Should people change themselves for the sake of the approval of others?

I think, it's better not, everyone has their own way to go, everyone has their own personality, there is no need to change yourself for the recognition of others, but if you are important to you for that person, maybe you can consider it.

Yes, sometimes it's about changing for them, it depends on who they are, and it has to be someone who is important to you to be worth changing for them.

Be good at recognizing the meaning of other people's words and have a high level of awareness of yourself. Sometimes other people's approval is just encouragement to you, and sometimes other people's approval is just perfunctory; So talk less and listen more, accept the good ones, and listen to the jokes if the bad ones are bad. People are actually changing all the time, just grasp right and wrong.

There are pros and cons to any change; Only by being improvisable can you truly gain a foothold in society.

What exists is reasonable ... Everyone has their own reason for being. If that's right, why change. If change is not good for you, why change.

Although many people think it's not worth it, I think that if you really want to change, you don't care what others think, maybe change will make you more perfect.

See if this person is important, you will change for him, if it is not important, there is no possibility of change.

In modern society, people's pressure seems to be increasing, and more and more people are prone to feeling lost, feeling worthless, and not feeling happy.

Many people often envy those who are outstanding in appearance and figure, those who are smart, and those who are good at conversation......In contrast, they will have the idea that they are very bad and useless, that they are short and not beautiful, that they are stupid and afraid of socializing, and that they are incapable and ......have no moneySuch people often have low self-esteem and are easily depressed, and they often think how good it would be if they could become the kind of good-looking, smart, talkative, and capable people, so they often fall into the distress of lack of self-confidence.

If you also have the above thoughts, then it means that you are not recognized and dissatisfied with yourself. You feel inferior, you feel worthless, you can't experience happiness, that's because you don't love yourself. In order to be able to love yourself, you even want to become "someone else", to be someone else who can complement you, to be someone else who has a lot of qualities that you don't have.

You think that if you become someone else, you may be more beautiful, handsome, richer, more successful, and happier, however, this is just "you think it is cracked".

In real life, many people may have this idea, thinking that if I look better and have a better body, maybe I can also become a model; If I had been more extroverted and more communicative, I would have been able to become a salesperson. If I were a rich second generation, I would also participate in charity and help others generously ......They convince themselves with "if I had", "if I am", "I can do it too". It's not so much about persuasion as it is about self-deception and making excuses for yourself. If you have that, will you be able to do it?

In fact, we don't need to be "others", everyone is a unique existence, the key is to know how to accept yourself. You must know that you have the characteristics that others may not have, learn to accept yourself, be good at promoting your strengths and avoiding weaknesses, and you will definitely be able to create your own value.

Of course, if you can't be happy, you can't "stay like this", you can't stop moving, you have to move forward. First of all, you have to understand yourself, understand your own personality and characteristics, look for your own interests and hobbies, analyze your strengths and weaknesses, and then start from your own reality, step by step to discover and explore, then slowly you may find what you are good at, find your uniqueness that others do not have, and realize your dreams. If there was a day, would you still hate yourself at that time?

Do you still want to be someone else?

Should we change for others? This is an interesting question. Went for a walk in the playground with friends tonight and talked a lot about it and mentioned a lot about change.

We're changing all the time, because of some people, some things, or simply because we're getting older. But what we want to talk about today is whether we should deliberately change some of our own things for the sake of some people. For example, if someone you like likes to play a game you haven't played before, and is chasing a TV series that you don't like very well, will you learn this game and chase this TV because of her?

In fact, no matter what you choose, there is nothing wrong with it, it's just that the choice is different. In my opinion, if I have a lot of time and I like this girl very much (I don't really like to play games), I'll learn it. A person will change himself to a certain extent because of how much he likes a person.

But that's a bit emotional, and we should learn to control it ourselves. Desperate efforts are given on the premise that the other party responds. Otherwise, it would be self-inflicted.

Not only love, but also friendship. Friends should also make appropriate changes when they get along. This will keep your relationship valuable.

But most of the people around us are just passers-by, we are the protagonists of our own lives, no matter how we change, we should make ourselves better, because we are the most reliable people in our future.

Mine won't. Because, everyone's requirements for themselves are different, and secondly, everyone pursues differently, and everyone's goals and plans are different. They all think according to their own goals and ideals.

