Breakups, but why do they hurt like this, some break up because they don t want to continue to hurt

Such a man is too bad, how can this be, you should take the money and then find someone better than him, and ask you to show in front of him that I am better than him. Don't be sad it's nothing to be sad about. I support you not to think about him, I have been in a similar situation to you before, and my boyfriend also told me not to pester him and said that he didn't want to see me, but I didn't feel too sad because I thought in my heart why is it not worth it to be sad for a man like you,

If such a person breaks up and is still with him, you will be hurt even more in the future. He doesn't know how to cherish you is his loss, cheer up, there will be better people waiting for you and give you happiness. Come on!!!

When the money is in hand, call him a few more times, and then send him a text message to tell him that he is nauseous enough, and if he doesn't, you can help him continue to vomit!

If he doesn't love you, why be with him?

Friends, let it go

He already has someone else and is in love with that person, and you always hit the ** ,..

100w can do a lot of things, maybe you have this 100w you can make him regret it.

Such a man is not worthy of your love, you should let it go!

Really? Then you hurry up and go on a shopping spree of 1 million in that. Then dress yourself up and start a new love.

If you don't hit **, you won't fight, and if you hit him**, you'll be disgusted. Believe me.

Since he is like this. If it were me, I would ignore itThere's no need, there's no need to be angry with this kind of person, really.

Love is not only beautiful, but also reality, the termination of a relationship, there must be a reason, if your partner proposes to break up, and said that he does not want to continue to hurt you, there may be the following reasons:

After spending some time with you, it happens that you are not the person he is looking for; The gap between his ideals and reality made his mind waver, so he proposed to break up. This situation is the most irresponsible, the beginning of a relationship must be a well-thought-out decision, get off the bus temporarily halfway, do not pay for your actions, this kind of person does not deserve love.

He also loves you deeply, but maybe it's his ex who reminds him more of getting along with you; He didn't have a relationship in the last relationship, he felt guilty about you, and he was afraid that he would fail you. In this case, he has realized his mistakes, but it is also irresponsible behavior, maybe the purpose of being with you is to get rid of the shadow of his ex, but he can't do it, and his conscience is not going, so he proposed to break up.

Personality incompatibility, you both love each other, but personality problems have led to a lot of friction in life, barely there is no happiness, instead of entanglement and hurting each other, it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible, which is good for everyone. This kind of person is usually more rational and not carried away by feelings.

Material problems, maybe he feels that his current conditions can't give you the happiness you want, can't guarantee your future life, and is afraid that you will make you suffer and delay your life if you follow him, and he hopes that you will have a better life. Such people are usually very kind, but they are also relatively cowardly.

<> to sum up, the first point of character is the most corrupt, not responsible for his own actions, and it is not worth your grief for him again; The person in the second point is very emotional, but too emotional, hurting others and tiring himself: the person in the third point is more rational and should try to communicate more and make changes to each other to stabilize the relationship; The people in the fourth point are relatively cowardly in reality, retreat when they encounter problems, and if they can change their cowardice, they are also a worthy partner.

Being separated from your loved one is a very painful thing. When the relationship between two people comes to an end, it will only make both parties more miserable, and we should try to accept the result of the relationship breakdown, and get together with the other person. There are some people who are gentle by nature and want to break up with the other person but don't want to hurt the other person.

Today, let's take a look at the 3 zodiac signs of the zodiac who like to get together and disperse when they break up, and are unwilling to hurt each other!

1st place: Cancer.

The elegant Cancer itself is very kind, unwilling to hurt others, very soft-hearted, and does not see others suffering. When they break up, they don't want to hurt each other, and they want to get together with each other. Because they once loved each other, there is a deep friendship between the two people, and even if they break up, Cancerians can't bear to let each other hurt too much.

I won't say too many cruel words, let alone do something hurtful, and I won't show the pain in my heart.

In short, Cancer is reluctant to hurt his lover even when they break up. Say goodbye with a smile, or end your relationship by pretending to be indifferent. Draw an end to the feelings between each other, and break up amicably, no matter who owes whom, will become a thing of the past.

Treat each other gently one more time, so that you can get together and disperse.

2nd place: Aries.

