My career has entered a period of confusion and psychological depression

The main thing I want to say is:

Don't complain too much about your parents, they have given you and your brother a complete ordinary home, raised you healthily, and this has done what ordinary parents can do. I don't see how unmotivated your father is, as long as he works, farming and raising fish at home is also a choice of life. In fact, in terms of income, in many cases, it is the society and the general environment that cause rural labor to be artificially suppressed.

The logistics industry is a highly competitive industry, and it may be difficult to spell it out in this area, but at least you have a slight profit, so there is no need to be depressed at all. This industry has encountered a bottleneck, can we consider expanding the income of other possible industries on the basis of stabilizing this income? For example, from some manufacturers and stores familiar with the logistics process, obtain the right to sell goods on credit, and use e-commerce channels such as ** to try to sell profits in the special area.

Addendum: A variety of work experiences are a good opportunity to accumulate your experience and experience. Find the right industry that you are interested in, become a practitioner, and then hone your skills and techniques, and your income will naturally rise, this is a channel; In addition, it is also a good way to start a business on your own, but the risks and expected returns may be higher.

Finally, we should pay attention to increasing income and reducing expenditure, accumulating income, and learning about investment and financial management (such as Buffett's and other value investment books). When I was young, I relied on my strength to earn money, and when I was older, I needed to rely on money to make money.

The experience is very rich, in fact, you see the shortcomings, and then think about its opposite, isn't it its strengths, my favorite sentence: Misfortune and fortune rely on blessing and misfortune.

There's a book called Youth Because of Pain, and you might as well read it when you're idle.

There is no smooth sailing in the world, as long as you work hard and do not regret it.

Be confident and self-reliant, and you will definitely be able to get out of trouble.

The boat goes straight to the bridge head naturally and does what you like.

From quitting your job and choosing to sell, you're halfway to success because you've chosen the path closest to success.

1. I didn't make any money in the first 7 years of my job after graduating from college, including being an executive of the company. But in the eighth year, in one year, I earned the sum of all the previous ones.

2. Later, I understood that this is a geometric development.

That is, when your accumulation is reached, your ability is reached, and the money is naturally earned. The so-called age, education, major, resources, opportunities, personality, etc., are all auxiliary factors, not the key to decision.

3. Introverted and extroverted, there is no half-dime relationship with sales, everyone is suitable for sales, but few people tap their own methods and potential, so there are not many people who feel suitable.

4. Continue to do sales, that is the closest road to wealth. However, you need to study a lot to improve your professional skills; b. Take a lot of action and find the method that suits you in the process; c. Act fast to accelerate opportunities; dSelf-reflection, which is the fastest way to improve you; e Enjoy it all.

When you work hard, everything will come naturally, believe in this saying. Because, I verified it.

Confused Definition:

Under the pressure of growth and development, individuals or organizations lack information and cognition of themselves and the outside world due to the objective "being in it", and eventually produce phenomena such as disorientation, disordered thinking, negative attitude, and weakened ability.

Overview of confusion: The external causes of personal confusion are generally the acceleration of social rhythm, increased survival pressure, career changes, changes in the family, and the influence of others.

The internal causes of personal confusion are generally immature and non-independent personal ideological system, vague values, personality weaknesses, lack or weakness of ability, insufficient scope and depth of cognition, etc.;

The biggest cost of personal confusion is time, which will cause negative development of personality, easy imbalance of mentality, easy differentiation of emotions, and unstable ability in the state of confusion;

Personal confusion will definitely affect work results, life experience, family relationships, physical and mental health, etc., and even deviate from the correct direction of life, and then lose oneself;

If you rely on yourself to get out of the confusion, the time is uncertain, the material expenses are uncontrollable, and the mental pressure is unbearable.

When you feel uncertain about your career future, please do this, and the future will be smoother and smoother!

<>1, socks Yu we must first know why we are confused, there are generally several situations of confusion, one is selective confusion, that is, when you have the opportunity to choose several kinds of life, but you don't know which one to choose, and there is a confusion caused by boredom, that is, life has stagnated, and the same life is lived every day.

2. Find out the real reason for confusion, only by knowing what you are confused about, can you find ways and methods to solve the problem for confusion.

3. It is to keep recharging yourself and be brave enough to do what you have always wanted to do but have no chance to do.

4. Selective confusion What we have to do is to repeatedly weigh the pros and cons between the two dispersants, and choose a way that suits us best, which may be opposed and questioned by others, but sticking to our own heart is generally more important than others' vision.

5. It is caused by the stagnation of life, everyone has to accept new things at different stages, meet new friends, will be inspired by new ideas, will continue to progress, some people live a repetitive life step by step every day, although it will not affect the quality of life, but it will also lead to inner emptiness and thus induce confusion.

