When love is confessed, will it change?

Love? What is it? In order to get the happiness we want, we often pay too much Dare to ask how many real "you love me" perfect relationship in the world Who can see the bitterness and sorrow?

In the end, love is just a feeling, a kind of selfless and fearless sacrifice for the one in your heart without asking for anything in return; As long as we look at him (her) is happy, we will bless him (her) with a smile, even if we turn around and silently wipe away the tears hanging in the corners of our eyes unconsciously; It is a painful and happy ......When you love someone, everything you have revolves around him (her), and inadvertently we may ignore that feelings should be reciprocal, and we repeatedly ask each other to give the same enthusiasm while giving sincerity However, no one is perfect, and everyone is unable to completely ignore the good intentions of the other half due to personality factors At this time, timely communication is particularly important Open your heart for your beloved him (her), since you love him (her), don't let his (her) heart bear everything alone, Learn to tolerate and understand each other, and at the same time give him (her) a rational love, so that he (her) firmly believes that your love belongs to him (her) alone ......Love, that's it, is there any more words? The management of love is also a science, study well, in the end, we will eventually harvest a perfect love of our own, good luck ......

Love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is care rather than pampering, love is mutual blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But it is the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts.

It is necessary, which will make both parties more honest, make both parties cherish the relationship more, and let the other party understand their own person, so I think it is very necessary.

You have to be honest. Because two people are together, and two people are together, I feel that the most important thing is trust, so I should tell each other about myself.

If the other party asks, tell him, if he doesn't ask, there is no need to confess, the past will be over, and if you say it too bluntly, both parties will feel uncomfortable.

Personally, I don't think it's necessary to confess my past.

For the past, if the other party does not take the initiative to solve the problem, then it is best not to mention it.

We should learn to forget the things of the past, and we should still look forward as a person.

In a relationship, it is necessary to confess your past to the other person. Because you have to be responsible for him, you have to tell him all your history, and he doesn't mind being able to be with him.

In fact, in this relationship. If the other party doesn't ask about your previous emotions, I don't think it's necessary to confess some of your previous emotional things to the other party, and if the other party asks, there's no need to hide it, I think it's still. Let's need each other!

In a relationship, if the other party asks about your previous things, then I feel the need to confess some of my previous things to the other party, and I think if the other party doesn't ask, then don't talk about it.

In the relationship, of course, it is necessary to confess yourself to the other party, but you can't confess your previous things Because the previous things have passed, it is impossible to go back, if the other party has no way to accept you, I am afraid that your previous relationship will end So don't easily tell each other about your previous things.

In the relationship, if the other party mentions these problems, then you can talk to him appropriately, but there is no need to say too much, which will affect the emotions between you.

There is absolutely no need to mention the former, which is very meaningless. Almost everyone has friends from the past, but the current one is more important. So there is no need to mention the past.

The relationship between two people can only talk about these things when they progress to a certain extent, and at the beginning, both people do not know each other very well, so they naturally want to leave a good impression on each other as much as possible.

In a relationship, there is no need to confess your past to the other person, because that is already in the past tense. If you want to confess, you must find an appropriate occasion to say it.

In a relationship, what needs to be done is to be honest with each other, if the other party is more curious about each other's past, you can have a good chat, the most important thing in the relationship is to trust each other and tolerate each other.

It depends on how well you get along, do you think he cares about your past? I don't think you need to take the initiative to say this if he didn't ask, after all, he didn't participate in the past! It's up to you to decide what to say and what not to say.

If necessary, it's better to be frank, or the other party knows that there will be ideas, and it will also affect your relationship.

It is necessary, if two people want to get along for a long time, then there should be nothing to hide.

If it involves getting along with two people in the future, you have to confess the previous situation to the other party. If it doesn't have any impact on the two of you in the future, it doesn't matter, it's all up to you.

To be honest, ex, this thing can really be said to be the fuse of feelings. When talking about the ex with the current one, it is inevitable that the other party will be angry, avoidant, and uncomfortable. So we have to learn to compare our hearts to our hearts, and think that if you hear your current and yourself mention his predecessor, you will lose your temper and be jealous.

