Should I change for him?

Everybody thinks it's good to be good, so if you already think you're good, why change it, even if you're good now, can you guarantee that you're so good until you go out into society? Especially if you're still in junior high school, you don't have a lot of contact, maybe you're just in your own circle, you're in your own school, you're the best, but if you put it in the whole city, the whole province, is it? So, you still have a lot of room to work on, don't be satisfied with working hard now.

If you want to be truly perfect, it doesn't mean that you have to have a boyfriend, and there is a story that many people have seen"There's a very good guy who wants to find the perfect woman to be his wife, so he's been looking and waiting"After waiting for many years, someone asked him if he had found it, and he said he did"Why didn't you marry her? " "She said I wasn't the perfect man I was looking for""

So, there are no absolutely perfect people in the world, and there is no absolute perfect love.

Don't attribute everything to fate, think about it, you have such feelings for such a boy now, there is a reason for you to have such feelings for such a boy, you will like him, there must be something you have found about him that makes you admire, or in this particular period, people will have such an emotion, but the object of such emotion is such a boy.

You've got a lot of good guys around you, who have good academic performance and are handsome, but that's not what you care about and appreciate, and that's not what you can do.

Don't always think about forgetting him, be brave to face your youthful feelings, don't be afraid, and there is no need to be painful, there are several specific ways to choose:

One. Reach out to him, try to be friends, talk a little more, get to know each other a little bit, and you may find that it's not the kind of person you're the right person for.

Two. Concentrate on studying, there are still a lot of tests you have to face, and after the high school entrance examination, there is also the test of the graduate school entrance examination and the social test. It's endless.

Three. Since you can name so many of his shortcomings, think more about his shortcomings, and figure out why some of his classmates hate him, and you can also pay attention to what he is hated by his classmates (but don't overdo it), in short, let your dislike of him dominate, and you won't think about liking him.

Four. Since it's so good, of course, there will be a lot of boys who like you, and it's better to choose a boy who likes you than to give yourself such a bad boy, don't treat yourself badly.

Five. And so much more...It's a lot, it's better to study hard, and only if you're the best will you're more likely to find the kind you're looking for"Perfect"Boys'.

Sixth, it's a junior high school girl, find a close friend you can trust, talk to your heart, and solve it.

I'm in my third year of high school, and I still can't figure out what love is and what liking is, and some people can't figure it out in their lifetime, and the ignorance of youth is so wonderful, and the kind of feelings that may seem very childish are very beautiful.

Hope you like my answer.

Bury yourself in the sea of questions, focusing on one thing is the best way to forget about the other I'm a sophomore in high school now, and I can be regarded as your senior sister, I advise you, because giving up your future because of him will make you regret it for the rest of your life! We can criticize China's education system, but we have to accept the reality that grades are the last word!!

And change for him? Then you're not you! Isn't it??!

It's true that it's stupid to change yourself for someone else's sake, at least that's what I think! It's not easy for such a bad boy to inadvertently impress the heart of such an excellent girl! Hehe!

In the past, people paid attention to "the right person", and modern society is free! Like is a feeling, and what can be strict is not love! I know this very well!

I once asked my boyfriend what he liked about me, and he said that "liking is a feeling", and in the depths of everyone's heart, he must have formulated the image of Prince Charming in his heart a long time ago!

You are now a junior high school student, so you have to maintain your pride all the time, you are excellent, you can use your excellence, help him, make him perfect in your heart!

You should think about why you like him and like him**. Slowly use his own mind to turn him bad.

You are not suitable, this may affect your future, and after graduation, you will forget about him, and you may not feel the same way you used to

The normal manifestations of puberty, I think you are still thinking about it for a while.

You don't need a reason to love someone!

Should we change for others? This is an interesting question. Went for a walk in the playground with friends tonight and talked a lot about it and mentioned a lot about change.

We're changing all the time, because of some people, some things, or simply because we're getting older. But what we want to talk about today is whether we should deliberately change some of our own things for the sake of some people. For example, if someone you like likes to play a game you haven't played before, and is chasing a TV series that you don't like very well, will you learn this game and chase this TV because of her?

In fact, no matter what you choose, there is nothing wrong with it, it's just that the choice is different. In my opinion, if I have a lot of time and I like this girl very much (I don't really like to play games), I'll learn it. A person will change himself to a certain extent because of how much he likes a person.

But that's a bit emotional, and we should learn to control it ourselves. Desperate efforts are given on the premise that the other party responds. Otherwise, it would be self-inflicted.

Not only love, but also friendship. Friends should also make appropriate changes when they get along. This will keep your relationship valuable.

But most of the people around us are just passers-by, we are the protagonists of our own lives, no matter how we change, we should make ourselves better, because we are the most reliable people in our future.

First of all, it needs to be made clear that everyone has their own ideas and decisions, and you can't force others to change. Even if you love her, you can't ask her to give up her choices for your sake, it's not fair.

Secondly, the fact that she has a boyfriend is not something you only learned after you confessed, and she didn't cheat on you before, so you can't ask her to give up her rough state boyfriend for you. Moreover, she also made it clear that the man was not a real boyfriend, which also showed that she did not have a definite relationship with the man, so she had the right to choose her feelings.

Finally, what you need to consider is whether you are willing to accept her choice, including her boyfriend. If you can't accept it, then you need to think about your emotional state and whether you want to continue the relationship with her. If you are receptive to her choice, then you need to respect her decision and try to maintain good communication and understanding with her to ease your pain.

In conclusion, it is important to respect her choices and decisions, but also her own emotions and needs.

There may be multiple answers to this question, but here are some possible reasons:

1.She may not want to change: everyone has their own way of life and values, and some people may not be willing to change their behavior or habits for the sake of others.

It's not necessarily because she doesn't like you or doesn't want to be with you, but it could be that she has a strong belief in her personality and the way she behaves, and doesn't want to change herself in order to cater to others.

2.She may not know how to change: Some people may not know how to change their behavior or habits because they may not realize that their Peichang behavior or habits are causing distress to others.

If you have expressed your feelings to her, but she is not yet capable of changing, it may be because she lacks self-awareness and the ability to grow herself.

3.She may feel that you don't understand her enough: Sometimes, even if a person realizes that her behavior needs to change, she may feel unable to do so if she doesn't feel understood and supported. This may be because she feels stressed and burdened rather than supported and understood.

Whatever the reason, the most important thing is communication and understanding between you. If you've tried to communicate your feelings and needs with her, but she's still reluctant to change, then you need to consider whether your relationship is worth continuing to maintain. If you decide to stay together, try seeking help from a counselor in order to find better communication and solutions to your problems.