Thank you so well wishers 10

It takes a lot to come out of autism, including growing up from injury, when you go through a lot, you understand that you can always do it, but there is a devil in your heart, it is your past failure experience, he makes you not talk to others, when you are sad, and when you are with others, I feel uncomfortable, this is the bad experience that was evoked in a similar environment, at this time you have not yet interacted with people, but he has controlled you, you can't interact with the person in front of you at this time, Because you feel the person who once gave you a bad feeling, you feel the snake in the face of the well rope. You are cautious but give others a feeling of pain, vigilance, suspicion, and contrivedness, so you have to say thank you and apologize. syndrome.

So, don't think so much about doing what you want to do, people often find that they don't have self-confidence in what they are good at, and then use it as a base to develop themselves.

But when interacting with people, listen more and learn more first, and come little by little.

Will you and your parents be out of words? Are you worried about saying the wrong thing?

The most important thing in interpersonal communication is to have a heart-to-heart relationship, if you really regard him as a friend, how can you trust him that he will know and will be good to you. The key is to be sincere and tell him if you like him. Many words can be difficult to say, so you might as well listen to what others have to say, and imitation is also a good way to practice speaking.

Don't be afraid to talk to a stranger, you're just as new to him. Maybe he's nervous when you're nervous.

There is a pattern to the first time you interact with a stranger!

1) Introduce each other.

This session allows you to learn a little about each other's background!

2) Greetings. Ask each other some basic questions! This session allows you to get to know each other better and paves the way for deeper exchanges. Find out what you have in common with him!

3) Problem solving (the real purpose of communicating with him).

Pay attention to your language and think clearly! Ask questions and solve them in conversation with him!

The most important thing in dealing with people is to be confident and have as much knowledge as possible. Also, don't speak for the sake of talking, but have something to say, a substance, a substance, and a way of thinking.

By the way, I have time to talk. I'm a non-talkative person, but I'm very talkative with strangers and I don't talk to acquaintances very much! It's weird!

Hey, when others are talking, you just listen carefully, when you should say it yourself, think clearly about what you want to say, you always lose your temper, that's because you speak too quickly, without thinking, that's why it's like this. When you chat online, you are exercising your ability to speak. But if I'm wrong, don't blame me. Hehe.

Listening is just as important as talking.

Although you think that talking is cold, maybe your friend thinks you need to be quieter. Give him a chance to say it, too. If you don't say it, he will naturally say it.

Promote yourself, not to sell goods, say that others are good is the best to sell yourself, if you always want to show yourself, it will not achieve the effect, but also the backfire, people often say that respect for others is respect for yourself. That's it.

You should exercise your guts, communicate more with others, and don't be nervous. Be confident.

Actually, the two of us have very close personalities. I have a lot of friends, but I still feel lonely. My colleagues said that I had a lot of fun together, but I couldn't be a close friend because I wrapped myself up.

They can't see all of me, and I don't know how it is, but I love to socialize. It's just that I've heard too many stories between friends, so I don't dare to make friends easily. But you still can't live without friends, let's cheer together, okay?

I look "very bad"...

Just don't feel inferior.

Man lives for himself.

As long as you live well.

Why care so much about what other people think?

You must not be particularly good-looking, just like me.

In order for the prime minister not to feel heartache, it seems that they can only be expelled, and when they see it, they feel distressed, and if they don't see it, there will be no such thing. You can also ask the questioner how he can make the prime minister not feel heartache.