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If you already have such a thought, you can think about it, but be sure to consider your own reasons. Because people tend to sometimes only see the big picture and don't pay attention to the details. But a friend's concern for you is not always reflected, so you can recall for yourself that sometimes they still care about and care for you, but you don't notice or feel it.

If you think about it yourself, you still think that they don't believe it and don't care about you. It's time for you to change the environment.

Communicating and communicating with others in life is a very profound knowledge, so it is necessary to continue learning. People must have self-confidence in order to better expand their social circle! Try to change your personality and image, and maybe you have a new world!

You've thought about why no.

It's your own reason.

Or for some other reason.

Don't push all the blame out.

Look for your own responsibilities as well.

Change the environment. In this way.

Do you have to continue to change the environment?

Think about the root cause.

Escape is not the solution.

Friends just see you through and still like it

There may be only one true friend in a person's life

I don't think the people you're talking about are your friends either

It's just a passerby in life who says something simple, and that's it

Near Zhu is red, close to ink is black, maybe you and your friends have such thoughts, so, can you talk to them frankly, if the Tao is different, or everyone's ambitions are different, then it is good to change the environment appropriately, there is no need to completely cut off contact, and it is not a bad thing to have more friends.

Thank you for your relationship and support.

Before getting married, both people should have their own private space, and they should have their own circle of friends, their own circle of life.

You can't let your boyfriend stay with you every day.

You can't keep an eye on him all the time.

If you love him, if you like him, you should believe in him.

Maybe you're not confident in yourself.

Look at you as if you are not married, this is your business, you seem to be in charge of a little too much, you have to tell you everything before you are married, what to do after you get married, it is not good to go on like this, everyone has his personal affairs, and he doesn't want to tell others. Wishing you happiness!

Generally speaking, it is not easy to change the other party, I think you should understand what your man is doing, because he doesn't reply to your text messages, and if he leaves you, so that he can prescribe the right medicine.

I've had this problem before, but now it's okay, the solution is to find a friend you think you can trust, I've found it, and there's more than one!

This shows that you are too kind, it also shows that you like to judge things wishfully and it has become a habit, and it also shows that your parents are also kind.

There are good people in this world, and of course there are bad people. Everyone has their own way of thinking. To understand someone is to reason with his way of thinking.

It's a growing pain. Don't be nervous, just stick to it when you have the answer in your heart - whether it's right or wrong (who didn't miss it), you will slowly get used to it - and you will mature.

Maybe this is out of a kind of self-preservation, subconsciously don't want to make yourself sad, but if it's too much, it's not good, some people may know that they may not succeed before doing something but still have a fluke mentality and hope to get a good result, but the result of such a situation is often not good, it will inevitably cause a psychological gap because of too much hope, you can hope but make it clear that this is just your own thoughts, if a thing has become a fact, don't judge it with your own thoughts, If you do so, you will cause damage to yourself.

In fact, this state of mind is also very good, why should you always doubt the good of others?

This reflects that you may have grown up in a happy, peaceful and loving environment, because the people around you are friendly and tolerant of each other, and it is rare to meet people who are "bad" to yourself, so that you will not and do not want to easily doubt and deny other people's attitudes towards you. It's actually a healthy mindset.

But in real life, there are indeed people and things that are not as good as you want, and you need to make rational judgments without avoiding them.

I wonder if you've been hit by something?

Actually, it doesn't matter, you don't make yourself too closed, blindly reject, try to accept, follow your own heart, believe in your own heart, you must know that if others treat you badly, you are left with the best for yourself, understand?

I want to open a little.

It's not a psychological problem, it's a personal emotion...Maybe it's the subconscious rejection that doesn't want to face the real answer, so it chooses to escape...It's a kind of subconscious self-preservation of human beings, and it's very normal....Sometimes, be brave, always face what you have to face, and running away won't solve any problem, it will only make the problem worse, and in the end, it's yourself who gets hurt the most, because the fact is the truth, and not wanting to face him has always existed....Be brave, go with your feelings, don't think too much, believe in your truest feelings....

Too emotional, too kind. And it shows that you are a person who is good to others, so you are willing to believe that others are also good to you. When I was a child, I felt that when we were together, we should dig out our hearts and lungs, help each other, and warm each other.

But now, although I am not very old, I have seen a lot of things. In fact, the world you live in and the people around you are not necessarily true to you. It may be just on the surface, it may be taking advantage of you.

It may just take you like an ordinary person, and they don't want to be particularly nice to you, or they have changed their minds. This is a fact that must be faced. However, most people are still good, and they can still compare their hearts to their hearts.

And most people like kind people like you. No matter what others do to you, I think you should still insist on that kind you, maybe my social experience is not enough, and I still think everything too beautifully, maybe you will be hurt. So you need a certain amount of courage to insist on this kindness and be good to others.

Don't worry, it's not a psychological problem.

This phenomenon is probably due to your upbringing, right? If you can't change it yourself, I advise you to go to a psychologist and give it a try.

Whether it's good for you or not It's not something you can see at a glance You still have to understand it over time It's a good thing to think that everyone in this world is a good person Why bother with this.

Be open and accept anyone.

Hehe, this kind of problem is up to you. First, your thinking is too strong. Second, you don't have a deep hobby. Third, you have no faith. Fourth, you are not pursuing.

