What kind of moment made you let go of your relationship with your ex?

I've been separated from her for a month. Yesterday, I noticed that she deleted my WeChat, and I was stupidly sad for a long time, this is going to be cut off, and I sent an email saying a lot of emotion, hoping to redeem it, she replied, it's good to delete WeChat, and it's terrible to be ruthless. I blocked her today, and my heart suddenly relaxed, I'm sorry, it's you who missed someone who likes you so much, I don't need to waste time and emotions for you anymore.

I am married, have a family, have children, have a husband and relatives who love me, and have a fulfilling life. The ex is the one who didn't get to the end of your life. Life goes on.

Why dwell on the past. When my ex also got married and had children, he also started his own small family. I think we can all let go of it and just leave each other with good memories.

After all, no one is missing who can't live, even if nothing happens, you should learn to let go, time will slowly fade all this, once but how deep you love, you must also learn to grow, people will only continue to grow and will not regress, and don't think of letting go of your ex because of what happened, even if you don't want to, you have to let go.

Has been trying to get over his predecessor for a long time. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn't seem to get the results I wanted. I know I still love my ex.

But one day, she was already with someone else. From then on, I felt that it was time for me to give up on my ex. For a long time.

She was the focal point of my social life and I couldn't recover from a breakup. Allow yourself to be sad, indulge yourself, and don't know how those days were spent.

Put? Easier said than done! Just pretending to be strong, knocking out my teeth and swallowing it in my stomach, no matter what the situation was, I would be blocked and lose contact, and I, every time no matter what the situation was, I would apologize, this time, I didn't bow my head because I wanted to give myself a trace of dignity, even if you sent a message to say back, but no!

So, no matter how much it hurts, I endure it, although I can't let it go, but I won't bow my head.

Knowing clearly that the other party will never come back, for his sake.

The process of letting go of an ex takes time and effort, and here are some ways that may help:

1.Be honest with your emotions: Tell yourself about your emotions, feel yourself, accept your emotions, and give yourself enough time to slowly regulate your emotions.

2.Share your feelings with others: Communicate with other close friends or family members to seek their support and help. Sharing your experiences may be an effective emotional catharsis mechanism.

3.Don't deny your emotions: Don't shy away from your emotions, and don't resist repenting your emotions.

Think hard about why you're feeling uncomfortable and try to accept them. This is very important because when we don't accept our emotions, we are more attracted to negative emotional experiences.

4.Focus on your personal growth: Focus your attention on your own growth, such as learning new skills, participating in social activities, exercising, etc. Keep improving yourself and making yourself better in every aspect.

5.Stick to a positive mindset: If you stick to a positive mindset all the time, you'll also be more optimistic about your prospects and more motivated to live.

In short, it takes time and effort to let go of your ex, and it is advisable to face and accept your emotions calmly and focus your time and attention on personal growth and a positive way of thinking. When you come to the end, it is for a better start in life.

1. The reason why two people break up must be irreconcilable contradictions. Maybe we're tired of seeing each other, maybe we don't want to see each other in advance or anymore. Even if it is a good gathering and dispersing in the end, it is inevitable that there will be discord in the heart.

When I think of the happy or unhappy past when we were together, it is inevitable that my heart will not be calm. Why bother with your own peaceful life and mood?

2, since you really like each other, how can you see her holding flowers and wearing a white wedding dress to marry someone else. Thinking of your sweet words and vows, maybe you also fantasized about what it would be like when you married her, but now you don't want to see her marry someone else. Even though you are very uncomfortable, you have to pretend to be generous and send blessings, which is an unnecessary masochistic behavior.

3. A good ex should not disturb each other, forget about each other, and be at peace with each other. The other person already has a partner, whether you have a new partner or not, I think your partner doesn't want your partner to be related to your ex. Even if you feel that you have let go, but maybe in the eyes of your partner, there is still reluctance.

Ex is a thing of the past, and the way forward is to go hand in hand with your current partner, so you need to consider your partner's feelings.

Throw away everything related to your ex, no matter what the situation is at the time of the breakup, there will inevitably be sweet and happy moments when you are together, and throwing away everything related to your ex is to isolate yourself from these beautiful moments.

Lest you recall the story behind each gift, lest you have the illusion that you can go back in time. If you really can't bear it, you can not throw it away, but make sure they don't pop up in front of you from time to time, and if you don't know what to do with it, I happen to have a similar experience - so many years, the indirect experience provided to me by friends who broke up.

If the things sent by your ex are very valuable, such as watches, mobile phones, etc., then you can consider sending them back, or discounting them, if you confirm that the other party does not need them, then you can press the bottom of the box or give them to friends in need, if it is just plush toys, clothes, small gifts, then you can donate them to children in mountainous areas.

The ex is a past that cannot be mentioned for everyone, if you can, please don't miss that failed relationship too much, let yourself withdraw as soon as possible, and naturally there will be a different life.

To experience a good relationship, unless you are particularly lucky, you must be prepared for psychological growth, because many people, the first love is ignorant and naïve, and they often become the one who feels hurt.

For example, as the relationship develops, your expectations of the relationship may be inconsistent, which can also become contradictory**. Some people think that the other draft is perfect at first, and they also want to have the beautiful relationship they imagined, but after experiencing many conflicts and even breaking up.

It is reasonable that he will have much lower expectations for the disadvantages of his next relationship. Sometimes when you meet an ex who is not good to you, you can make yourself more vigilant, knowing that no matter what, you should not be too focused on your own feelings, and sometimes reasonable doubts will make you more able to grasp happiness.

The fall of a relationship, for both parties, is a sting that goes deep into the bone marrow. The past is eroding their hearts all the time.

Walking past the places we have stayed together, we will stop to remember. Seeing the token of the love I once loved, my thoughts were like cotton threads, entangled with myself. These former beauties have become their own weaknesses, which cannot be touched, and once touched, tears burst instantly.

A good ex will shape your view of love. It will make you feel that love is what it is when you were with him. You will try to find his shadow in the love that follows.

And in a wounded relationship, you repair your broken heart countless times, wipe away your tears and want to start over, and want to avoid being hurt again in future love.

In fact, everyone will have their own criteria in their hearts, but this criterion is not fixed and will change chemically, and the factor that depends on the change is nothing more than your emotional expression of that person.

You are willing, and you want to be able to get close to each other, feel the enthusiasm of the other party, and feel the warmth and touch brought by the other party. That's the best criterion for choosing a mate.

When he doesn't exist in this world anymore.