Aries' temper is a little stubborn, and they often have some emotions in their hearts, but their minds are particularly kind and simple, even if they are angry with others, after venting, they will regret what they have done. However, Aries appears to be particularly calm and rational when it comes to breaking up, because when they decide to break up with you, they prove that they are no longer in love, and there are good reasons. There is no need to be irritable or emotional, you will be very gentle and easy-going with each other, and you will be very gentle and easy-going on the surface, but in fact, it is very painful inside.

In short, Aries has a strong sense of self-esteem in their hearts at any time and is unwilling to hurt others when they break up. In the case of a breakup, an Aries person will hide his sadness and pain very well, and even if he is sad, he will be very calm and gentle on the surface, drawing a perfect end to each other's feelings. Two people are easy to get together and disperse, and they are unwilling to hurt others, let alone break up by hurting others.

3rd place: Libra.

Libra has always given people a very gentle image, and even when they are angry, they are not very harmful. Do everything to appear amiable and unhurried. When you break up, you are also the same, break up with each other in a polite way, you will not be ruthless and ruthless, everyone will get together and disperse, and you will not want to hurt each other.

Hide the sadness and grievances in your heart, and after dealing with each other's affairs with a gentle attitude, say goodbye to each other with a smile.

In short, Libras like to get together and break up when they break up, and they are reluctant to hurt each other again. The more gentle and tender they are on the surface, the more painful and uncomfortable they are in their hearts, after all, they have truly loved each other, not that they can let go of each other, even if they are not willing to hurt each other, they can't be too ruthless.

It's just that I know that we are not suitable, so I broke up early, I don't want to delay your time and waste your emotions, and I don't want to hurt you. is to know that the final result is to break up, for your own good, take the initiative to break up, end early, and hurt you less.

Because the other person truly loves you. So he wants you to live a happier and happier life in the future. And he can't give you happiness at all now, and he will often hurt you. So he had to break up.

That's what kind of love is called breaking up.

may be because they found that the three views of two people are completely inconsistent, and if they continue to be together, there will still be friction, and there is no way for the two people to change, so they will use this reason to break up.

Because I don't love you anymore, the more feelings you invest, the deeper you owe you, and your love will not be reciprocated, which is a kind of harm to you. So if you don't love and don't want to continue to hurt you, it's to break up and let you find someone who loves you to stay with you for the rest of your life.

I think it's because this person doesn't love you anymore, but because you love him very much, he has been with you, but then I found that I didn't want to continue to lie to you, and I didn't want to force myself anymore, for fear that you would fall deeper and deeper, and it would hurt you even more, so it was the best choice for each other to stop losses in time.

You may feel that being together always brings you pain, so you want to break up to fulfill you, and sometimes breaking up is a last resort, maybe for you to live a better life.

At first, it may be because he was hurt by something, or he wanted to understand his injuries or he was lonely, and he wanted to find someone to accompany him, but later he found out that he really couldn't fall in love, so he decided to break up, so he couldn't give his feelings, so don't continue to hurt you.

In fact, it is understandable, so the main thing is that although two people get along together, if there is a big difference, such as personality, then many times it will cause some harm to the other person. At this time, you can only choose to break up.

Because this person has a sense of responsibility. It is precisely because he wants to break up that he does not want to continue to hurt you, and he knows that he can't give you happiness himself. So decisively let go and let you find your own happiness.

After breaking up, it is because I don't want to continue to hurt you, and the reason is because two people have no results and can't change for each other, so they make such a decision. If there is no result, it is a waste of time and a harm to continue.

Breaking up is because you don't want to continue to hurt, and this reason is indeed valid, mainly because two people have no feelings, and if they continue, it will be disrespectful and hurt each other. In the end, it is difficult to separate and becomes a burden.

There are also situations where some breakups are because they don't want to continue to hurt you, such as if you have been together for a while, but one of you feels that the two of you are not only together for a lifetime, but also that he thinks that the feelings for you really can't be called love. That's why I want to break up with you, and inside you continue to fall deeper and deeper.

Because you may know that you can't be together in the end, you don't want to do some useless work, you are afraid that you will fall deeper and deeper and hurt your heart, or some things will happen, and you will be in trouble and don't want you to be embarrassed and stressed in the future, maybe this man is also more responsible.

