Tell me about marrying away for love?

The feeling is the feeling of abandoning family affection. True love, people who really love you, will not make you embarrassed, let alone let you abandon your family affection. So I won't.

No, only if you have experienced it yourself will you understand that there is nothing more selfless than family affection. He has been with him all his life, without any demand, no matter when he will support you without hesitation and help you silently behind your back.

Love and family affection are the two most important things in life, there is no room for choice, both are indispensable in life, but when there is a contradiction between the two, I will definitely choose family affection.

Love can be transformed into affection, but I wouldn't do that.

No. Love is short-lived, but family affection is long-lasting. Love will change, but family affection will not change.

Parents are the people who accompany the first half of life, lovers are people who accompany the second half of life, parents and lovers are equally important in life. If you marry far away for love, you will definitely owe something to your parents, and you can't always be by your parents' side, and you can't always fulfill your daughter's filial piety. I can only call my parents more often, buy some things for my parents and send them to make up for some of my debts.

Although I am far away from my parents, I have never regretted getting my husband and my current life. ‍‍

I'll be adamant: no. Of course, love and family affection are the best, if you have to choose one, it must be family affection greater than love, it is not easy for parents to raise themselves, even if it is blocked, most of them are for their own considerations.

Definitely not, family affection is something that is lost and there is no one, and you can find the next one if there is no love. I believe that no one will want to see their loved ones sad and sad, and their hearts will be very painful, and love can be forgotten.

The person who gives up family affection for love is a fool and an impulse, and when he has done a thousand sails, he will find that everything else in life is variable except for family affection.

My words are definitely not. Please don't trample on your parents' love in the name of love. Don't wait until the end to regret it.

Of course not. The love of giving up family affection is not rational, and one day you will regret it. Love can be found when it is gone, but how to find family affection when it is gone, he has nothing to replace.

Don't encourage marriage for the sake of love. A lot of people say that if you can't accept marriage, you can prove that you don't love the person enough. If you accept the marriage, then you will cherish the relationship even more.

But "if" is just "if". In fact, you can't prove everything if you marry him far away!

For a woman, long-distance marriage is not only a matter of distance, but also means that she can barely see her loved ones. She can only rely on her husband! But love, no one can say for sure that you can't guarantee that the person you love will always be with you; You can't guarantee that the person you love won't change his job in the future.

Brave you, go with love. If he understands the feeling, it's good for you and for him; And if he doesn't know how to cherish the feeling? If you marry far away, will you worry about your parents? Are you, marrying far away, and bearing all the pain alone?

A married woman is very lonely in her heart! What sad things can not always be told to parents because they are afraid to stay away from them, nor can they go back to visit them often, only report happiness and not say worry! The daughter who married far away is also very strong!

Because we are far away from our parents, we cannot rely on them. We can only be strong and reassure our parents. They are the most tired.

The ancients said that when parents are here, they don't travel far. Girls who marry far away are destined to suffer more than ordinary people. If they marry well and win their bets, they will not be far from their parents. If they lose, they just want their parents' daughters to know that it's not too late for them to come back.

Everyone wants to be able to have a happy life.

Building a happy family is one of the most important prerequisites for living a happy life. Therefore, if you pursue a happy and sweet love and marry the person you love the most, you can live a happy and fulfilling life. In the process of pursuing their sweet love and happy marriage, some people choose to marry far away.

The so-called long-distance marriage is to marry oneself far away, which is far away from one's hometown, at least not in the same city. In such a state, you will stay away from your parents' home and not see your parents and other relatives for a long time.

Whether they will make the choice of marrying far away, different people have different answers.

Specifically, there are several specific options for whether to marry far away:

1. In order to pursue a happy life, some people choose to marry far away.

The purpose of marrying far away is to start a family with the person you love.

Therefore, for some people, since they have found their soulmate, then marrying him is the ultimate goal, and at this time, marrying far away is a natural thing. Even if there are some practical difficulties, it will not affect these people to make the choice of marrying far away.

2. Because they are reluctant to leave their parents and hometown, some people don't want to marry far away.

Some people are very dependent on their parents and are reluctant to leave their hometown.

For these people, it is difficult to accept such a state of life as they leave their home and hometown and stay away from their parents, so these people basically do not choose to marry far away, but choose their bosom lovers in or near their hometown.

3. For couples who truly love each other, for the sake of love, of course, they will choose to marry far away.

For two people who really love each other and decide to get married, if both parties are in different cities, the woman will inevitably marry far away.

Therefore, as long as the man and woman truly love each other, then, of course, the woman will choose to marry far away, marry him, and form a happy family.

4. Distant marriage needs to fully consider various practical difficulties in life.

Marrying far away means living in another city away from home.

The environment of that city is completely different from my hometown, and the habits of life are different, and I will face a new life there. Therefore, when you are faced with the choice of whether to marry far away, you need to carefully analyze all aspects of the situation, clarify whether there are factors that affect your life, consider whether you can solve these problems, and then make a final decision on whether to marry far away. In this way, the problem can be solved rationally.

According to the above analysis, long-distance marriage is the choice to pursue happy love and a happy marriage, but for the problem of long-distance marriage, you must also conduct a calm analysis and make rational judgments, so that you can truly get a happy life.

Each of us is very much looking forward to having love, because we all know that love is happy and very sweet.

Especially when we meet someone we like, then we want to be able to be with each other. Therefore, many people will be very serious and will work very hard to care about each other and love each other. Because they hope that through their care and love, two people will be able to establish a deeper relationship, and eventually they will be able to have a happy and sweet love.

We see a lot of people, they are all people who love each other and will be together, but there are also some long-distance relationships or people they love are in other places. So some people want to know if you can accept a long marriage.

