What was the most frustrating moment in your life?

Not a moment is a period of time. Since I went to college, my heart is inferior, I failed the college entrance examination, I was filled in by my family volunteers, I wanted to repeat but did not have the courage, maybe I was taken care of by my family since I was a child, I have lost the ability to think for myself, and finally compromised to a few kilometers away from home in a small county in the second college, but also transferred to a major that I don't feel about. My roommates were nice to me, but they didn't make friends, they just looked down on the school, and they always heard how bad my hometown was, and in front of me, I was not embarrassed, but hated.

I didn't study hard, sometimes human nature is really terrible, I was so positive in high school, and now I am desperate, living at home, helping my sister with homework, hoping that she can study hard, have her own dreams earlier, have her own thoughts, be independent, become a little more mature, and spend her own beautiful life.

No one understands, failed the high school entrance examination, was hit by various blows from parents, close to collapse, but still unwilling to give up, now often feel that I have depression, about to take the college entrance examination, I want to fight once, but looking ahead, I am afraid of failure, or the feeling of failure has been around me, I feel very helpless, I just want to hide in my own small world and stay, I am really scared!

Watching some of my classmates work smoothly, I suddenly feel that I am very incompetent and still unemployed, and I really have a strong sense of loss and frustration in my heart, and I have achieved nothing.

In the past two years, I have taken the civil service and teacher recruitment examinations, and I can't count how many times I have taken the exam, how many miles I have traveled to register, and how many times I have copied my graduation certificate and degree certificate. And every time, you are one or two points behind, or even a few tenths of a point off, and the people in the university who feel that you have always been inferior to you have surpassed you again and again.

I vowed to get ahead since I was a child, but my academic performance was not good, and I grew up a little and slowly cultivated my self-confidence, but then I was hit, betrayed by my partner who grew up together, and experienced being excluded by the whole class, being used by scumbags, and suffering from panic disorder.

The past two months should be the most frustrated moment in my current life, two months after graduating from college and two months unemployed, some of my classmates, whether they are stronger than me or equivalent to my strength, have been working in graduate school one after another, because there is no interest in continuing to study It can be said that I am tired of studying, so I choose undergraduate employment.

Although I am only eighteen years old, I feel that my life is full of frustration, when I was a child, I played with my peers who grew up together, and others knew how to protect their own interests, but I was stupidly bullied, my family was poor, my parents were outside, and I only came back twice a year, resulting in a lack of love and security now.

From last year to now, I have been frustrated, resigned from my job to go to graduate school, had no savings, and failed to go to graduate school.

Losing money, I didn't have a concept of money before, but when I lost money, I realized the importance of money, and the whole person collapsed.

Now be. The ranking of the Baoyan has dragged from the middle and upper reaches to the bottom three because of the moral education score, and it is possible that even the Bao's research will shrink from a master's degree to a professional master's degree, I am not convinced, I am not convinced, I am not convinced, but I have no way. The two roommates are going to the national award defense and the national award defense tomorrow, and I have achieved nothing, and the only academic performance to be proud of has become the bottom because of the addition of moral education points.

Failed to upgrade to college, did not work well after graduation, often changed jobs and lost jobs from time to time, very collapsed, and felt mildly depressed

There is no hope, there is no expectation but you have to look for hope, and you are disappointed in hope.

Frustrated that I don't want to be in this world anymore.

Probably watching his teammates not score a hundred shots on the court, but he was injured and could only sit on the bench!

In the first year of high school, his grades slipped and he had an awkward relationship with his family.

I'm thirty years old, and I haven't gotten married yet.

I'm in my third year of high school now, but there is always a girl around me who bullies me, I can't study, and my grades drop quickly.

We all want to hold hands and get married, but we live in an era where there is no result in bed.

For a man, the most powerless thing is to "meet the girl who wants to take care of her most for life at the age when you have the least material ability".

For a woman: the most regrettable thing is "meeting someone who can't afford to wait at the best age!"

In fact, women have more helpless "encountering powerless men at an age when they can't afford to wait";

And what men are even more sad about is that "when you have material things, you don't have a good woman who simply wants to live with you for the rest of your life!"

The most desperate thing is that I think there is no hope, I give up my efforts, and I am completely controlled by pessimism.

Leaving your loved ones can only be regarded as a sad thing, and it may affect your life.

But take heart – think about the loved ones who have left you and hope that you can continue to live your life well and optimistically.

I farted at the quietest time in class.

On the road of life, everyone will encounter setbacks and difficulties, how do you overcome them?

How do people deal with their own self-frustration?

First, you will see the positive side of things, and this way of thinking is actually a manifestation of maturity after self-construction.

Also, since self-frustration usually comes from both internal and external critics, who would you send to deal with them? Many people often send out an executive who is not good at the profession, but deals with a job that a salesman should do, and as a result, they get a stronger sense of self-defeat. At this time, you will often scold the executive, thinking that he has a high salary but can't do anything

In fact, what is the correct way? It is to consciously realize the long-circulating fixed behavior patterns in the subconscious, you really see what you look like in the behavior patterns, and deeply pity this helpless self, and at the same time be kind to this self, and be soberly aware that you should break this fixed pattern, whether there are those self-critics or self-hinders, you no longer hesitate to do what you should do, and even accept more challenges, those critics may still attack you to put pressure on you, but you know to keep a distance from them. Gradually, these critics will move away from you, and they may even become friends with you.

This is mainly due to the fact that people's expectations are too high, and they will only have a sense of frustration when they encounter setbacks.