after breaking up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Two people love each other, in addition to the good feelings at the time, they need to understand more.

    Since the two of you have come together, you must also love each other, it is normal for young people to have some friction in love, as long as he truly loves you, and you take the initiative to meet your ex-boyfriend, he must care about you before he gets angry, so as long as you tell him, the reason for your meeting is on the line, if you say that after that, he still wants to break up with you, and you are sure that he didn't do anything to be sorry for him, that is, he used the topic to play, then you need to talk calmly, if you really don't understand this thing, the road of life is too long, You can then seriously consider whether he is the one you want to spend your life with.

    Wishing you happiness! In fact, you can also put yourself in the shoes of him, if he meets his ex-girlfriend, then you will talk to him calmly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Neither of you is right.

    Your fault is too great.

    If you have something to say to your current boyfriend before you meet your previous boyfriend.

    I don't think that's the case. Thank you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on why you met your ex-boyfriend. If you're not sorry for your current boyfriend, explain it to him.

    If he doesn't distinguish between right and wrong, then divide it with him.

    If a man breaks up at every turn, it means that his feelings for you are not strong.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you are together, you have to be sincere, you didn't tell him and rashly did these ambiguous things, of course others will have ideas!

    However, it is also very strange that he categorically proposed to break up. I have a feeling you must have something left unsaid here! A man would not make such a big decision because of a single event!

    Try to reflect on it again!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it's your fault, if he loves you, he won't break up easily, but if you love him, you will keep him, right. But some things don't go well. The white hair is 3,000 zhang, and the fate seems to be long.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's just a relationship between friends, explain it to him well, say it well, if he can't forgive, forget it, a man should have a certain belly and self-confidence!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not your fault!

    This function is called your current boyfriend with a narrow heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think you're wrong.

    It's just a boyfriend little instrument.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Both of you are at fault.

    You shouldn't see your former boyfriend so easily, and you shouldn't think too much about your current boyfriend's feelings.

    He shouldn't have broken up so easily, he didn't attach too much importance to this relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I even think that what everyone says makes sense, the two of you should do it and carefully ponder whether the relationship between the two is true or false, and you must break up because of such a thing, of course, it may be that your boyfriend has long wanted to break up with you, and knowledge is looking for opportunities, so you shouldn't keep anything, let it be, it's okay.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on what is the purpose of your meeting ex-boyfriend, is it a complete break or an old relationship? If you do, you're right, you should have a good talk with your boyfriend and tell him that you went to see that person to love him better and that he will forgive. If it were the latter, I would have nothing more to say.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Just to meet? If it's just such a trivial thing to break up, then he's too stingy?? It's good to break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He might think you're ugly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Or because he's jealous.

    Or just find a reason to break up with you!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your current boyfriend scares you, isn't he coquettish with you? Hehe.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not your fault It's just the reason why he wants to break up with you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When they meet again, the two people are very embarrassed, after all, they have broken up, if they are not looking for a partner now, then they can also have a simple chat together, but if there is an object, they will mind very much, and they will not say too much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The reason why the ex became the ex was because he knew each other and loved each other, but he didn't have the opportunity to be together. If you are separated, don't worry about him anymore, whether he is doing well or not has nothing to do with you; And vice versa. When we meet again, we may no longer feel like our hearts are beating, and maybe treat him as a stranger, which is fairer and better for the two of them.

    Men are very affordable, since the two broke up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you meet your ex-boyfriend after breaking up, you may not behave naturally, and you may not be able to behave as generously as you see an ordinary friend, you may be embarrassed, you will avoid each other's eyes, and you may find an excuse to leave in a hurry.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think two people will definitely have a lot to say in the same situation, and there will always be a smile on their faces from the moment they see each other, and there will be each other in their eyes.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Now after breaking up again, if you meet again, then it also depends on what caused the breakup in the first place?

