Is life the same in any city? Positive energy and confidence are urgently needed.

Trust your husband, his success is your success, and your support is the foundation of his success.

People are willing to stay in first-tier cities, or big cities, often because they can get more opportunities. Living in a big city is very tiring and tiring, so tired that I don't want to say the word tired or any word. Men have a competitive heart and want to prove themselves or make life better for their families.

I also live in a big city, and I have the same thoughts as your husband, and I wonder if I want to stick to it. Once a man's confidence has been hit, it is very difficult to pick it up again. Give him some time, maybe he can do it.

If you can't do it, you just go back to your hometown, it's not a shame, maybe we have lost many opportunities in the big city, but we are more likely to win the time, health, and good attitude that others envy.

It's different, different cities have different feelings, and each city has its own business card, which is a characteristic that distinguishes it from other cities. You can go to places close to Shanghai, and there are also places that are not too stressful. It also has to do with what kind of work you do.

It depends on the mentality, in fact, you may choose to change to a more relaxed job. Otherwise, find some ways to relax, such as travel... In **life, you need to have a reason to support yourself, depending on what your reason is.

Drop all your work. Travel everywhere. After seeing the mountains and rivers, your state of mind is different

It's different, just as you said from a comfortable home, then that home will make you feel different, but here is your husband, is this also a position that must be insisted on, I don't like the atmosphere between people in Shanghai, but you have a position, then please overcome it, it will be overcome.

The main thing is that your thoughts, in ** should all be the same.

In fact, Shanghai is a big city, although there is a lot of pressure, but as long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed. But you may not like this fast-paced life very much, but because of your husband's work, it is also difficult to do, it is better to discuss with your husband and go to another city to develop, as long as you have the strength, you can shine anywhere.

With this thought, why not follow your heart, what is the purpose of living a lifetime? In a limited life, live freely.

At the same time, he talked about what he could do and confidently promised what he wanted to make the students gain. All this made me feel the vitality of youth, the spirit of dedication, and the respectability. The energy is released in the phase of the collision, and the creative activities of the student union are the best way to combine them, so that the individual and group energy can burst out.

Teachers and students can see the cultural festival.

It is not easy for Eun to persist until **.

In fact, living in every city will have its own pressures. Whatever it is, it is impossible for a person to live without stress, and it is impossible to progress

Be understanding and considerate of each other, and since you can't change the environment, let yourself adapt to the environment and believe in yourself. As long as you use the eye of discovery, you will see a different person or a different environment, and you will have motivation and confidence in what you do, and you should be that he is still by your side, at least not lonely.

Go to a second-tier city to experience it.

In every city, you live by yourself, and if you don't change yourself, the city can't change anything.

First of all, the information I can give you is not necessarily positive, it should be said neutral!

I have lived and worked in many places across the country (at least once a year, usually three years, and the company stipulates that three years to change land), and I was in business at that time, including Guizhou, which was the second-to-last province in the country in terms of economic growth that year, and first-tier provinces and cities such as Shanghai and Zhejiang. I feel that life is the same, there is no big difference, the key is "belonging". I'm different from you, I went there to work, it's a battlefield, but I'm still very nostalgic for some places!

However, the sense of belonging in most places is very poor, because I know that whether I like it or not, I don't belong there, but you are different, if you really choose to take root in a certain city, if you don't have a sense of belonging, and you can't cultivate a sense of belonging, it's really hard to do, you don't have a rear! Especially in a city as exclusive as Shanghai.

The pressure is given by yourself and forced by the city, why did you come to Shanghai to develop in the first place? Are you different from what you thought you were now? To become an elite does not have to be in Shanghai, in fact, it is not a very good platform, the more it is competition, the more dirty and dirty it is.

Maybe you have more living space in other places, if you live an unhappy life, it is recommended that you go out for a walk and relax, sometimes you are hypnotized by yourself, you feel more and more depressed, you may be good to relax, if you really can't do it, don't insist, go to other places to develop, life is short, especially in this apocalyptic year, you are not happy If the end really comes, how wronged you have been in the past few years! Even if the end does not come, in the future, when you look back on your life and find that there is only unhappiness and depression, then even if you succeed, what's the point? It's better to live happily without heart and lungs.

A city doesn't care if you're depressed, can't adapt to it, or leave it, forcing it usually doesn't end well.

I have no say in how to choose and estimate what you know in your heart and how to live. If you can find a sense of belonging, it is best to adapt to it, if you can't think about breaking it, it is estimated that you are not too old, we should be peers, then we have a lot of opportunities, it is not bad to try more, and accordingly we have a long way to go, and it will be painful to choose the wrong one not to correct it, of course, it will be a long time to be num......b

The magic capital of Shanghai dare not stay.

Put the mentality well, whether it is life or work in the first-tier cities, it is certain, the motherland is good, go out to play more during the holidays, as long as today's things are done well, there is hope tomorrow, the requirements for themselves are too high, the ability is limited, it is difficult to achieve the expected results, people are easy to collapse, put the hurdle low, and slowly climb up.

Now this society is like this, if you want to achieve something, if you don't work hard and don't compete, you will be eliminated. Maybe you just want a stable job and a stable life, but you have to understand that you have to adapt to this society, you can build a good relationship with the people in the office, supplement your knowledge, and so on.

It's the same, no matter what work you do, the important thing in life is to work hard, do your best, work hard, live happily, be right, have a clear conscience, and don't be too difficult for yourself, just do your best, be happy, life is so short after all.

It's different, the consumption in first-tier cities is relatively high!

Let's be more comfortable in a small city with low consumption.

Learn to take a break and try to adapt and not focus on the pressure.

It's all the same, as long as you have a calm mind.

Look at the mentality, the tiredness is caused by yourself.

Alas,,, two people with different interests, I don't know what to say.