What to do if you are about to fall out of love

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Brother, listen to me to the truth, you'd better be mentally prepared to break up, although we all know that you still like her very much, but the relationship is managed by both parties, and one person must not beg the other, it is useless. If you love, you will love, if you don't love, you will not love, although you are very uncomfortable right now, but this is also a normal phenomenon.

    Who said you have to get married if you fall in love, right? Moreover, even if you do get married, you may not be a good match. It's hard to say.

    So, instead of that, it's better to open a little bit and go with the flow. Even if you break up, you can walk away generously and leave no regrets...

    I hope you will listen to me...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm in this situation now, hehe, I choose to follow fate, because I can't control her heart, I can't keep people's hearts, it's still myself who suffers, I love it, I cry and I'm tired, it's enough, there's no need to care so much, as long as I'm happy, learn from me, don't think about it if it hurts, time will prove everything, and it will free you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It seems that you love her a little more than she loves you, but the relationship can also be seen at this time, and the reason why she is shaken is because she doesn't love you enough, and you may not go far. I say this, don't feel bad, but be prepared, I'm just a girl who has been hurt. Normally, emotional things cannot go back to the past, that is, you cannot go back to the happy and happy days before, but the more you drag on, the more painful it becomes, and the more tired you become later.

    Love is a very pure thing, and if there is a flaw, even if it does not explode for the time being, it is also a time bomb. If you take the initiative to break up, then the result will be more satisfying and relieved, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is love, if you don't love you are separated! It's enough to have it before!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you take the initiative to break up with her, she may still be reluctant, which is called retreating as advancing. If she agreed, there would be no need to be together, and there would be face.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't nourish love with promises.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Long pain is better than short pain, break up. I'm just like you, and I ended up being hacked, so it's better to mention the breakup first.

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