    If there was no quarrel at the beginning, then when we met, everyone would say hello, this is not embarrassing, right?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I should have acted like a stranger, and then I definitely didn't pay close attention to some of his movements, and I didn't have any other thoughts in my mind, just to get away from this place as soon as possible. Maybe I won't look at each other at all, and then even if we meet again, I'll be treated as strangers.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It should still be more nervous and awkward, because I don't know what kind of topic to start with, so the best way to break up with my boyfriend is to choose not to meet again.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I will be very free and easy, and I will also be very indifferent. Then say hello to him in a chic manner and meet him. You won't say anything more than that, and this kind of performance will also make your ex-boyfriend look up to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I will feel a little embarrassed unnaturally, and I don't even have the courage to look at him twice, I met my first love at a class reunion, and we didn't say a word the whole time, and then I sat next to each other and didn't say a word when I went to sing, and then I thought about what it was.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you are unprepared to meet your ex-boyfriend, you will feel embarrassed, and you may stutter so much that you can't express it. After separating from your ex-boyfriend, you don't want to have any contact with each other.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I would behave as if I didn't know him, or as if I were a stranger. I might take the initiative to say hello to him, which means I'm letting go. Or maybe it's just a laugh.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I will be very calm, and then say hello like an old friend I haven't seen for a long time, don't panic, be calm, so that others can feel that you have let go and don't care.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think my performance must be more natural, more free, let him see these changes in himself, I think it must be very good for the two of us.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Facing it calmly, just like meeting an ordinary friend, although it may cause embarrassment, but since you have given up on this relationship, it is in the past tense, you can treat it as a good memory, but you must not be nostalgic again.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If it were me, I would be embarrassed, but I wouldn't talk about the past, just treat him like a stranger. Now that we have separated, I wish you a better tomorrow.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    When you meet again after breaking up with your ex-boyfriend, you may show indifference, that is, you are light-hearted, you don't have any feelings, and you should be treated as an ordinary person.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't have any ideas, do you? You may find a way to avoid him, because you will feel very embarrassed and don't know what to say. Then as long as the choice is not the best.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't think there's any need to meet since we've broken up, and if we have to meet because of something, we should meet with the mentality of an ordinary person.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When I met my ex-boyfriend after breaking up, I felt embarrassed and didn't know what to say, and I wanted to know how he was doing.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hello sad . If he wants to get back together, then he still loves you.

    If he disappears for a year and suddenly sees you, just for sexual needs. Then he only needs it physically, more than it needs you emotionally. Is this still love?

    And you did. The saddest thing about people is that they tend to put sex above their emotions, and this will only be a deal in the end.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Many years later, when you look back, it turns out that you used to be so cheap, a man will not refuse any woman he wants to fall into, and having a relationship is just that he wants to make a shot, and it has nothing to do with whether he wants to get back together with you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You should take the initiative to explain this matter to your boyfriend, and you should also tell your liquid oak boyfriend that you have no relationship with your ex, and if you still love your current boyfriend very much, you should not break up.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    should explain to her boyfriend that she and her ex-boyfriend are just in a normal relationship, and they don't have any thoughts about it. You shouldn't break up, because you still love your boyfriend, and you shouldn't break up because of these inexplicable things, but you should also pay attention to your words and deeds in the future, and be cautious not to let him have a misunderstanding.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think you should take the initiative to explain it to your current boyfriend; Don't break up, it's not easy for two people to be together, just explain it clearly.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If two people break up peacefully, the other party will talk to you, after all, they have loved each other, there is no need to make such an embarrassment, you can get along as friends, it depends on how it ended when you broke up.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I won't talk to my ex-boyfriend when I meet him after I break up, I think I should be the most familiar stranger after the breakup, and there is nothing more to say.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    In this case, if the two of them broke up peacefully at the time, then they would definitely talk when they met, and if they were unhappy because of the breakup at the time, I don't think there was any need to continue talking, because it would make me uncomfortable.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Of course I won't talk to him, because I've broken up with my ex-boyfriend and the two don't have anything to do with each other, so there's no need to talk.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The relationship between the two people is gone, but after all, they have met, and it is okay to greet and talk normally.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I won't talk to each other, mainly because I want them to treat me as a stranger and then the two of us don't have any more contact.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If you meet again after your boyfriend breaks up, you can say hello politely to him at most, and you won't charge anything more.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Yes. Because after all, the two of them have had a relationship before, so they will talk when they meet, otherwise it will be very embarrassing.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Yes. In this way, it will leave a good impression on the other person and will also make the other person feel that he is particularly polite. The relationship between the two people will not be particularly stiff either.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I still talk to each other when we meet, and although I can't be boyfriend and girlfriend, it's great to be a regular friend.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Do you have any resentment against him? And then what kind of feelings do you have for her, and then what does he do to you, make this decision, if you have a grudge against him, you won't care about it at all.

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