It s already broken up, why is it still like this?

Because you still have him psychologically! You can't completely let go of the feelings between you. You left him entirely because of external factors, and you didn't want to do it in your heart.

Personally, I suggest that the landlord look at this problem from a rational point of view, since the family opposes it, there must be a reason. Figuring out why, calming down and thinking about it might help you.

Listening to you say this, it means that you still love each other very much, although you took the initiative to confess but he also loves you very much, he should be a shy boy. Cherish it, communicate well with your mother, parents want their children to be happy Since this is the case, then let it go, don't force it if you have no fate Forget what you should forget Let go of what you should let go, and start a new life.

You love him very much, that's a fact, it's just that you don't admit it, he will take the initiative later, and the reason is that he loves you, so he will tolerate everything about you, and he is afraid of losing it, and he learns to cherish it, and he sees you unhappy with other boys, just like you see him and other girls, and you don't communicate.

If you don't understand each other, let it be.

You still feel each other.

Otherwise, you wouldn't have instructed him to do everything.

Otherwise, he won't explain to you because you're jealous.

In fact, I think that love is together, and if you don't love, you will let go completely.

Men and women can't be true friends.

Especially in relationships like you're still ex-boyfriend and girlfriend.

In fact, the simpler the emotional matter, the better.

The clearer the relationship, the better.

Went through so much I think.

Love is the purity of love, and strive for love'

But once you feel wrong, there is no need to be wrong to cling.

Maybe you're in love with him, but whether you can come together depends on whether you are so fateful!! Sometimes time tells! Don't take everything so seriously, you're naturally so tired!!

You still like him! This boy is very good, to cherish it, don't care about the family's opinion!

You love him, only if you love each other will you be so unreasonable, and it will be easy to affect your emotions.

Don't you think that the two of you are just an afterthought, and only after you are separated do you feel that each other is precious, and you find each other's good, this type of advice, give you a word of advice, cherish the person in front of you.

I still like him and I am dependent on him.

Because you still like him.

He also likes you a lot, since he is holding hands, don't let go easily.

It means that you still like him.

You want to love him、、、 of course he loves you even more!! But because of your mother, you have to be filial There are really so many good boys who will give so much for you, and there are really few in the 21st century、、、 you are lucky but very tragic... Fortunately, God let you meet him Unfortunately you can't be together、、、 Of course, it's man-made For your own happiness What you think is worth it You just go and love fiercely Don't care about anything else It's unconscionable Life is just a few decades in the world You still have to live for others Aren't you tired?

Did your mother live with him or did you live with him for the rest of your life???

Women are like that, they never understand men! Learn to tolerate each other in the future!

Judging from the conversation between the two of you, the other party chose to break up because they were going to work in other places, but because the relationship between the two of you was good before, they were still very hesitant. But I think as long as the relationship is good, long-distance relationships can also get along, and what does long-distance relationships rely on to communicate:

1.Maintain effective communication.

Avoid non-communication.

First of all, when friction and conflict arise, don't take an evasive approach.

Some people may think that if you don't talk about this conflict, the conflict will disappear by itself, and it will not hurt the relationship between two people.

But conflicts do not disappear with the passage of time, conflicts may be suppressed, buried in each other's hearts, and suddenly erupt one day, when the time will hurt each other even more.

You will find that resolving conflicts head-on will not hurt the relationship, but rather help it maintain it.

Communicate effectively.

What is effective communication?

Communicate with the other person in a way that is acceptable to both of you to achieve a goal that is mutually acceptable to you.

For example, if you know that the other person wants you not to be so irritable, you can change your attitude to be gentle and communicate with him. If the other person wants you not to beat around the bush, you can just say it.

Communicate with them in the way they expect, and the communication will be better.

Long-distance relationship communication requires you to be more patient and considerate of the other person. While telling the other person what you need, try to understand the other person's needs.

The frequency and manner of communication.

In terms of communication frequency, both parties in a long-distance relationship should maintain a fixed frequency of communication, and you can agree on a suitable frequency and time for both parties, which will make each other feel more stable.

