I m willing to live 10 or 20 years less to make this relationship eternal

A boy who is so strict with himself, first of all, I admire you, but I have to say, you are too strict with yourself, you are forcing yourself, please stick to your feelings, since you have worked hard to pursue why give up, I believe in your vision, he must be a girl worthy of your love, don't say that relying on your own ability alone, far from meeting the requirements of the other party, after all, personal ability has limitations, you are only twenty years old, your potential is endless, don't underestimate yourself, No one can underestimate you, but if you underestimate yourself, you are giving up on yourself, and treat that girl as before, don't give up, you can have a good conversation about anything, and tell your parents what you think. Let them stand up to you, and I will stand up to you.

True love should not be based on material things!

Give him a chance, give himself a chance, and let you work hard together.

You tell your family that there is nothing wrong with the countryside, and that congenital conditions cannot determine the whole life.

If you are willing to work with him, then congratulations, he is definitely the one who can go to the end with you. If you dislike him, or if he can't face you normally, then there is no point in continuing with you!

It's only 20 years old, it's too early to say anything!

It is necessary to be serious about the relationship, and if you don't have the idea of treating the relationship well in the first place, think about what the result is.

My idea is that you can get the medicine you love on your own, but sometimes you try to learn to rely on it a little bit. Think about whether your feelings are worth it, if you really feel that it is worth it, and no matter what the result is, you will not regret it, so work hard for a long time, let his family see your efforts, your ability and your sincerity to him, personal opinion. I wish you happiness.

You're only 20 years old, do you really understand what love is?

Love is the contribution of both parties, and the payment without asking for anything in return! It's just you and him for the rest of your life!

Tired, who is not tired! Parents are tired too! Stressful, who is not stressed! In today's society!

When faced with love, the stupid side of people is reflected!

For example, if you can be together now, there's no guarantee of what will happen in the future! Love is meant to stand the test! It's true love! In today's society, it's too early to talk about marriage at the age of 20!

It is recommended that if you really want to be together, prove it to your family, don't care what your family thinks, as long as you believe in it, do it well! See if your love can stand the test! Isn't the opposition of the family a test?

Since he used to be self-sufficient, I believe he is capable, but now it's just a matter of convincing your parents, the older generation is already like this, and it's not easy to change. But you are young people! There is also unlimited potential, and it will definitely change the family in the future.

But it's a very easy thing to do!

Do you understand? Believe in what you do, there is hope and strength!

I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

I don't know what the girl's attitude towards the boy is, but she is just moved and willing to continue to be moved together, or if she really really falls in love with the boy and admires him. I don't know what the girl's parents are asking for, and what are the chances that the boy might not be able to meet it. The boy seemed to be a self-reliant man.

I was able to get what I wanted with my own hands every time. If the girl also really likes the boy, and is not just willing to live with the boy out of emotion, then the choice of a self-reliant man should be to firmly grasp the rare true feelings in life and strive to marry the girl into the door. Feelings may not need to be too serious, but sincere and deep feelings must be serious, otherwise you will regret it!!

20 is exactly the age of a person! Feelings are precious, but men should focus on their careers! Take advantage of your youth to learn more and enrich yourself!

You want others to look up to you! First of all, you have to look up to yourself! It's normal for men nowadays to get married at the age of 30!

Don't suggest it! There are hundreds of millions of girls in China, and when you get ahead, you will always pick a good one! You can also marry a foreign girl!

Having said that, there's nothing wrong with young people being more stressed, but who is not stressed by young people now? A word for you: be young, don't refuse to grow!

After reading it, you touched me very much, you are very motivated, I admire.

Since that girl likes you very much, try to make it last for you to come together.

Judging from the past, their family is not very strongly opposed, but their daughter's life, and their parents are very concerned.

Is it difficult to meet the conditions he proposed? Then show some sincerity, call her house to meet her parents, be sincere, let them see your sincerity, frankly speaking, you can't achieve that goal at this stage, but it won't be long, don't boast about Haikou, I think her parents will still be decided by their daughter.

You have a very kind heart, and if all girls were like you, I would rather live thirty years less! But the problem is that you have to tell your parents the truth and tell them that boys are self-motivated.

As long as you think it's worth it, it's worth it, I believe that you are a person with a goal to strive for, and this kind of economic problem will not be a problem for you at all, don't you have this self-confidence? If you don't have that kind of self-confidence, why bother pursuing it?

I hope you don't put it on someone else, and you did that! If you can do this, what is persistence? Struggle, but don't choose to be depressed, difficulties should be transformed into motivation!

The power of love is great, hold on and believe that the day of happiness will come!

Be obedient to your heart, as long as you feel happy from the bottom of your heart, (o) Life is that simple.

Well, this one. If it were, I would tell their parents, because they couldn't care so much about each other

No one knows, the key is still on your own, cultivate.

What a wonderful girl, what a fascination you have, tell me about it.

From Sanmao's modern poem "Say it to yourself".

1. Complete verses.

If there is an afterlife, be a tree and stand for eternity.

There is no posture of joy and sorrow, half in the dust and half in the wind;

Half in shade, half in the sun.

Very silent, very proud. Never rely on, never seek.

If there is an afterlife, it will turn into a gust of wind, and it can become eternal in an instant.

There are no sentimental feelings, no amorous eyes.

Half in the rain, half in the spring;

lonely, go on a long journey alone, take away all the faint thoughts, never miss, never love;

If there is an afterlife, be a bird and fly through eternity, without the distress of being lost.

There is a fiery hope in the east, a warm nest bed in the south, a remnant sun in the west, and a fragrance awakened in the north.

