I ve had a crush on someone for years, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-28
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't blame me for being straight, you still think about her now because you haven't found the only one that belongs to you in your heart, in fact, the feeling is really not easy to explain, just look at yourself, since it's over, don't worry about it, according to what you say now, you haven't achieved anything now, so now put all your body and mind into your current career, and wash your thoughts about her in your mind with a fulfilling career.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The past is in the past, and it would be best if you could get in touch. First love is the most beautiful thing in life, grasp it well.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If she's still single, then you're going for it. Maybe she'll miss you as often as you do.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Confession. Serve it cold.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Well, this kind of relationship can really hurt. I love it very much, but I can't show it to myself. The thoughts of the past are already in the bottom of my heart.。。

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then wait until you are mature and have the ability to come to her...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Men, if you can afford to take it and put it down, how can you be so indecisive.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then contact us, maybe she misses you too.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Man, this can't be broken, how do you succeed?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    <> I think there are three reasons why a crush is a crush:

    1.thinks that others are already very good, and they can't be worthy of others, so they get in the way of confession. --Inferiority complex, if it is inferiority complex that hinders you from confessing, since others have chosen others, you don't have to worry about it, you don't have to keep it.

    You should be a better version of yourself, become a better person, and find a better half of your partner.

    2.It's just a feeling of liking it, and I'm not sure if it's going to be tangled with it. --Tangled psychology, if there is a tangled psychology, since others have the other half, there is no need to be entangled. Because in your heart, she is often not the most ideal one.

    3.Too familiar, if two people of the opposite sex are too familiar, they are very good friends, this will also affect the emotional development of the two, because they are too familiar, the two are unwilling to break this delicate relationship. If one of the partners does not accept it or the two of them break up unhappily, a good friendship will be lost.

    Fear of losing your mind, if you are afraid of losing your mind, then congratulations, you and he have reached the most comfortable relationship for both parties, whether you take a step forward or a step back, it is likely to cause harm to both parties. Since the other party chooses someone else, you don't have to worry.

    If you have the opportunity to confess, don't have a crush. When the crush has a partner, but he hasn't had time to express his inner feelings, it will be a painful sense of loss and frustration. After all, if you love someone, you have to be brave enough to express it, instead of struggling too much, or even not being confident, you will miss the opportunity.

    If the other party has a clear object, then give up, stop bothering yourself, and the feelings that you dare not show are undoubtedly there.

    Personally, I think that if you can, please let go, and also let yourself go. Give yourself a chance to get to know yourself again, to change yourself, to be brave and confident. No girl wants to be with a coward, and she has to give strength and hope to have more opportunities.

    Don't be afraid to confess your failure and keep having a crush, so that there are no waves for the other person except for self-deception.

    Therefore, since the other party has a partner, there is no need to bother, start your life well, and find your true happy life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you feel unwilling, you can wait until the other party ends the relationship to express your feelings to the other party, but don't disturb the other party's feelings casually.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At this time, you should take the initiative to pick out this topic with the other party, be sure to show your mind to the other party, and then stop the loss in time, be sure to start a new life, and take back your feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Give up this crush, start a new life, stay away from each other, don't disturb each other's lives, and find something to do for yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you confess and chase for a long time, but still miss it, it can only mean that it is not suitable. Or go to Nai River Bridge to drink Meng Po soup.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The taste of a crush is not comfortable, you should boldly confess, a crush on a person is deep love, whether it is in the eyes or in the heart of only each other, but just dare not say it, afraid of being rejected, and Ming love is like, because he likes, so he is good to him openly, he likes it together, and if he doesn't like it, he doesn't have it.

    In fact, there is no real crush in this world, all crushes are open love, are you at a certain moment, you have a heartbeat for a person, but, don't dare to approach, just silently watch, just think in your heart, never take action.

    Everyone may have had a crush, but many people put it in their hearts, and after a long time, they can't let it go. And the other group of people, who just thought that this person was very good, thought about it in their hearts, and passed.

