How do you get your girlfriend to open up to you?????

Updated on parenting 2024-05-23
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Brother, I tell you responsibly: it's time to change!

    The reasons for this are as follows:

    1. There is no foundation in feelings. You've only been together for two months. According to Freud's argument, this belongs to the period of passionate love, but it is not normal for this situation to occur during such a period. Maybe you haven't loved each other at all.

    2. Differences in social identity. She is a kindergarten teacher, and you work hard in society. No matter how big the difference between the two people is in terms of academic qualifications.

    Just by looking at the difference in the social identities of the two people, you know that there is an alarm between you. Unless you are the more powerful kind and can meet her material needs, but even then, feelings are basically non-existent.

    3. She's perfunctory to you. She is now a kindergarten teacher, and the highest degree in this major is a junior college. And students in the kindergarten profession will not be busy at all.

    Unless you're in a relationship at school. Otherwise, they will learn to play the piano and sing professional courses and public courses such as kindergarten education and psychology. None of these are excuses to be busy.

    4. Since she refuses to open up to you, it is because she can't tell you. I will definitely say what I can tell you, but can I tell you something like she met other boys at school and the two of them were having an affair? Think for yourself.

    With all that said, I don't think there's any need for you to talk to her anymore. What to talk about! Do you have to force her to say that she doesn't like you, or that she talks about other boys, are you willing?

    Work hard, make more money, and make more friends. There are many good women, there are those who like you, and they will tell you everything! Why do you have to let yourself get hurt to be willing!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You open your heart first, in order to expect girls to open up to you, there is also a possibility, even if you open your heart is not necessarily, so first of all, you have to make yourself aggressive, have your own skills, so that girls appreciate you, and secondly, you have met the right person at the right time, when these two points are sufficient, it is when you are prosperous.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If she doesn't want to tell you no way!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There may well be other men.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Obviously she's using you as a substitute.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    will take the initiative to chat with each other and take the initiative to tell each other about their own affairs, which will make girls open up to themselves in life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    We must brush up on our sense of presence more, to gain the trust of each other, two people must communicate frequently, communicate frequently, and the relationship between two people should be particularly good and intimate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to be very responsible, be very good to this girl, and be unique to this girl, you can give gifts to the girl, and go out on dates with this girl, so that this girl can open up to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You must always be by the girl's side, you must give the girl enough security, a sense of responsibility, and you must let the other party have a feeling of dependence on you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Frank and sincere, any friendship and love is based on frankness and sincerity.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is very important for couples to open up between relationships in order to strengthen the relationship between two people. There may be some couples who feel very unable to let go when they first get in touch, and they will not confess their past to each other at this time. This will also cause some conflicts and disputes between couples, and it is not conducive to the better development of two people.

    Everyone also thinks that it is very good to open up to their girlfriends, which can also make the relationship between two people more harmonious. Therefore, the matter of falling in love should also attract everyone's attention, and everyone should also pay attention to many situations in the process of dating. <>

    Opening up is a sign of honesty, whether it's a friend or a girlfriend, it's also a very honest show. Everyone also feels that opening up to others is conducive to the relationship between two people and can also make the other person feel safe. There are many people who report their itinerary to their girlfriends when they are in a relationship, and they also choose to tell some things.

    This practice will also make the other party feel very secure and easy to make the other party feel very good. <

    Opening up your heart will make the other person feel safe, and everyone thinks that this situation is very good, so many people also like it. I hope that everyone can also be open to others, which is also a respect for both parties. Understanding is very important in the process of falling in love, and you don't choose to be vexatious.

    Because a good relationship needs to be maintained by two people, so that the relationship can be more smooth. If some people don't understand each other's words at all, but make trouble unreasonably, then everyone will also feel very depressed. <>

    It is very important to open your heart, and I hope that everyone can harvest sweet love in the process of falling in love, which can also make both parties feel very friendly. After all, opening up can also make the other person feel very comfortable, which can also promote the relationship between two people. If everyone is aware of this, then it will also be very beneficial for both sides.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are some things that you will definitely open up about, but there are still some things about yourself that you will have reservations.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I will open up to my girlfriend, I think my girlfriend is also a very close person to me, no matter what problems I have, the two of them can communicate with each other, so I need to open my heart even more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, because two people will have some intimate contact and communication with each other in the process of getting along, so they will also say some of their own words.

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