The reason is that he has no feelings for you anymore, and if he continues, he may hurt you, and he is unwilling to do this, so he will propose to break up. Sometimes for some reason, two people can't be together anymore. In this case, he may also propose to break up.

It may be that I feel that I can't give the other party the life they want, and I don't meet the other party's ideal object, so I don't want to continue.

Because he still loves you deeply. When I'm with you, I'm always going to get hurt. It's very distressing for others to see this, so I decided to break up so that you don't get hurt again.

Some people break up because he really loves him, can't accept it, feels very tired, and chooses to break up, so that both of them are fine, if it continues, both of them are hurt deeply, which is equivalent to you hurting her.

Because the other party doesn't love you, continuing to be with you is just a kind of harm to you, and it is not fair to you, so they will choose to break up.

Some feelings can't go to the end together, so if you don't want to continue to delay each other's time and don't want to continue to hurt each other, break up early and stop losses in time.

One of the reasons for this is because the other party doesn't like you anymore, so they will break up with you directly, and it is because the other party feels that being with you is a harm to you, so they will choose to break up with you.

I don't want to continue to hurt you, which means that the other party has no feelings for you, and suddenly breaks up with you, because I am afraid that you will not be able to bear it, but after a long time, you will be even more uncomfortable, so the other party is quick to cut through the mess, and I don't want to hurt you to break up with you.

There is such a situation, some people always behave very low self-esteem in love, thinking that they can't give the other person what they want, so they will break up on the grounds that they don't want to continue to hurt.

Is this because you don't love each other at all, people are not together, even if they are together, they don't have any future, so you must choose to break up, otherwise it will hurt deeply, this proves that your character is really good, long pain is better than short pain, if you really don't love it, let go.

That's an excuse to break up. It's not for this reason, in fact, it's because I don't like it enough.

It's because the other party doesn't like you anymore, so when I'm with you, I don't have this kind of affection for you, so choosing to separate from you is a kind of protection for you, so in the end there will be such an idea.

Because he lives with you and feels very stressed, he doesn't want to bring you any negative emotions. He feels that after the breakup, you can choose a suitable person again, enter a new relationship, and bring you a better life.

Two people live together, although they both love each other, but the way of behavior or the three views do not agree, it is easy to cause harm to each other, the longer the time hurts the other party, the deeper the hurt to the other party, considering these factors, he decided to break up.

1.Don't say, "You're a good person, I'm not good enough, I'm afraid I'm sorry for your goodness."

Talk calmly and honestly with each other, explain the reason for your breakup, if it is a subjective reason, analyze this reason for both of you can not overcome, and in the long run, it will be more harmful to both of you, and you can only break up; If it is an objective reason, let the other party understand that this is a reality that neither of you can change, and you can only break up.

Don't say, "You're a good person, I'm not good enough, I'm afraid I'm sorry for your goodness."This is very hypocritical, since the other party is as good as you say, why do you want to break up, does a person's "good" also become a reason to break up?

2.Don't wish the other person happiness when you propose to break up.

Write a sincere breakup letter, listing your various memories of the relationship, the unpleasant experiences between you, but not discussing who is right and who is wrong. Show that you really can't love each other anymore.

In the letter, it is important not to say, "How good your impression is in my heart, what kind of beautiful memories we have together." If it's really that good, why break up? Also do not wish the other person happiness, any blessing when proposing to break up is a disservice.

3.Don't bring up a breakup without warning.

Give the other person a buffer time, reduce contact, and slowly distance themselves. Tell the other person that he has been very busy at work recently and will not be able to contact him for a long time, and hope that the other party can take care of himself. And really become more and more estranged day by day, until you feel that the other party can accept it before proposing to break up.

There was a boy who decided to break up with the girl for various reasons, but the two had already booked a ticket to go on a trip, so they went out for a trip anyway. The girl didn't know that she would break up, and the whole trip was very happy. Unexpectedly, the boy proposed to break up when he came back from traveling, the girl couldn't accept it, and she disappeared for three days before she was found through other friends, and this kind of breakup without warning was very hurtful.

4.Don't point fingers.

If the other party accuses you, you should accept it all and break up without any justification.

When the other person accuses you, don't blame the other person for your own justification, or push the reason for the breakup to the other person, so that the other person feels that he has not only been broken up but is also worthless, so that he feels that he has no dignity.