    The main thing about a crush is that you may be an introvert who is ashamed to behave, so you meet someone you want to know, or the right person, and in the end you just miss it, so the crush is just a crush in the end.

    But maybe the other party also knew your careful thinking at the time, but no one broke it. In reality, most people can see that there is a person who has a crush on them, because everyone's feelings are very sensitive, and they can basically see it by looking at each other's performance.

    Therefore, the crush, but no one explains it, and the parties are basically clear in their hearts. If the other person also likes it, it will give you a little response. If the other person doesn't like it, they will stay away from you. If you don't take a stand, you can try to take the initiative a little bit.

    Crush, you like him, but he doesn't know that you like him, you can swagger and watch him chat with him, Ming Lian, you like him, he knows, but you don't dare to look at him, when you can't see him, you want him to appear in front of you immediately, but when he is in front of you, you don't dare to look up at him.

    In fact, the crush itself is very emotional, the crush is uncontrollable, it is knowing or not being sure, and you have to choose to like it.

    When I saw that man, my heart was like a deer. I don't know if I've ever felt this way, I can hear the sound of my heart beating, my brain can't seem to think, it's like a dream, when you see that person.

    The most rational thing is that the person still turns out that a friend is a friend, or a stranger is a stranger. It doesn't show the slightest feeling to that person, it's just the right distance, and it doesn't cause trouble.

    I know I like you, but I also know that it will be a good memory for me to remember, so I'll enjoy this crush anyway.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you have feelings for each other, then confess first, after all, the two of you have never met, you can start with confession, chatting, **, and wait for a deep understanding, and then study others after meeting, and it is still easy to confess directly in front of the screen.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since it's because of the game that you know and have a good time with them, then play your game better, so that he is more willing to play with you for a long time and add friends, so that you will have more opportunities to contact him, and also let yourself show that you are very good and very good, he will also like you, how close to him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This question !! A common problem for many people! If you like it, try to reach out!

    Don't think you're not worthy of him! Or just give up! There is no such thing as getting fruit without hard work!

    Hope you can be happy too! Beg!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's been a crush on him for so long, it's time to confess. You should let him know that you like him. Maybe he also happens to like you for so many years. Then everyone is happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you meet someone you like, then of course you should confess, but online dating is a thing, although the relationship may be true, it may also be fake, so you must have a number in your heart, well, the heart of defense is indispensable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can confess, see how he feels about you, and if he likes you too, just confess it quickly, hurry up and be together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Crushing on someone for a long time will definitely slowly develop a good impression and turn into a confession to the other party, so it is recommended that you be brave and bold to tell him what you want to say in your heart, and then look at what attitude to make the next step.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you have a crush on him, then you should boldly confess to him, and if you don't take the first step, the two of you will never be together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You have had a crush on someone for a long time, if you really like him and are not willing to give up on her, then you have to make yourself brave, to pursue her bravely, and to confess to her bravely.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you really have a crush on someone for a long time, then you can choose to confess to this person, because a relationship must have someone brave to take the first step before it can develop in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it were me, I would go straight to confess, it's normal to like someone, there's no need to hide it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The point is that you like him, do you understand? It's just that I know such a person when I was playing the game, and I think if you like it, you should ask out to talk, talk, and see if it's really suitable?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you have a crush on this person for a long time, it means that you do have a good feeling for this person, so you still need to confess it when necessary, otherwise your heart will definitely be very scared.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The person you know in the game is unreliable, don't like a person easily, after all, it's not in reality, do you think he will be the same in reality as in the game?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Have the courage to express your heart to the person you have a crush. The faint-hearted can only wait quietly. Many times, I lose my beloved.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I've had a crush on someone for a long time, so I think you should confess to him, as long as you have the courage to go up to him and tell him what you think, you're possible.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you like it, go and chase it bravely, not to mention that you have a better chance of success if you meet on the Internet.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    What should I do if I have a crush on someone for a long time? Then you have to be brave enough to confess to him, let him know that you love him, and love must be brave to say it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I've had a crush on someone for a long time, and if you find it uncomfortable to have a crush

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