How does everyone feel about a long distance relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think that to be in love is to experience a very intimate feeling! If you are in a different place, you can't be together every day, in other words, you can't show up immediately when you have difficulties, you can't share happy things with you, and you can't experience that wonderful feeling! After a long time, the relationship will fade, so the long-distance relationship is a test of feelings, but time and geography are separated, and over time, there will be a kind of life, and it will fade.

    The feeling is slowly gone! Some of the feelings can only be understood but not spoken! Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    A long-distance relationship is not only a relationship, but also a persistence

    Long-distance relationships are really tiring, it's hard to stick to it, and there are too many variables ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not good, if you love each other, the separation of the two places will only make the other two uncomfortable. If you are just in love, that is, the relationship is not particularly strong, the separation between the two places will only deepen the distance.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's difficult, I'm also breaking up because of a different place, if you're talking, you must not be too far apart!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I heard my sister say that they usually break up...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you believe him, you can. I think it's going to be tiring. I want the other person to go to the same city for themselves.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's more troublesome to meet, so if you really like it, make the most of the moment you can meet

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Support, the distance produces beauty and gets tired together every day, and the goddess will also be aesthetically tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's hard to require a strong trust from two people.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Turnip and cabbage have their own love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's pretty good for a long-distance relationship. You can also have some ambiguous relationships with other people when you are in a long-distance relationship. But in my heart, I want to distinguish a priority, who is the main one?

    Who do you want most? 1. When you are about to start a long-distance relationship, you must first be prepared to deal with the pain of lovesickness. For lovers who live in the same city, they can see each other often and have a very close emotional exchange.

    But for both parties in a long-distance relationship, it is difficult to see each other because they are in different cities, so the feelings of longing will have a great impact on both parties. ......Therefore, when you are about to start a long-distance relationship, you must be mentally prepared for the suffering of lovesickness caused by it, and avoid having a bad impact on yourself because of excessive lovesickness. 2. The two parties in a long-distance relationship cannot meet each other, and they must be prepared for the problem of how to communicate.

    If lovers are in the same city, then they can meet each other at any time, and it is very convenient to communicate. ......But for long-distance relationships, two people are in different cities and can't meet each other, and communication will be very difficult, which will have a very big impact on each other's feelings. ......Therefore, when you are about to start a long-distance relationship, you must be prepared for communication problems between two people and properly deal with the reality of a long-distance relationship.

    3. The end of love is marriage. Both parties in a long-distance relationship should face the issue of marriage rationally. When two people fall in love, the ultimate goal is to get married.

    For lovers in the same city, this is not a problem, as long as the love develops to a certain extent, you can talk about marriage. ......However, for long-distance relationships, two people live in two places, and they will face very great difficulties in their lives after marriage, for this problem, both parties must face it rationally and deal with it properly according to the specific situation, so as to ensure that the relationship between the two parties can develop smoothly and quietly, and finally obtain a happy result.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I have also had the experience of a long-distance relationship, but like most long-distance relationships, my ex-girlfriend and I did not end up in the end, and for long-distance couples, I have the following suggestions, I hope to be able to help them learn from and help.

    First of all, for long-distance couples, we must understand one thing in our hearts, that is, the state of two people getting together less and getting along more will inevitably have a great impact on the relationship between two people, especially for girls, often because long-distance relationships will make their hearts lack a certain sense of security, and they will be surrounded by loneliness for a long time, so as a boy, they should still care more about their girlfriends in different places, and often contact each other to alleviate this loneliness in the other party's heart, so that it may be able to make it The relationship between the two lasted longer.

    On the other hand, if the couple really wants to go to the end, then one of them must make a sacrifice, if they always get along in this way of separating the two places, then they must be prepared to be ready to break up one day, because the long-distance relationship lasts for a year or two, maybe there is no problem, but if you want the couple to keep the long-distance relationship for 3 to 4 years or even more than five years, it is obviously unlikely, especially when two people get married, In fact, the damage to two people is more serious than breaking up at the stage of a long-distance relationship, so for those young people who are ready to talk about a long-distance relationship, they must be cautious when starting this relationship, and they must consider the consequences that must be borne when starting this relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My long-distance relationship happened when I was in college, one in Wuhan and the other in Baoding. My long-distance relationship lasted for 3 years. In the end, we didn't come together, Lao Yan flew apart, and forgot about each other.

    Long-distance relationships depend on the person who keeps them in close contact to survive. Although it is a couple, but separated from the two places, the individual will feel empty and lonely, there is no long-term connection, the relationship between the two people will only get weaker and weaker, and there should be more communication between husband and wife. Don't connect with anything, you can also talk about your daily life.

    The scariest thing about a long-distance relationship is that after the relationship cools down, they only connect with each other when something happens. Therefore, it is essential to maintain a close connection between different couples.

    Long-distance relationships have to create opportunities to meet in order to be together. Although the transportation is convenient, it is unrealistic for most ordinary couples to meet frequently, in addition to financial reasons, there are also reasons for work, study, vacation arrangements, etc. So on the days when you can meet, on the days when you can stay together, express the love you want to express!

    Do what you want to do again on the days when you don't see each other! Play games with your boyfriend, go shopping with your girlfriend, and express what you want to say! If possible, take a long vacation or meet to release long-accumulated thoughts.

    In short, both parties in a long-distance relationship appear in each other's plans for the future, and both parties share common goals. Together, we can progress towards the goal of prosperity and for a better future boys to be more mature and stable, and girls should trust their other half to work together and progress together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Long-distance relationships have always been controversial. The person with the happy ending said: "A different place is a lifetime." "Our feelings stand the test. But most people have collapsed a few times, and after several twists and turns, they are only separated by scars.

    Compared to couples who can see each other often and take care of each other, a long-distance relationship is like having a virtual pet in your phone just for viewing. As a result, the following problems arise.

    He's never around when you need him.

    When you are sick, other people's objects come to you as quickly as possible, buy medicine, feed medicine, cook, feed, and take care of everything. But your partner can only tell you through their mobile phones: drink plenty of hot water, remember to take medicine, see a doctor.

    When you have your period, someone else's object is a good day. Prepare brown sugar water and various supplies in advance, your object can only tell you through the phone: drink more hot water, boil some brown sugar water.

    If the weather changes, everyone else's object is to send umbrellas and clothes, and it's just you, either waiting for the rain to stop or running in the rain. Compared to the people around you who can take care of you, all you get is painless.

    Your anniversary can only be done with a mobile phone red envelope or a courier number.

    The usual days are gone, and it's understandable that I can't be with them. But even if it is your anniversary, there are important and special moments between you, and you can only go to the movies, eat, shop, and go home alone with the red envelope in your mobile phone. Or better yet, he calculates the date in advance and prepares a surprise for you.

    But so what? All you look forward to is meeting each other, shopping hand in hand with a normal couple, sitting in a row, watching a full movie, and that's it.

    You're trying to plan a meeting, but he's secretly looking for a spare tire.

    This is probably the saddest aspect of long-distance relationships. One is to plan for the future, and the other is to be ready to leave. When you show up in his city full of joy, you think he will be as happy and surprised as you are, but he is always evasive and absent-minded.

    You want to go to his school and his company to see his living environment, but he blindly refuses, for fear that you will find out that he has been operating for a long time. You think he's going to introduce you to his friends, but he's actually thinking about how to get you to leave. with your indifference, extinguish the joy of your heart.

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