It is more advisable to arrange a moderate meeting in the case of a remote location, such as once a month or every two months. In this way, you will feel that the other person is real and not just a "mobile pet".

This real feeling of meeting can maintain the residual warmth during the time when you are not in each other, and when the residual warmth dissipates, it is time to meet next time.

2.Share each other's lives and feelings and make them your best friend.

In a long-distance relationship, you should share happy or unhappy things with the other person, and you should also encourage the other person to share with you what they have encountered and felt in their life.

In these mutual sharing and support, you will find that although your circles do not physically intersect, you are never strangers to each other's lives in different places. You still have endless topics to talk about, and you're still each other's best friends.

3.Establish a shared vision.

Establishing a shared vision will help you go a long way in getting through this difficult time away from home.

You need to invite the other person to participate in your future planning and tell them that this is "your" future, not just yours.

In this way, you will have a clear expectation of the relationship between the two people, and you will be more sure that one day the situation in the other place will end.

It's not a breakup! It can only be said that you are estranged, not together, and your work is separated, at least you still maintain your contact number, and love is discussed! Communication is forever!

Judging from the chat history, one party wants to break up, but the words are not absolute, maybe they will miss and get back together after being separated for a period of time.

I took a look at the screenshot of the chat history. It feels like the other party really doesn't want to love each other. It's not so much a perfunctory thing to wait on. However, love should take the initiative to fight for it, and if you really can't fight for it, it's not too late to let go.

is brewing to break up, he said that maybe the two of them are too tired, and it is inevitable that there will be various stumbles after being together for a long time, but some will face it directly and want to solve it, but some may avoid it and stay away, once there is this thought, it is estimated that it will not be far from the separation.

Sort of, she is already breaking up with you in her heart, don't have illusions about her, she wanted to break up with you, and then go to a different place without contact, do you think this kind of relationship can be recovered?

This kind of person is not very authentic, she mainly depends on whether she can adapt, she doesn't consider your feelings at all, if she can adapt, she will break up with you, and if she can't adapt, she will come back to you.

Judging from the chat records, the woman's attitude is still relatively resolute, and she has basically broken up, but the world is unpredictable, as long as you pay, there will still be a return.

It may also be true that it's not over before the beginning of the relationship, and the other person is obviously going to give up, and it feels like a very real problem.

When two people fall in love, there is no common voice, and there is no fate, so they should always break up.

It's going to break up, but I didn't say it clearly, I don't know if I want to leave a way back for myself, or I don't want to say it too clearly, for fear of hurting the other party.

This is not necessarily, if people are separated but their hearts are together, it is not a breakup.

Count, this is the default breakup.

Every time I say it, let's talk about it later, do you think it's still a show?

If it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, it means that the other party is going to break up with you, if you don't give up, you can ask the other party head-on to see how the other party responds.

Damn, how could I not meet such a considerate woman...

First of all, you have to make sure of his mind, he is too busy, and he is afraid that you will suffer, and he feels a little flickering.

There are two possibilities.

1. There may be some kind of pressure that makes him overwhelmed and cranky, you can ask him about his recent situation and what difficulties he has encountered recently through the people around him, and if he really has something, you should support him, cooperate with him, and help him.

Second, I am tired and don't want to be with you anymore, and I try my best to persuade you to agree to break up.

Judging from your description, he was very enthusiastic when he chased you, and the fire burned vigorously and naturally went out quickly.

But the stool is lacking, he got everything he wanted, and he calmed down and wanted to find out that he didn't really like you.

Maybe he couldn't get what he wanted for a long time and was tired.

Hawkers, anyway, it's up to you, you have to ask if he still likes you and if he really wants to break up.

If he still likes you, support him, men are not as strong as you think.

If you don't like it, it's decisive, but it's estimated that if you can't find your brother and girlfriend in a short time, I'll come to you.

You're too good, he's so ruthless, and you're still protecting him like this, do you think his reasons are very reasonable? If he really loves you so much, he will only work harder to earn money, instead of thinking about leaving you, love is a matter of two people, don't be too sad, you are such a good girl will definitely find a better person, I advise you to find out if Yin Souyou is the reason why he changed his mind and missed the beat, silly girl!