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These three behaviors can change at any time in life, which means that the problem needs to be looked at from different angles.
1. People are often not confident in what they are not good at, but this is not inferiority, but a normal mentality. Unless there is another medium, the opponent, if you can't immediately turn into a positive mindset of challenges, you can easily feel inferior. The key here is how you view your opponent, do you care too much about the strength of others, or do you use it as an opportunity to try?
2. Self-confidence is an ideal psychological state in the eyes of most people, but its stability is also the worst, that is, any small thing may destroy the newly established confidence at any time. So the degree of confidence lies in perseverance, looking at things with a normal mentality, and then trying to do your best, that's all.
3. Conceit is often generated by so-called contempt and fantasy. On the basis of building up confidence, if we lose our sense of normalcy, we may turn our minds to unrealistic aspects. Therefore, don't only blind your vision to what you are good at, put excessive self-confidence in another angle, do things that you are not very good at or have average proficiency, and give yourself more room for development.
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Deal with smart people more, close to Zhu is red, close to ink and black.
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Summary. People with low self-esteem despise themselves, often do not see their own abilities, and do not dare to try even if they can do well; Conceited people, self-righteous, often overestimate themselves, look down on others, and be self-righteous. Confident people are able to see themselves realistically, seeing both their strengths and their weaknesses.
People with low self-esteem despise themselves, often do not see their own abilities, and do not dare to try even if they can do well; Conceited people, self-righteous, often overestimate themselves, look down on others, and be self-righteous. Confident people are able to see themselves realistically, seeing both their strengths and their weaknesses.
Whether it is a conceited person or a person with low self-esteem, their perception of themselves is unrealistic and incorrect. Conceit and low self-esteem are both misconceptions of self-confidence. Conceit is the great enemy of progress, the bane of failure, and conceit will keep people away from success; Low self-esteem can make people negative and pessimistic, lose their enterprising spirit and even give up on themselves.
Both conceit and low self-esteem can have a detrimental impact on our life and learning, keeping us away from success.
Only a confident person can look at themselves realistically, seeing both their strengths and their weaknesses. Self-confidence enables us to take the initiative and actively deal with various problems and difficulties in life, and enables us to maintain a peaceful mood and enjoy the joy of life calmly, which can make our ordinary and limited life extend brightly. I hope everyone can be a confident person.
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1.Inferiority complex is mainly based on psychological self-negative suggestion, its formation can be accidental, or it can exist for a period of time, because of inferiority and bring great negative impact to themselves and even society, they should self-reflect, consciously enhance their self-confidence through exercise. The establishment of self-confidence is far more difficult than the formation of low self-esteem, and it takes a relatively long period of time to complete.
Therefore, in the stage of enhancing self-confidence, we must have a certain amount of perseverance, and we should not give up halfway and rush for quick success. And don't think that you are hopeless, because there is no absolute impossibility in the world, as long as you work hard, nothing will stump you.
2.Self-confidence is self-affirmation and belief from the heart.
Self-confidence is very important in interpersonal communication, career and work.
As long as you believe in yourself, others will believe in you.
3.Conceit is overestimating oneself. Human self-consciousness mainly includes three aspects, self-awareness, self-will, and self-emotional experience.
People evaluate themselves by self-knowledge, and some people evaluate themselves too highly, which is manifested as conceit; Some people underestimate themselves, which is manifested as inferiority.
The conceit is often expressed in words, actions, etc. A conceited person makes people feel good. There are some people who also feel good on the surface, but they don't have to be conceited.
The essence of conceit is ignorance. It is mainly manifested in unawareness. As the saying goes: "Those who know themselves know", "People have self-knowledge". There are two manifestations of ignorance, one is blind obedience and the other is arrogance. Conceit sometimes manifests itself as hubris.
Conceit is not exactly the same as looking down on people. The conceit is mainly to overestimate oneself, which sometimes manifests itself in looking down on those around you.
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Low self-esteem: People with low self-esteem, who despise themselves and write about themselves, cannot see their ability to do well, and do not dare to try.
Conceited: A conceited person, self-righteous, overestimating himself to look down on others, self-righteous.
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Self-confidence Self-evaluation is reasonable.
Low self-esteem Low self-esteem.
Conceited Thinking too highly of oneself.
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