Whether or not to talk about the predecessor is actually your own freedom, of course, it also depends on your current position, which varies from person to person.

If the other party insists on knowing the past, you can explain it to him, but don't get too involved in the trivial matters of your ex and your own past, just take it lightly, after all, the past of you and your ex is extremely harsh in the ears of the current one. And the original intention and purpose of telling him is just to let him know about your ex, show that you are emotionally honest with the current one, not because the ex is secretive, generously admit it, let him know that you mentioned that the ex is not still in the old relationship, but a kind of loyalty to the current one, not to make him feel that the ex is still emotionally threatened.

If the other party really doesn't want to know at all, then you have to be careful, it's best not to mention it again, after all, the other party has already told you that you can't listen to your ex, so it is the best policy to live a good life with the current one and devote yourself to the relationship with the current one.

If you want to be happily married with your current incumbent now, I don't think it's necessary to talk to your incumbent about your previous emotional experience! If the other person doesn't ask, don't take the initiative to say it. If the other person asks, don't tell the other person everything, just talk about it.

Sometimes deception is well-intentioned, if you tell the other party everything before, sometimes it will cause some unnecessary trouble, and it may even affect your life. It is not necessary to say it to the other party completely.

Although love is honest and honest, it is only what you and your current canteen have done since you met, and there is no need to talk about previous emotional experiences. Talking about the emotional experience of the past with the current one will only increase the misunderstanding and unhappiness between you, and more things are better than less things, and talking should be the same. So my opinion is that it's better not to talk about your past experiences with your current one.

I don't think there's any need to confess, because the past has passed, so there is no need to talk about the previous love history with the current one.

I don't think there is a need to confess, because the most important thing for two people together is the present, and if you talk about the past, it is likely to affect the relationship between two people.

There is no need for anything. The past is gone, and I don't feel the need to say it.

Generally speaking, for the sake of emotional stability, it is necessary to be frank enough between lovers, but whether it must be frank enough is also to be decided according to the specific situation.

1. The relationship between couples must have a certain foundation, so it is enough to be frank enough to strengthen mutual understanding and enhance feelings.

In fact, for us, couples do need to confess, and this is based on a certain emotional basis, if the lack of the necessary emotional foundation, then the choice of confession will also affect the feelings, so all kinds of education are essential, only enough confession can enhance the friendship between each other, improve the quality of feelings.

2. To analyze specific problems, if the relationship is in the initial stage, early confession is not conducive to the deepening of feelings.

In fact, for us, there is also a certain degree of resistance between couples, so in the early stage of relationship development, if you blindly choose to confess to each other, then it will undoubtedly cause some harm to the other party, so it should be decided again according to the character of the other party, and when confessing, you should carefully consider a suitable way to strive for the other party's understanding.

3. Proper confession is a must, and for us, real couples should understand each other and support each other.

In fact, for us, today's things need to be confessed enough, and it is the quality of life of two people in the future, so if you want to have a good relationship, then you should confess to each other, so that you can deepen the feelings between each other, let the other party know more about yourself, and it is also conducive to the improvement of feelings.

In general, if you are in the initial stage of love, then there is no need to choose to confess at this time, because if you don't handle it properly, it will cause harm to the other party, but the real relationship should be based on mutual understanding and mutual trust, so it is essential to be frank enough.

Indeed, mutual trust is essential if lovers want to last a long time, and the simplest and crudest way to make each other trust each other is to confess.

1. Unable to announce the relationship, the admirer pursues it frantically.

Xiaoying and her boyfriend work in the same company, because their company prohibits office romances, so they have to choose an underground relationship, and even their best friend doesn't know that they are in a relationship.

A few months ago, a new colleague Xiao Jing came to their company, because he had an intersection with Xiaoying at work, and he secretly fell in love with Xiaoying after coming and going.