Everyone's way of thinking about problems is also different.

It's like a boyfriend or girlfriend we find ourselves, whether the other party is good to you or not, whether they live with you. Only you know. If your boyfriend treats you the same as everyone else.

That's not right. Because others have not experienced it, they have not experienced it, so don't change your opinion easily. I am reminded of the saying, "Don't comment on other people's lives if you haven't experienced them."

It's about being responsible for yourself and for others.

No matter what you do or what you think, you must first listen to your inner voice. Because that's who you really are. Our plans and arrangements are all based on our own goals, according to our own life needs, according to our own ideals, how to do it, what to do are all made after our own serious thinking, and the decisions are all made after our own serious thinking, and they all have causes and consequences.

For example, I have a good idea of what I have arranged, how to do it, what the result will be, and how long it will take.

Don't change yourself because of other people's opinions, which may disrupt your own plans and disrupt your progress.

There are often people in life who are trying to change themselves, and when asked why, some say that it is because their parents want them to be better; Some say that in order to make others look down on it; Some said they wanted to make their ex regret it. Most of them are not for themselves, but when the change is made, the party that benefits is themselves, and the changes they make from beginning to end are for their own benefit. More and more people are beginning to work hard to change themselves, and of course there are also those who remain the same, and when it comes to change, they always say it openly:

Why change? Isn't it good to be yourself? "What's more" they don't want to change, they are afraid of losing themselves" "Change" in their eyes is actually not quite the same as change in the eyes of most people, at least I think change is similar to fixing mistakes or something, it can make us better, better.

I have seen such a sentence in the circle of friends, "Go your own way, let others say go" If I remember correctly, this sentence is from Dante's mouth, the original meaning is not to care too much about other people's opinions, as long as you are right, insist on moving forward, but now this sentence has become a shield for unrepentant cover-up. There are two opposites to this statement, and it depends on which side is the right side. If you don't make any changes under the banner of "pursuing individuality and being yourself", then I think it's just laziness in the pure sense.

Being yourself doesn't mean it's set in stone. If it is to stick to one's right ideas or practices, then it can be said that this kind of person has strong perseverance and perseverance. At the same time, "others" is also a very key point, just like the sentence "there is no need to change yourself for others" may not be focused on "changing yourself" but on "for others".

Change yourself for your own good, not for anyone or anything that has nothing to do with you. Change may not succeed, but it will not succeed if it does not change.

Those who do not have the courage to change will achieve nothing.

Don't change yourself easily for the sake of others, because then you will lose yourself, and your personality charm will be lost, and in the end, not only will you not like it, but others will not like it.

Everyone has their own personality, which is something that is innate, such as if you specifically for a certain person will change, within.

This kind of change is very difficult, and it takes a lot of hard work and effort, so that you will lose your own personality, and you will no longer be you, your 21 accessories.

Can you think about what is the purpose of changing yourself, is it to please others? In fact, in this way, there is not much self-esteem in the case of blind change to adapt to the requirements of others is not necessarily desirable, of course, it does not mean that other people's requirements are unreasonable, are incorrect, if others say that the suggestions and our own ability to improve their own quality and so on is consistent, then he just plays a role in a suggestion reminder, not a kind of commanding thing, then at this time our change is from their own pursuit, is ** His own hope for high quality and the demands of others serve as a reminder at best.

Be yourself, as long as you feel with a clear conscience. Feel right, don't care what others say, and don't change yourself because of others.

Yes, one does not need to be someone else and be the best version of oneself. Don't compromise with others easily, change for others, and stick to your own principles and boundaries in order to win the attention and respect of others.

I think that if you want to change others, you have to change yourself first, and change yourself for others just to become better, not to please others.

This means don't live for others, change yourself, just do what you want to do, you can do it, live for yourself.

First, it's too tiring to live for others.

Second, be yourself, and make your own decisions in your own life.

Third, it's too sad that you don't love yourself.

Because you are unique, it is a pity that you are not yourself if you change yourself for others.

It is human nature to change oneself for the sake of others! Being yourself is the most important thing.

Because you change for others, some people don't know how to cherish it, and they are wronged and unhappy, so why bother? Isn't it good to be true to yourself.

Be kind to others, be kind to others, and be kind to others.