What happens when love meets affection

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words...

Choosing family affection will make you suffer for a while and avoid detours!

It is said that blood is thicker than water, but when two people come together, and finally form a family, and live together for many years, then their feelings have basically changed from love to family affection, and most people who have been together for a long time can change from couples to husband and wife, which will make people a little difficult to adapt, but after all, it still takes time and energy to adapt, because dullness is the true meaning of life.

Accept this emotional shift

The relationship between husband and wife who have been together for a long time has changed from love to family affection, which is an inevitable trend, and we can't forcibly deny it at all, but what does accepting this fact represent? It's just that it represents that the relationship state of the two people has gone from hot love to dull. I believe that all the responsibilities, romance and love still exist, and there is a sense of mission, because two people have the same goal - to make the formed family gradually better.

It is very likely that in this process, we will continue to adapt and cry, and after a long time, we will find that this is the best love outcome.

Cherish all the moments in your life

Life is too short, and when you look back, you will find that there is nothing left, but from being together with close people to getting married and starting a family, you all seem to remember each other's important moments. You have the same life experience, sometimes you will have conflicts, you will often break up when you are in love, and you will quarrel when you get married because of children or family problems, but you will not easily talk about divorce, because you know that if you talk too much, you may be realistic. So if I can understand that love has become family affection, and love has changed from hot love to dull, then I will gladly accept all this, and still do what I should do in life, but never forget to look for romance with my lover who has lived hand in hand for so many years, do new things, and keep our feelings fresh.

People who are not related by blood can be so close! You will feel that at a certain moment, but you are the only one in this world, it seems that time can change blood relations!

When love becomes family affection, it is actually easy to overdo it, we just need to insist on each other's responsibilities and love each other, so it is enough, even if we change roles, we will not change our original intentions.

I will make a very natural transition, because after a long time of love, it will become family affection, and if you choose to marry your other half, he will be your family after marriage.

Two people have been living together for a very long time, and there will definitely be such changes, but they should also take their responsibilities and create some surprises to make each other's feelings better.

I think it's just a normal transition, and when the love reaches a certain level, he will slowly change to family affection, you just need to be ready.

I will communicate more with each other, keep abreast of each other's current thoughts, and will be more tolerant and considerate of each other, and will not quarrel with each other over trivial matters.

I usually choose to go with the flow, this kind of emotional over-the-top is the best, excessive intervention may cause problems in your relationship.

I should also learn or try to change feelings, and many times I still don't want such a thing to happen, and I don't want to mix the two feelings.

I will take good care of this relationship. Because family affection is also more important.

I will communicate with each other more, keep abreast of each other's thoughts, and try to solve the problems we encounter, and I will slowly adapt to this transition.

No, love is love that contains love, basically it will not become family affection, and the essence of the two is different.

I think it's true, my understanding of love starts with appearance, ends with talent, and then slowly accumulates friendship with each other in the process of getting along, so as to move towards a farther future.

Many years ago, I thought that falling in love was about getting married. But in fact, people need to experience how to love others and how to be loved. Two people change from strangers to lovers, not simply becoming a couple.

The most pitiful thing is that falling in love is because two people begin to attract each other, and under the effect of hormones, they will magnify each other's advantages and ignore or care less about each other's shortcomings. But after a long time, if you live together, many unknown habits and problems will appear.

But we love someone, and at the same time, we have to accept their shortcomings, because no one is perfect.

So, if you have successfully changed from strangers to lovers, to each other's marriage partners. So what pitfalls to avoid?

First: Before getting married, you must understand the relationship between him and his parents, the way they get along, and the way they get along with their parents.

If they are in the house, they let their mother do all the housework, and if they think that the woman will cook and do laundry. Even if your boyfriend is not like this, it is difficult to say that the coexistence of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not cause you trouble in the future.

Second: Before marriage, regarding the bride price, if the other party's conditions are poor, give an appropriate amount according to the situation, but you can't refuse to give it. Of course, if the other party is still reluctant to give or unwilling to give if the other party has good conditions, then he will not cherish you much. Let's think about it.

Third: Observe how your boyfriend will deal with your relationship when he is angry. It is still a great reference for your future life. If the cold war is over, it won't coax you and get out. I'm afraid it's not very suitable for marriage.

Select the object you want to select:

1.The three views are the same.

2.Fully respect your opinions (such as who to go to for the New Year, it is negotiable).

3.The elders in the family do not favor sons over daughters.

4.The in-laws are not stubborn, easy to get along with, and character is very important.

5.Don't be a mother, be assertive.

Do not cohabit with a man for a long time (more than 3 years) and have no intention of getting married. You have to stop your losses early. Otherwise, the cost of silence will make it difficult for you to choose, you may know that you can't get married, but you don't want to take the initiative to separate.

Time is a terrible thing. I hope you find happiness and choose someone who likes and appreciates each other. Choose the person who becomes good with you, if you are together, you have become depraved, even if it is not a good love!