Now that the two child policy is open, what is the reason why you don t want a second child?

I don't have money, so I don't want a second child, the family conditions are too poor, I don't have the conditions to ask for it, I don't dare to ask for it. The two-child policy has been liberalized, and many friends want to have a second child, but I only have envy.

There is not much economy**, so it will not take a lot of money to raise a child, investment is needed everywhere, and who would dare to have a child without money. I owe a lot to others for raising this child in this condition, and I dare to ask for another one, I really don't dare to think about it, isn't this a joke? Or are you sorry kids?

We don't dare to think about anything in this society without money, otherwise our children will complain about us. The second child looks cute, but does everyone dare to ask for it, if you can't give the child more resources and environment, don't give birth, I'm sorry for others, what's the picture? I discussed this issue with my husband before, and my husband said, wouldn't it cost me my life to ask for another one?

This can't be compared with others, let's forget it, although I still want to have another son, but this kind of thing is hard to come by, forget it, don't want it.

The physical condition does not allow people to reach middle age, and it is unlikely that they want a second child. In the past few years, my health has not been good, and having a child is a hardship, and the conditions for having another child will not be allowed. So the best way is to give up, give up thoughts, and concentrate on this one child.

There are many people around me who can't afford it, and they can't ask for it many times, and a friend even went to do a test tube, but every time it fails, and finally he breaks his mind. Now the environment is not good, and we have lost our thoughts, and some people have money but can't have children, which is the norm. Just go with the flow, don't force it too much, that's it.

The physical condition does not allow it, there is no way to do it, and the pressure of people nowadays is too great, and there are too many worries, so it is still difficult to realize the dream. Don't think about it after the best childbearing age, otherwise it will not be good for yourself and your children, and a friend lost his life because he wanted a second child, which is a very realistic thing.

A friend said that it is good to go with the flow, if you can ask for it, if you don't, forget it. This is fate, whether you believe it or not, it is a fact. The second child and we are also about fate.

It's because of the pressure of life that I don't want a second child. I want to wait until I have a good condition, and I am thinking about this problem.

The first is because the cost of raising a child is too high now, a child is about to be unable to raise, and there is really no money to raise a second child, and the second is because it is more exhausting to take care of a child, and I don't want to go through it again.

Now that the second child has been opened, the reason why I don't want to raise a second child is because I earn a relatively small salary, and I can't afford to support a second child at all.

I think it's the family's financial situation that makes me not want a second child because I can't afford it.

The two-child policy is open, and there are more and more people who want a second child, but now with more and more people who want a second child, people find that their economic pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and they are not very able to raise a second child, so this phenomenon is becoming less and less, whether it is the cost of giving birth to a child, or the cost of education after the child grows up, ordinary people cannot afford it, so there are not many families who choose to have a second child.

Because the cost of making an appointment for a baby is too high now, and the cost of education is also very high, and the life of young people is very stressful, and there are elderly people who need to be taken care of, and there is no one to take care of them after giving birth, which is also a very important problem.

First of all, because young people are now under greater pressure to get married, they need a bride price, they need to buy a house, they need to repay the mortgage and car loan, so the pressure to have children after buying a house will be greater, and in the future, they will consider marrying their children, the cost will be even greater, and many young people choose to avoid having a second child.

Why open up the two-child policy? Because China is only allowed to have one child in recent years, and ethnic minorities and rural areas only have to have two children, the population has been greatly reduced, and the aging population, in a few years, the population will be aging, it will be very serious, so the policy of having a second child has been liberalized to encourage the birth of a second child.

1. The fertility rate of women of childbearing age is now growing negatively.

As a basic national policy in China, the family planning policy has been implemented for 30 years, but in recent years, the total fertility rate of women of childbearing age in the registered population in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and other places has continued to decline, and there has been a negative growth phenomenon, and more and more young people feel that the pressure of having a second child is too great and will not choose to have a second child.

According to the requirement of maintaining a stable replacement level of human beings, a woman of childbearing age should have a child. The current national average is only 1 in Beijing. This is an extremely dangerous number.

This means that if China's fertility rate continues at this level, the Chinese population will decline by an average of a quarter every 30 years in the not-too-distant future.

2. China's child population has dropped significantly.

The rapid growth of our population was reversed in the 90s of the last century. Since 1998, China's natural population growth rate has dropped to below 10, and since the beginning of the 21st century, China has become one of the countries with extremely low population growth rates in the world.

Under these two severe circumstances, China needs to adjust its population policy in a timely manner.

The information comes from the sharing of knowledge about M&D and obstetrics and gynecology.