Mothers, babies are naughty and have a big temper, but what can I do?

Naughty children generally belong to children with high nervous system excitability and active thinking. Qin Yang's "I'm Growing Up - Baby Growth Story Show", I saw Ao Ao's mother write the ambivalence of love and hate among naughty mothers. In fact, for naughty babies, mothers should also pay attention to using these five tricks to help the baby stabilize:

1.Help your baby focus. Parents focus on what the baby likes, mobilize the baby's interest in learning, and make his attention longer time.

2.Enriching your child's life. Mom and Dad try to make the baby's life as colorful as possible, encourage the child to participate in regular activities, give him the opportunity to vent his excess energy, and ensure adequate sleep.

3.Avoid foods containing lead, lead poisoning is one of the causes of this disease, do not give your baby foods with too high lead content, such as preserved eggs, popcorn, etc. Do not use aluminium utensils for your baby.

4.Give the baby appropriate encouragement and affirmation, so that he can learn to persevere. Don't call him a "stupid child" just because he can't count or play the piano, don't put pressure on the baby, let him grow up easily.

5.Poor parental relationships are also one of the causes of this disease, and parents should set a good example for their baby and teach him that impulsiveness and noise are not the solution to the problem. In fact, sometimes, the child's temper is used to by the parents, and the parents pay attention not to accommodate the baby's unreasonable requirements.

It would be nice if the rewards and punishments were clear!

Educate well, you can't get used to it, and most of your tempers are habitual.

The baby's naughtiness is related to the pampering of parents, don't spoil the child too much, cultivate the child's independent character from small things, and correct the child ruthlessly when he loses his temper.

As an adult, I think it is good to remind and guide children in the process of growing up, for example, tell him about danger, survival, first aid and other survival knowledge, so as not to let the child be hurt or harm others, and not to have a bad impact on the psychology and so on.

It's the baby's nature to be active, don't correct it. The bad temper needs to be changed.

Babies are like that, and their world is full of curiosity. Give me some patience.

Three wrong ways to do it.

1 As long as the parents cry, they will immediately compromise.

Your baby will think that this works, and will definitely do it next time! 2 Counter violence with violence, "You roar at me, I roar louder" to cover up. This may temporarily suppress the child's temper, but it is also telling the child that "violence" and "force" are effective.

3 indifferent treatment, this is the worst, think that he is tired of crying, enough trouble, and it is over.

In this way, it is possible to develop two extremes, one is a people-pleasing personality, and the other is an extreme that does not care about others.

When the baby has a tantrum, we can deal with it like this:

1. First of all, be quiet and calm your emotions. Don't let your child's emotions get out of control.

2. The principle of curvature problems must be insisted on, and the bottom line for yourself and your children is drawn.

3. "Encouraging" your child to lose his temper and show understanding and sympathy. Say to your child "It's okay to feel angry, it's normal", "You can cry for a while and mom will be there for you" instead of saying "You can't be angry".

4 Wait for your child to calm down, and then guide your child to explain why and how he feels. Usually you can enrich the child's emotional vocabulary and describe your feelings (sadness, anger, pain, sadness, anger...). Work with your child to find a solution.

5 Tell him that emotions are normal, but they will not solve the problem, and that only by calming down and thinking rationally can he do so.

First of all, the mother may experience some difficulties in life or work pressure, which can affect her mood and mentality. In this case, she may not be able to control her emotions well and in turn manifest herself as a bad temper.

Secondly, mom may have some physical problems, such as lack of sleep, malnutrition, or psychological illness, which can also affect her mood. In this case, she may get angry easily or feel anxious, manifesting as a bad temper.

There are some other possible factors, such as discord within the family, discord with the partner, mischievous behavior of the child, etc., which can cause the mother to be in a bad mood.

It is important for children to understand their parents' emotions and thoughts. If you notice that your mom is in a bad mood, try to comfort her or listen quietly to her about her problems, which may help her feel better. At the same time, you can also try to involve your mother in more relaxed activities, such as doing something fun together, which can help improve her mood.

In summary, there are many reasons for mothers' poor mood, and children should understand their parents' emotions and thoughts, and lack some ways to relieve their emotions and make the family more harmonious and warm.

Preface: The pressure on adults is very high, and it can be very difficult to educate children. Many times because children are not sensible, it is very easy to make parents angry.

When parents encounter such a situation, they must learn to be calm. Let's not lose our temper with our children at will, which will cause a very big shadow on the child's psychology, so let's share with you how to control your temper.

Everyone will encounter annoying things, so when educating children, we must not be angry with children at will, which will have a certain impact on children's growth. It is recommended that if we have a temper, we must calm ourselves down first, and do not yell at the child, which will make the child feel very scared. We can give ourselves time to calm down, and when we feel that we are overwhelmed by negative emotions, we should take a deep breath and tell ourselves to learn to relax.

After relaxing, we will find that none of these problems are a big deal.

When your child is angry, don't immediately say to your child: Why are you so naughty, you think that your child is not blind and bad. Parents must learn to control their temper, and before we get angry with our children, we should understand that children at this age are very naughty.

If we educate our children to vent their emotions, then there will be a negative impact. So it is recommended that we do not respond immediately, we can avoid it, go to our own room to calm down for a while, and then we will find that we are in a much better mood.

Many adults can't control their temper, especially when they see their children being naughty. So it is recommended that every time we want to lose our temper, we can silently count 5 in our hearts, and after 5 counts, we still can't stand it. We can vent our temper in places where our children can't see them, and then come back to educate our children.

Because of the buffer time of the simple mask, the temper will not be as hot as before.

If your pure temper is particularly big, you should channel your spleen in some correct ways, and you should also correct your heart. Or a diversion.

When encountering such a situation, you should quickly stay away from the child, and then slowly enlighten yourself, drink a glass of water, or sit quietly for a while to dig your head, to relieve your emotions and control your temper.

At this time, I suggest that parents should spend some time alone in a room, which is conducive to emotional relief.