Me too, under the deception of others again and again, I still choose to believe Whether it's a friend or a boyfriend, I know that I'm cheating on you, I'm coaxing you to be happy, I don't believe it, but I can't control my heart, a typical knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, I prefer to go to the tiger mountain, an uncle will look at me, say that I'm too kind, too confused, before I get married, others can deceive me, only after getting married, the fog in front of me slowly dissipates I don't understand, I also know some things, but I can't do it Maybe it's really my psychological problem.

Subconscious behavior, insecurity in the heart.

If it is due to the fact that you have deceived you before, then you need to mentally autotalk every day to tell yourself that there is still a lot of beauty in the world. If, like this since childhood, it may be related to family education or personality, it belongs to a kind of self-protection, no matter whether things are true or not, it is best not to provoke me, and I don't take the initiative to cause trouble. May have a cold personality.

It is recommended to participate in group activities or do volunteer work.

To be honest, you are right to have this kind of thinking, realistic society, realistic life! No one can say this thing, but there are really few people who can meet people who are really good to you, not your heart problem or your personal feelings, this is the reality, now many people are too ruthless to do things, hurt many people, and many people don't believe in feelings for a long time. Because it hurts!

It's a normal thinking, there is no mental problem, that is, you belong to the more sensitive type, it is easy to think too much about what things, relax, thicker lines, there is no need to be too serious in life, and it will make you happier to go with the flow!

Psychological problems, you are the kind of person who prefers to deceive yourself, preferring to believe lies rather than accept reality, and are used to living in dreams. Maybe it's because you'd rather believe that people's hearts are good and harmless, rather than accept the normal insidious cunning. However, although this kind of mentality can sometimes hurt you, most of it will make you happy.

But don't be too self-defeating, because one day you'll break down. Introducing the heroine of the Korean drama "49 Days", she is an overly optimistic person.

Maybe the people who got along with me before were more kind, so I felt that others would not be very bad, and I would know my nature when I got to know it slowly.

To sum up, you are insecure, trustless, and loveless. That's it. Only by opening one's heart to re-accept some people, it is good to have a sense of self-protection, but it is also divided into situations, occasions, and people.

Otherwise, you are always so vigilant, and whoever dares to approach you is afraid of being hurt by you.

It's a personal emotional problem, it should be when you were a child, everyone else was very nice to you, you thought everyone was good, although sometimes you saw or heard bad news, but you still thought your insistence was right!

Given psychology, when there is an imbalance between personal emotions and society, a distortion of personal emotions can occur, simply put, once someone has hurt you, you will affect this behavior in your interactions with others.

Someone once said, "The process of growth is the process of the mind accepting what the mind already understands." ”

When you begin to unify your mind and mind, you are mature and fully united, and you are old.

I'm inclined to say that you're playing tricks on your personal feelings, for self-anesthesia, escapism, and so on.

If friendships are so easily broken, then what is harder than this? Friendship is like glass and steel, friends must be done, after all, we have cried, laughed, and experienced ...... together

Whether in life or on the Internet, everyone will have friends What is a friend A friend is a person who has a relationship with each other People who want to be good to each other Friendship is the purest, noblest, most simple The most ordinary feeling It is also the most romantic, the most moving, the most solid The most eternal emotion Everyone can't do without friendship You can live without love But you must not have friendship Once there is no friendship Life will not have a pleasant harmony It will be a pool of stagnant water Friendship is everywhere, she accompanies you around Haunting you, spending a lifetime with you Friends need to be trusted.

If you don't have any worries, why not start a new journey, although you are not used to it in a strange city, but it is better to see things and think about people, and maybe you can usher in a new life!

Everything happens for a reason, and if he was like this at first, would you marry him. It's up to you to find the answer to ......

Find out why, why didn't it go well! The change of environment is only temporary!

"The mountains and rivers are exhausted, and there is no way out, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village. ‘’

Then live this life by yourself.

Remember to take care of yourself.

Don't let yourself be too alone.

Find more friends to play with.

Make life meaningful.

Is this an excuse? People always have seven emotions and six desires, always have to find someone to accompany them, maybe now your fate has not yet arrived, in fact, people get along with each other, after a long time, you will know his (her) character, as a person, etc., so believe it or not is not important, it lies in your discovery!! Come on!!

That's just some of the people who are still looking for freedom ...

Millions of leftover men, social problems, leftover women, millions of ideological problems.

Good people in the world are many, but in order not to be harmed, they all put on disguised masks.

I can't believe in feelings now, because you have been deceived a lot, and one day you will find true love, but the time has not yet come. A good relationship doesn't happen all the time. It's all about taking your time, and people don't like it when they see that they are handsome and beautiful, because this will be very deceiving.

There are no good things in the world.

Don't look at the world like this, there are still a lot of good things, but I wonder why you hate everything so much, if you have ever met unhappy things and people.

I believe in feelings, and even for the sake of true love I can give up everything! Now no one likes it, who do you think is more miserable!

The world is disgusting to listen to.

Just, fuck love, roll as far as you want.

Because it's ugly, it's world-weary.

There is no right or wrong in anything, just a different position.

You don't believe in anything, so what do you believe?

If your friend doesn't believe what he says, you can show evidence that what you say is true to show that you are correct and convincing! And I believe it!