There is a feeling that there is no way out. What if there is no way out?

Regarding career planning, it is recommended that you consider this question from the following directions:

1. What are your interests? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel good about and can be further developed?

If you don't know your interests, you can go to the Career Assessment section of the First Workplace Forum to take a free Holland Career Aptitude Assessment to have a general understanding of your interests.

2. What is your personality suitable for? Different jobs are suitable for people with different personalities to do. Recognizing your personality is a very important step. You can also go to the First Workplace Forum to take a DISC personality assessment to understand your personality traits before making a decision.

3. What are your strengths and strengths? What are some of the skills that can be used? What should I do about what I lack?

4. What weaknesses do you have in your personality that need to be overcome? Don't let weaknesses get in the way of your growth.

5. There is a "Follow Your Heart - 14 Steps to Set Career Goals" in the top post of the first workplace forum, you can take a look at it and plan your career according to this method.

6. The first chapter of the book "Workplace Redemption - Written to the Grassroots in Confusion" also provides a more detailed and specific method, which is very helpful to you, and you can also go to the book to find the answer.

If you have any questions, please feel free to communicate!

Don't put too much pressure on yourself and get out and about.

Hehe, keep working hard, life is like this.

You can't get out of the Internet café, but the Internet can take you far, far away, if you are familiar with the Internet, familiar with forums, etc., it is entirely possible for you to get out of the world on the Internet. Even if you can't help yourself in an Internet café, at least you are free when you even surf the Internet. Cheer yourself up, use the resources you have, and you're sure to find your way out.

Stay away from your home, go to the big city to break through, if you don't have other skills, you can find a network manager to continue to work, there are a lot of jobs to eat, and then save some money to learn or something while working.

If you're not satisfied with your life all the time, but you just sit back and complain, it's never going to change. You have to take this step, have practical actions, and be unhappy with your current life?? Then overthrow it!! You're still young, afraid of something??? I've got your back, lad!

You can't complain, you should turn this kind of complaining and grief into your strength to move forward, the environment in which we were born is not allowed to choose, whether poor or rich, if you are not motivated, not capable, how long can you persevere, and how long will this cruel society tolerate you. You should put your mentality right now, people who have had the same experience as you, you are not the only one, you should not be appointed, because of this, we have to work harder, you have to put your mentality in place, give yourself a plan, don't live like this, mess around, that will make us more depraved. You should be glad to be yourself, from the snack hard exercise yourself, our life only in the difficult experience to become more colorful, you have to learn to bear, not complain and not confused.

I'm sure you'll find a direction, settle down and rush forward bravely. Remember that time will not wait for us to be ready to go, you have to believe in yourself, if you are not willing to live like this, hurry up and move, come on!!

At present, the country still attaches more importance to technical talents. Regardless of whether boys and girls have mastered a skill, they will not have to worry about whether they will be able to find a job, get a high salary, and be able to support themselves in the future. Now that the automotive industry is developing rapidly, all major brands are innovating in technology, so it is also good to learn the technological development prospects of an automobile.

Nowadays, both boys and girls can engage in this industry, and the automobile major is not only limited to the two areas of auto repair and beauty, but also the 5S major suitable for male and female students, automobile business, operation, automobile sales, automobile culture and other automobile-related industries. It is recommended that you can go to the campus for a field trip to find out! You can refer to it!

Well, the conditions at home are something you can't change, and the past is irretrievable, so you have to grasp the present, keep a world of Internet cafes, of course, it is not advisable, in fact, while you keep the Internet cafe, you have to learn something yourself, if you want to change your fate, you must have skills, there are things to play on the Internet, but it is also something that can be learned, you can use your job identity as a network guard to learn something, if you can, you can also go to the hotel as a waiter, and then slowly rise to the supervisor, manager, as long as you work hard, Fate can change!

Don't die, you still have many, many hours left, and you haven't felt the happiness you yearn for. It's better to go out on your own, explain it to your parents, and come back if you succeed and let them see.

Life is bad to a certain extent, and it gets better.

Seeing your question, I can really understand your situation, because I am also from the countryside, and I can experience some of the plots in it, sometimes I really can't help myself, but now that I have grown up, I should have my own ideas, as for the habits you said about sleeping or something, those can be changed, you have to believe in yourself, but now the most critical question is what do you want to do? What are you interested in? What do you want to do in the future to support yourself?

These are what you have to solve, since you don't want to be in an Internet café, jump out of this Internet café, why bother? Think about it, you can't be in an Internet café all your life, right? Right!

Fainting, why do you keep being in an internet café? You're still young, there are a lot of roads for you to walk, you can bring a little money to the big city, first find a job with food and accommodation, and then slowly plan your life, get out of that place, see the outside world... I can't say it's exciting, but there's certainly a lot for you to choose from...

Who doesn't have problems, when you really have to struggle, you will know, you will know how to go.

Now is the era of computer technology. If you learn computer technology and master the skills of computers, you will definitely not suffer at the moment.

Hard work and persistence are the first choice for many of us, although the road ahead is very confusing, but many people will persevere. What we see is the path we have chosen, and we have to finish it on our knees. Our confusion about the future is due to our lack of confidence in the future.

There is no way out in sight, and it always gives people a little risk. Although the surface you see is very helpless, the result is touching. Wealth and danger are sought, and we can't have a smooth journey.

For many things, we can't go left and right, but we can go through it, and the road is made by people, isn't it?

Changing thinking is a good embodiment for the older generation. My uncle does some business, he buys it locally, and after deducting the annual cost, he can't make much money, and he wants to omit this link. But since he learned about online shopping, he feels that it is still possible.