Probably for some people, they can't accept such a long-distance marriage, and even their families can't accept it. Because for them, they want to be in the same city as their loved ones. At the very least, they should be close to each other, because this will allow them to be better with their families, and they can also take care of each other better.

But there are also some people, who eventually accept the leakage of the Lu Yuanjia because for them, they are. I hope that I can have love, because for them, what they value more is the relationship between two people. If two people can care for and love each other, and the two people also have a very good relationship, then even if they marry farther away, they don't feel that there is anything.

So we see that there are still many people who will eventually choose to marry far away for love, because for them. What they value more is the relationship between two people, as long as two people can care for and take care of each other, so that even if they marry farther away, they will be able to have a happy and sweet love.

A Guangxi girl said that she was going to marry far away to Shandong, and there were more than 2,000 of the two small ** theories, I browsed the imperial things, and the vast majority of them were against marrying far away, saying that it was too far away to go back to her mother's house, and she could only endure it without the support of her mother's family. There are also those who say that if a daughter marries far away, it is equivalent to raising her parents for nothing, and she can't fulfill her filial piety......

Not only sighed, what age is this, why are so many people still opposed to marrying far away? Most of the shortcomings of the long-distance marriage mentioned above should be the situation 30 years ago, when there were very few people who took planes, there was no high-speed rail, there was no car at home, and there was no **, let alone the Internet. But now these are not problems, airplanes and high-speed trains have pulled in the physical distance, and the Internet and mobile phones have pulled in the mental distance.

There's no need to worry too much about that, right?

However, there are indeed differences in living habits in different places, and this needs to be adapted, and cultural differences do exist. However, it is not difficult for young people to adapt, especially those who have gone to school or worked in the province, it should be easy to adapt.

So I don't think it's a problem to marry far away nowadays. It's just recommended not to live with your in-laws, because there are indeed some habits and cultures that are different, and a sentence or action that you think is normal may not be used to it in the eyes of your in-laws.

What do you think of Zhenzhi liquid? Do you support marrying for love?

It's not worth it. What is love? Is it an empty sentence, or a long ......

Love itself is very subjective, not an objective object, not an objective law, not an objective ...... time

Love is the subjective understanding of someone in the past time period, the subjective emotional giving of the present, and the plan ...... to be practiced

Everything is based on one's own subjectivity, so one cannot deny one's own subjective consciousness, let alone all past experiences.

If you give up your past for the sake of so-called love, it is not only a betrayal of your past, but also a false description of the future of love.

In the end, what does the love look like?

In addition, the word "far" can be considered because of the specific situation, after all, the transportation network, family travel ability are affecting this factor, can not only consider the distance of the road, after all, by plane, self-driving travel, bus travel, etc., compared with the speed and experience gap is still very largeFrom the perspective of love, your courage in doing so is commendable. In real life, many beautiful loves are lost to distance, and being able to make this kind of sacrifice for love shows that you are very filial piety and willing to give everything for love.

If you really get a good love because of this, it is very worth it for your love.

From a realistic point of view, you can't guarantee that your love is really as beautiful as you think, and even if your love is so beautiful, you can't guarantee that your in-laws are what you expect. If you regret it then, you have no chance of repentance, and even if you do, you will pay a great price for it. So from a practical point of view, you're taking a bit of a risk.

If it is from the perspective of relatives, it is not worth it for a girl to neglect her relatives if she marries far away. For your parents, if your daughter marries far away, it is equivalent to not having this daughter. If the daughter marries far away, she can go back to her parents' house several times a year, and even if she goes back to her parents' house, she can stay for a few days.

When parents are old, they think that their children can always be by their side. But if you marry far away, can you do it? For other relatives, how many times will you see each other in the second half of their lives?

For yourself, can you really be as simple and strong as you think, and you can be far away from your hometown where you have lived for half your life, and start your new life in a different place?

Whether it's worth it or not depends on which aspect you value, there is no right or wrong in this thing, there is something to gain, it depends on what you are willing to give up and what you get.

I hope you will consider this kind of problem from many aspects, after all, it is related to your happy life in the second half of your life!

Nowadays, many girls choose to marry far away, and the elders in the family think that marrying far away will not have a good time, so they try not to let their daughters marry far away. They don't want their daughter to marry far away, it's just that they are worried that their daughter will marry far away, and no one will come forward if they are wronged in their in-laws' family. And it's so far away, I don't know if my daughter can get by.

In other words, as long as the man treats the woman sincerely, the woman's parents will also be fulfilled. And now girls are very impulsive in the face of Mo Sui staring at love, even if they marry far away, they never think about the long term when facing love, as long as two people love each other, no one can stop it.

Distant marriage can also be very happy, my sister is far away marriage, married from the north to the man, at first my mother was very opposed, and then I couldn't stand my sister's soft grinding and hard bubbles, my brother-in-law was also very good to my sister, and finally my mother agreed. After my sister got married, she went home at most twice a year, and she could only rely on WeChat to contact her. My mother has also told me many times that she regrets letting my sister marry far away, and she actually hopes that my sister can live well with her brother-in-law.

My brother-in-law loves my sister very much, and never lets my sister do housework, and my sister is spoiled and has "can't take care of herself". Maybe it's marrying love.

For the sake of love, it is also worth marrying far away, if you love me enough for Blind and Fang, I also love each other deeply, and we are also to the point of getting married, I will also agree to marry far away. I don't think it matters whether you marry far away or not, as long as the other party is good to you. Parents don't want their daughters to marry far away, which is nothing more than worrying that their daughters will not have a good life.

However, some girls who marry close are not as good as those who marry far away. The key is to see how the two people get along and how to maintain their married life.

As long as two people are sincere to each other, it doesn't matter whether they marry far away or not.