Later, Xiaojing also made a series of pursuits, giving gifts, which was also carried out secretly, after all, the company's system was there, and if it was destroyed, it would be notified and criticized.

2. Whether to tell your boyfriend that he has a pursuit of the opposite sex.

Then you will clearly reject him and let him die that heart."

I refused, but he didn't give up, and I couldn't help it. Actually, that's not the main thing, I'm annoyed about whether or not to tell my boyfriend.

It turns out that the reason why Xiaoying has such worries is because her boyfriend is a suspicious boy by nature, and he usually gets suspicious whenever something happens. And that's exactly what Xiaoying was worried about, she was afraid that everything after telling her boyfriend would not be explained.

3. The pursuit of the opposite sex should be told to the other half.

In fact, this is also the situation that many couples will face now, in life, it is inevitable that there will be people of the opposite sex, which is very normal. However, whether to tell the other half or not does bother many people in love.

In my opinion, it should be told. Take Xiaoying's emotional experience to analyze, it is obvious that Xiaoying can no longer control the situation, and in the face of a relationship that cannot be made public, she alone cannot get rid of the pursuit of her admirers. And this means that there are many possibilities that cannot be hidden, at that time, if a suspicious boyfriend appears, the relationship will face a breakup in minutes.

Besides, even if her boyfriend is not suspicious, no one will be happy that she is hidden. And telling the other party is different, not only will it not bury mines in the future, but there will also be suggestions from the other half, and it is better for two people to find a way than to come alone. Of course, if a girl pursues a boy, and the boy has a partner, he should also tell his girlfriend the same reason as the above point.

The opposite sex pursues himself, and it is not his fault, but if you don't tell your other half, it is equivalent to taking the responsibility on yourself, and if the other party finds out later, then it will become very serious. Therefore, be brave enough to tell your other half that love needs to be maintained together, and you also need to confess to each other so that you can have a long-term relationship.

It's best not to confess your love history.

First, even if we are loving lovers, in addition to the love relationship, we are first and foremost an independent individual. As individuals, we have our own thoughts, concerns, or secrets. Just as we didn't like to have our parents peek at our diaries when we were kids, my opinion today doesn't want my current lovers to know about my love history.

The past has become the past, and everything good and bad with former lovers is experienced by former lovers and has nothing to do with the current relationship. Love is a very selfish thing, such as drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold. As long as each other in the relationship is responsible for each other's relationship, no one else needs to know too much about it or talk about it.

Second, not confessing the love history to the lover is the greatest respect for the past lover, and it is also the greatest protection for the current lover. has become a past relationship, there are many beautiful experiences, and there are also many irreconcilable contradictions. Revealing a good experience to a current lover may make him mistakenly think that he still has some nostalgia for the past, so that it will affect the current relationship.

And the unbearable and regretful past revealed to the current lover is not only a denial of the former lover, but also a worry for the current lover if the current relationship cannot end well. All the good and bad in a relationship are best known to the other party in love, but many reasons for good or bad are likely to be just because of each other. Therefore, whether the past is good or not, let him stay in the past and not evaluate the former lover, which is an affirmation of the past relationship and a respect for the past lover, and if the current relationship cannot go to the end, it is the greatest protection for the current lover.

Together we love you with all my heart; We are not together, and our love and separation will be well kept in my heart. It's not that you or me are good or bad, it's that we're no longer suitable together, but, at this point, good luck.

Third, no matter what kind of person the past lover was, as long as he confessed to the current lover, it was inevitable that there would be a psychology of comparison. There are some immature people, maybe they are indeed looking for their current lovers with the shadow of their past lovers, and after confessing, they will undoubtedly let their current lovers know that they have become substitutes, which is not conducive to the development of feelings. And even if there is no direct replacement relationship between the current and the ex, once our concept of mate selection is formed, the lovers we are looking for will always have some commonalities.

Once you fall into the whirlpool of comparison, it will also have a negative impact on the development of feelings.

Therefore, I would like to suggest today that you should not confess your love history to your lover. Let the past pass, cherish the present to go to the future together.