Because the things online are cheap and the quality is not bad. For those things on the network, they also began to believe. The purchase of their own business has also begun to be implemented on the Internet.

For some of his calligraphy works, he also began to log in online, and he used them like a fish in water.

To be honest, I feel this feeling very deeply. How did I get through that time? I thought about it alone for a long time, I read quietly, went to the park for a walk, and when I was uncomfortable, I went to the vegetable market to see those old people sitting on the side, selling and buying vegetables alone.

I think you can too, solve it yourself, or ask for help from others. If you solve it yourself, you can do some exercise, listen to songs, read books, or see how others are doing, save one yuan or two yuan in the cold and heat, go to the vegetable market, and ...... the old street of XiaosuoIf you seek help from the outside world, you can see a psychologist, go for psychological counseling, find a confidant to confide in your troubles, or find a circle on the Internet to express your unhappiness. There are many ways to do it, and you have to believe that there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.

During the summer vacation this year, I rented a house outside by myself, the rent was very expensive, and I also bought some additional household appliances, which cost a lot of money. Under such pressure, I was ready to do a big job, but I only interviewed for a teacher at a training institution, and I was fired two days later. During this period, I interviewed several tutors, but none of them were successful.

At that time, I was really serious about correcting my mistakes, but I had already started to advance my future salary. I finally lost my confidence, I felt like I was worthless, and the successive failures kept me at home every day. It's only been a little over a month, and the expenses have reached more than 4,000.

And my parents' salary is 4,000 a month, and I don't dare to ask them to give me so much money. I felt that I was useless and had no future, and I was not interested in anything in those days, and even wanted to commit suicide.

Isn't I also very lively now? Your life is at a low point, but it is not yet the point where you have to die, your tomorrow can be completely changed, all you have to do is give yourself strength. Then, find the right place to solve the difficulty, come on!

I feel that I have no idea about the future, this is a period of confusion that life will experience, if you want to get out of it, I feel that you still need to keep trying, a road that is really suitable for you will never be directly in front of you, who is not in the continuous attempt to find their own way. The future is very important to us, it represents a person's future development, so we should also be especially concerned about this matter.

I feel like I need to give some of my own views on this kind of thing. One, as I said above, you need to keep trying, the road can only be completed by stepping out yourself, you don't see the money I have, but there is just a haze in front of you, you only need to be able to see it after continuous attempts. Second, of course, when necessary, you can also ask other people, with the help of other people's opinions, it is also a good way, for example, I once faced the idea of whether to repeat, so I asked the teacher and my elders, they gave my opinion, that is, to repeat, and I also proved myself through repeating.

Third, even if you can't find your way forward for the time being, don't be depressed, there will always be a way, but we haven't encountered it for the time being, which requires us to have a peaceful mind to face, even if we have experienced countless failures, we must bear the blow with optimism. We have to believe in ourselves, don't keep denying ourselves, our life path is still very long, everything is unknown.

In the end, the most important thing is the mentality, for all this often changes due to the change of mood, so always maintain a healthy mindset, constantly remind yourself that you can succeed, and don't give up in the face of this temporary suffering.

I think it's time for you to have faith in yourself. Not only that, but you also have to find your own goals, and then you must have the perseverance to stick to your goals, only then will we not get lost in the pursuit of our dreams.

Who knows your situation, prepare to wait for the opportunity if you can't see it, and the most important thing is that you have a goal, and if you have a goal, you will be prepared accordingly. For example, if you want to go abroad, you will learn English, and you are at fault for not being able to give you a visa, but this is your goal, so you can still continue to learn English, and slowly the opportunity will come.

Consult with someone who is better than you, not only for your elders, but better for your more successful peers who are a few years older than you.

Look at their values, life plans, and learn from them.

Of course, the most important thing is to understand your own heart, this is not an empty word, after the average person reaches the age of 30, he will understand what he can pursue in the world, which is unattainable by himself, how to realize his own value and so on, and then adjust his life expectations, find the best way, through reasonable efforts to live a better material life he can have, a richer inner world.

I am very confused about the present, mostly because my current work and study are not very successful, and I can't find a way to be excellent. Or there is a method, but the persistence is poor or lazy, and the perseverance and hard-working spirit are lacking. Or there is a method and perseverance, but there is a lack of self-confidence, and when you encounter a little setback, you will be discouraged, etc.

The boredom of the past few days made me feel that I had no hope, no direction, and felt lost. In fact, if you want to really solve the problem of confusion now, you first have to ask yourself: do you really want to solve it?

Or is it just thinking about it for a while, but in fact, it is still greedy for the current comfort? If it is true and there is an urgent desire to solve this problem, there are as follows: first, make up your mind and be prepared for the psychological situation of enduring hardships; Second, make a list of the achievable work or study goals you want to achieve and quantify them for each day. Third, make a good time plan, resolutely implement it, if you are lazy and do not implement it, punish yourself once and make up for the missing content; Fourth, if you succeed in persevering, reward yourself once.

Do this, and I'm sure you won't be lost in the present again. If you are confused about the future, the methods are as follows: first, go to Huandu to do a brain AT potential test to understand your potential advantages; Second, find out the core goals according to your own potential and strengths and your dreams; third, to make an executable action plan for the core objectives; Fourth, be a dream board and always urge yourself; Fifth, do a good job of time management and move forward into the future step by step.

Do this, and believe that your future does not need to be lost. It is important to note that moving towards the goal, but happiness lies in enjoying the process, and success belongs to those who work hard and enjoy the moment.