What if you don t like children very much, and you always don t like children?

Well, I've had a problem with you before.

But now it's okay, yes, you first find out why you don't like children, for example, the children you've seen are so dirty, so rude, they have everything that other people do, and there are a lot of children who have problems.

After you find the reason, you think about what you would do if you have a child, and after you think of a solution, you will gradually improve this mentality. During this time, you look at those cute children, who are very polite, and it will make a lot of difference to you. It is particularly effective.

If I have a child, I will dress him up handsomely, at least very differently, and if it is a daughter, then I will discuss with my wife what kind of hairstyle she will wear in the future, and what type of clothes she will wear.

If it's your own child, you'll love it. I promise... I have a woman who hates children. When I see it, I get irritable. In the end, I was born and liked it very much. But I still don't like other people's children.

It's normal, when one day you have your own child and become a father, you will be attracted by the child's smile and smile, and you will feel that your flesh and blood are connected, and you will love your own child deeply, and you will also find that other people's children are very cute.

Be hypocritical, you must be very fond of children.

If you don't like it, it's not yours, yours you have to like it.

My mom likes me.

Clause. 1. Psychological problems are divided into personality problems, childhood experiences, social pressure, etc., as follows:

1. Personality problems: If you don't hate children for any reason, it may have something to do with your own personality, because some people are withdrawn, indifferent to people, and have no way to establish intimate relationships with people, so they don't like children.

2. Related to childhood experience: hate children and their own childhood experience, if you do not establish a close and safe attachment relationship with your parents when you are young, it will be difficult to form a good parent-child relationship, then you will hate children.

3. Social pressure: Social pressure causes the psychology of hating children, such as the heavy economic burden, unwilling to have children or raise children, and even feel that giving birth to children is a huge burden of the sedan chair, at this time there will be a psychology of hating children.

Clause. 2. Stress reaction: If some children are particularly annoying or have encountered bear children, making themselves particularly painful, then it is a normal reaction to hate children.

In fact, you don't like children, there are a few reasons to speculate.

First of all, the first point, some people are born with a dislike of children, because the personality of the individual is different, so there are many people who don't like children.

On the other hand, from an emotional point of view, if a person is affected by the family when he is young, for example, the parents are not harmonious, the children are unhappy in the family, or you are engaged in a job that makes you very unhappy with your children, then you will not dislike children.

In fact, people are different at different stages, so when you are young, you may be busy with work or play and don't like children, but as you grow older, you will like it when you are lonely in your heart.

Because everyone has everyone's hidden fluid attitude, he has his thoughts, because sometimes you think that children are messy, children are noisy, and you think it will affect your mood.

In fact, you should find that children are cute and innocent, and you will slowly find that Youyu likes children.

But when you touch Zen, you can laugh because you think that children are often unreasonable, and they can't communicate, and they don't understand when they talk to them, so it's very troublesome, and naturally I don't want to spend time with them.

Sometimes most people don't like children very much, because children are too noisy when they are young.