Is it necessary for modern marriages to be the right people?

It is also very necessary for the following reasons:01. The marriage of the right family is longer; 02. The harmony of the family is conducive to the family; 03. Our households do not have so many differences about the education of their children.

01. The marriage of the right family is longer;

If the marriage of two people is the right match, then it is easier to last for a long time, because the education and family aspects of the two people are matched, so it will not make the two people and the family feel that there is anything inappropriate, and they will naturally get along very well.

But if there is a big difference between two people in all aspects, one person needs to make a big change for the other person, otherwise, it will also lead to a more and more serious gap between the two people, and eventually affect the relationship between the two people.

And if the two people who are right get along, they will feel more comfortable and more harmonious in all aspects, which is also more conducive to the development of the relationship between the husband and wife.

02. The harmony of the family is conducive to the family; If you and the other party's family background is similar in all aspects, then you will get along very happily after marriage, and if the gap between two people is very large, it is easy to cause one of them to discriminate against the other, and it will also affect the harmony of the family over time.

When some people are married, even if they don't care about it at the beginning, but under the influence of their original family, the conflict between the husband and wife will slowly increase, and it is likely to lead to divorce in the end.

03. Our households do not have so many differences about the education of their children.

The importance of the right family is also reflected in the child's education, although the child's education is usually a contradiction for many couples, but if the door is not the right household, it will also cause more conflicts because of the child's education, and some people may also blame their spouse in front of the child, which will also lead to the same psychology of the child.

On this point, an actress marrying into a wealthy family is a very typical example, although some actresses have successfully married into a wealthy family, but because the wealthy families do not recognize these stars, it will also affect the children's respect for them, Wang Yan's children not only scolded their mother as a pig in the show, but also beat their mother, and the relationship between the child and his mother is also conceivable.

Therefore, in terms of marriage, we pay attention to the right person at all times, there are too few stories of Cinderella and the prince, and why the fairy tale does not write about the life after marriage, it is because there may only be chicken feathers left after marriage, and Cinderella after marriage may not be as comfortable as we imagined, and it will definitely be affected by the right person. Unless she can change herself and fully integrate into the circle of the prince's life.

Modern marriage, how to understand "the right person"? New Interpretations for the 21st Century.

It is best to be the right person, if the two families are very different financially, it is easy to have conflicts after marriage, this society is a realistic society, unless the values of both families are very good.

I think it is necessary to pay attention to the right person, because if the door is right, there are some concepts that are very consistent.

I feel necessary. Because the marriage of the right family is often longer, and the three views of the two people are more consistent.

Not necessarily, if it is true love, and in the case that both parents don't care too much, there is no need to pay attention to the right match.

I don't want to make this analogy: You are Wang Sicong, do you want to find another female version of Wang Sicong? Don't need it, right?!It's not the right match, it's true love and real needs.

There is no need, it is now a legal society, not an ancient marriage and a good match, now it is all free love.

I think marriage still has to pay attention to a certain right person.

1. The marriage of "the right family" is the most stable.

The formula for marital happiness is that two people are evenly matched. If there is a huge disparity in the strength of two people, the strong party can protect the other party's face, or the weak party can not be afraid of external rumors, then this marriage can be maintained. But in reality, both of these points have stumped many people.

I have observed an interesting phenomenon in life: those marriages that are very different end in embarrassment; Those marriages that are the right ones are long-lasting.

Two people from different family backgrounds will have different lives and personalities, and all their experiences determine what kind of person he will be in the future.

The grievances suffered today will be filled elsewhere in the future; The lack that I feel now will surely be captured one day. The so-called human nature, even so. Don't go against human nature, understand it, go with it. Love can not look at the family background, marriage must be the right family.

In a marriage that is right at home, no one takes advantage of anyone, no one is wronged, no one covets interests, and naturally there are not so many hidden grenades waiting to be exploded. Only a marriage with the right family can have the possibility of long-term stability.

2. The marriage stove code marriage of "the right family" is the most comfortable.

There is a kind of door-to-door pair, which is called the convergence of three views. When people with the same three views are together, they will come together from all over the world, and they will never get tired of looking at each other.

The so-called right family, this does not mean that two people have equal financial resources, but because of their comparable family background, their views on things and their vision of the world will be the same. Those marriages that are comfortable with each other are just spiritual matches.

You don't have to please, you don't need to please, you know what I want to say, I understand what you mean. Such feelings are truly rare and precious. The marriage of adults is nothing more than finding someone who is comfortable with each other.

3. A marriage that is "the right person" is safer.

There is a saying: "A gentleman is not guilty, but he is guilty." This sentence is still applicable in marriage. The marriage is the right one, and it is the protection of two people.

If two people with a large gap are united into the most intimate relationship, it is giving others a reason to hurt you at will. A marriage with mismatched conditions is like a princess wearing a gorgeous dress and full of jewels walking into a commoner's house, and it is difficult not to breed the idea of taking it for herself.

A good match in this world is not only to choose the right person from the beginning, but also to choose an environment in which you cannot do evil. You don't know if you don't know if people are fickle, and you don't know if the other party is a human or a ghost.

The marriage of "the right person" can at least ensure that the other party does not pretend to be with you because he is greedy for anything.

A good marriage is fatal, and a bad marriage is deadly. "Choosing a partner is a very important thing in life, not only to keep your eyes open, but also to verify your character. In addition, it is also necessary for two people to walk in the same step, have the same three views, and grow together.

The reason why it is easier to get married with the right family is because the chips of both parties are about the same, the balance of their marriage is flat, and there is no need to add courage and compromise the day after tomorrow, which will naturally save much trouble.

No matter how good love is, when it comes to marriage, it will inevitably fall into the cliché of calculation. It's not that love has deteriorated, but that love has matured and there is a lack of fighting.

The word calculation may be a derogatory term in love, but in marriage, it may not really count.

We can understand that when a woman sees no hope in a man, she chooses to give up and chooses to leave, and we rejoice for her, saying that she is a timely stop loss.

But why can't we forgive a man for giving up a woman who will only drag him down? Although many men do not expect to marry a virtuous helper, most men never want to marry a woman who has no advantage at all and can only rely on him for survival.

Rich men won't, because they are the kind of man who needs to marry someone who is most in need. They may fall in love with a woman who is attached to him for a while, but most of them end up marrying evenly matched women, because what they need most is a strong combination.

Ordinary men will not, because life is hard, and the burden on everyone's shoulders is not light. When an ordinary man marries, most of them expect the woman he marries to be able to take a hand, and they don't want to carry a heavier burden.

They can't carry Li Ku, and they don't want to carry it, who doesn't want their lives to be easier?

If you want to live together, and someone else has brought out meat and vegetables, you must at least take out decent rice, right?