6. Every day we have to set a small goal for ourselves, we will feel meaningful to complete the goal, make a little progress every day, we will find that life is not stagnant, the best way to face confusion is to continue to learn and progress, continue to accept new things, and make your life colorful.

Different partners, at different stages of career development, will encounter different confusion.

When you are confused, follow the following steps, and you may have unexpected gains:

1. Adjust your frequency status;

When people are happy, they act completely differently than when they are unhappy. Moreover, it will also affect the people around you).

2. After adjusting the frequency state, choose the next action plan from a positive perspective and take action;

3. To give yourself the result of your actions, you must let go of the obsession that the result must happen in the way you expect;

The reason why we recommend the above method is that some things happen randomly.

Therefore, you just need to work hard with enthusiasm, accept all possibilities with gratitude, and interpret the outcome of the event with a positive attitude and perspective.

Here are a few examples.

a When looking for a job, sometimes, even if you meet all the recruitment needs of the target position, but there is no opportunity for an interview, does that mean that you are not good?

Of course not, the timing has not yet arrived.

b When you meet your favorite person, no matter how active you are, others will ignore you, does it mean that you are not good enough?

Of course not, the timing has not yet arrived.

c When you do what you like, sometimes even if you try hard, you can't achieve the results you expect, does it mean that you are not good enough?

Of course not, the timing has not yet arrived. Moreover, the opportunities and goals you set will also become your limits to some extent.

Through the above examples, it is not difficult to find that no matter what we do, practice is the most important thing. Because, preconceived ideas are useless, and what is summed up through one's own practice is the most suitable for oneself.

As a result, it is also far away from the crowd and going with the flow.

Finally, a paragraph to summarize today's content.

Adjust yourself to overcome preconceived anxieties and fears. Follow your own enthusiasm to practice, even if you summarize and adjust your career development direction in practice (if you don't need to adjust, continue to stick to it).

Accept all possibilities with gratitude and interpret the outcome of things with a positive and positive attitude. 」

Reading some useless books, doing some useless things, and spending some useless time are all in order to reserve a chance to surpass yourself beyond everything you know. Some of the most remarkable changes in life come from these moments.

Don't look back at the past in anger or look to the future in fear, but savor the present in a clear mind.

If you really want to do something, you'll do whatever it takes, even if it's a hindrance. But if you don't really want to accomplish something, then you will do whatever it takes to stop yourself, even if the road ahead is smooth.

Human life cannot be measured by the length of time, when the heart is full of love, the moment is eternal.

When you are confused in your career, you should first calm your mind, and then think back on the process you have gone through in your career, and find out the root cause of your own confusion, whether it is your own problem or external factors? Knowing the reason, the next thing is to try to put yourself in the right frame of mind and change your previous work mentality, because changing your mindset can help you change your current state. If a person has a good attitude, he can make you advance and retreat freely and leisurely.

What kind of mentality a person has, what kind of outlook on life and values, and what kind of lifestyle he will have. The key to a person's success in his career also lies in his mentality, which controls a person's actions and the logic of his thinking. The difference between success and failure also lies in the mentality, the successful person always controls the steering wheel of their life with a positive attitude, optimistic spirit and unremitting efforts, and a good attitude helps them create the glory and achievements of their career.

Therefore, no matter what a person does, he needs to have a good attitude, which is a prerequisite for success, people with a good attitude are calm, have a positive attitude, and start to do things steadily and confidently, and confident and stable people are of course easier to succeed. Because mentality is the ...... of our own true masters

If you want to do sales, age is not a problem, and I used to do that.

Having your own place to set up your own stall is the biggest advantage.

Let me tell you a special one: 1. Go to the major stores to see if there is any possibility that you can buy cheaper goods for them, then you can talk about business at that time.

2.Think more about what you want to do in terms of sales, what level you want to achieve, and what are the specific standards for that level? What should you have in order to meet those standards? How can you have it? What should you do at the moment?

Have you ever heard of the subconscious**? It will be of great help to find some subconscious thoughts about success on the Internet and listen to them every day. And go find some success stories borrowed from the subconscious. Also, be a down-to-earth person.

When you are confused in your career, you should calm down and think about it, set a position for yourself, and set a goal.

I believe that each of us will have times when we are lost, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life. Often the goal is the brightest when you are confused.

What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.

Don't take those so-called technologies lightly, don't just look at that goal, but see what path can be reached.

Now there is a book called "Whose Youth is Not Confused", you can take a look, so that you can solve your confusion from the depths of your heart.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's very tiring and hard to live because society is very unfair, it's very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, it's not boring.

Because, life is like this:

No one's life is smooth sailing, so as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life will inevitably fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, and others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that:

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Come on, friend!

Sincerely wish: happiness and joy every day! ~