If there is an afterlife, I hope that every time we meet, it will be eternal.

2. Introduction to the poet.

Sanmao (March 26, 1943 - January 4, 1991), female, formerly known as Chen Maoping (later renamed Chen Ping), a modern Chinese writer, was born in Dinghai, Zhejiang (now Dinghai District, Zhoushan City). Born in Chongqing in 1943, he moved to Taiwan with his parents in 1948. In 1967, he went to Spain to study, and later went to Germany and the United States.

In 1973, he settled in the Spanish Sahara Desert and married Jose. After returning to Taiwan in 1981, he taught at the Culture University before resigning in 1984 to focus on writing and speaking.

Sanmao's prose draws on a wide range of materials, many of which are exotic, simple, romantic and unique, expressing the author's love for human beings, life, freedom and nature.

Sanmao is romantic by nature, and when he was three years old, he read Zhang Leping's "Sanmao Wanderings" and was very impressed, and later took "Sanmao" as his pen name. In order to pursue the "olive tree" in her heart, she traveled all over the world. However, whether it is the life atmosphere of a foreign city or the strange customs at the ends of the world, it cannot dispel the Chinese complex buried deep in her heart.

His representative works include "How Much Do You Know About the Flowers in Your Dreams", "The Rainy Season Will Not Come Again", "The Story of the Sahara" and so on.

From Sanmao's modern poem "Say it to yourself".

Say it to yourself" part:

If there is an afterlife, be a tree, stand in eternity, without joy or sorrow. Half in the earth, half in the wind, half in the shade, half in the sun. Very silent, very proud, never leaning, never seeking.

From Sanmao's "Say it to yourself".

"Migratory Birds Flying North" - Jiang Yan.

If there is an afterlife, I will be a tree and stand in the posture of eternity, without joy and sorrow.

Half in the earth, half in the wind, half in the shade, half in the sun, very silent and proud, never relying on and never seeking.

If there is an afterlife, whether there is anyone to love, I also have to try to be a lovely person.

Don't blame anyone, don't laugh at anyone, don't envy anyone, shine in the sun, run in the wind and rain, dream your own dreams, and walk your own way.

If there is an afterlife, I would like to be a tree. Stand in a posture of eternity, without joy and sorrow.

Mao wrote in "Say it to yourself".

If there is an afterlife.

To make a tree.

Stand for eternity. There is no posture of joy and sorrow.

Half in the dust.

Half of it was blowing in the wind.

Half sprinkled in the shade.

Half soaked in the sun.

Very silent, very proud.

Never rely on, never seek.

Whoever says an inch is careless, and he will be rewarded with three springs.

If there is an afterlife, I am willing to be a gust of wind, and I can come and go freely without worry.

Sanmao's "Say It to Yourself".

I don't know.

But when I first saw it, I was attracted to this poem.

I love this poem. Hehe.

It has been proved that it was correct from the beginning, otherwise how could it be blocked with ten years of life.

It must have been right to think that it was going to be right at first.

I would like to turn into a stone bridge, withstand five hundred years of wind blowing, five hundred years of sun, five hundred years of rain, just ask her to walk over the bridge!

Ananda said to the Buddha, "I fell in love with a woman.

The Buddha asked Ananda, "How much do you like this woman?"

Ananda said, "I would like to be incarnated as a stone bridge, and I will be blown by the wind for five hundred years, the sun for five hundred years, and the rain for five hundred years, and I just ask her to pass over the bridge."

How much will you like it?

But love at first sight and fall in love for a lifetime?

But don't ask about the return and wait?

Ananda, one day, when the woman passed by the bridge, it was only passing, and now you have become a stone bridge, destined to only fight the wind and rain.

You know all this, and you are still willing to suffer from creation only for that encounter.

Ananda, how much do you like the woman who passed by on the bridge, and made you abandon your way and suffer from love?

--Ishibashi Zen.

I would like to turn into a stone bridge and let the wind blow and rain and sun for 500 years, just ask the girl to pass by, is this it?

This is not said at all in the Buddhist scriptures.

As mentioned upstairs, it is a new movie dialogue.

That's just a pretense of "Buddhist Zen sayings" to flaunt this, and it's definitely not Buddhism.

The classic lines of "I Do": A man will never think a woman is too good, just like a woman will never think a dress is too beautiful. There are only two reasons why a woman gives up a piece of clothing:

One is the reason, and the other is the misfit. Men give up a woman usually because of this. ”

A man will never think a woman is too good, just as a woman will never think a dress is too beautiful. There are only two reasons why a woman gives up a piece of clothing: one is ** reason, and the other is that it does not fit. Men give up a woman usually because of this. "Good classic.

Tang Weiwei is about 43 points.

Are you going to chase me? Have you figured it out? Still, you're going to surprise me! Do you have a budget? How big is the budget? Have you done a risk assessment, return on income, and also, you chase me package does not include a marriage proposal?

Wang Yang: She is very good at showing off (referring to Tang Weiwei).

Yang Qianzihua: You mean that I am not good.

I don't deserve to be on someone's side, right?

Wang Yang: You only have the show left, the clumsy supreme dao costume performance Yang Qianhua, a man with different appearances and appearances: What do you mean You have a tops performance The one who drives a good car also has a top, which is considered excellent, right?

If there is an afterlife, be a tree, stand in eternity, without joy or sorrow.

Half in the dust, half in the wind, half in the shade, half in the sun.

If there is an afterlife, be a bird and fly through eternity, without the distress of being lost.

There is fiery hope in the east, and warm nest beds in the south.

Retreat the remnant sun to the west and awaken the fragrance to the north.