My wife and I are at loggerheads. Who is wrong

Your wife's temper is really big enough.

If it's just a little problem, you can let it go.

I have a small agreement with my wife that neither party is allowed to lose his temper for more than 24 hours, and that the other party will be absolutely silent when one party loses his temper. After 24 hours, if you are still losing your temper, then don't blame the other party for turning his face and not recognizing the person.

Haha··· So far, it's been very good, and my wife always remembers that. If your wife has the two of you in mind. She'll be embarrassed to see that you're always so tolerant.

If you're really that grumpy, I'd suggest you think about it... Or separate for a while. Your future is the most important thing, not hers.

If you really can't stand it, divorce.

Everyone understands this truth, but it is difficult to operate, after all, people's behavior is also emotional. In the face of a shrew who scolds her husband and curses her in-laws and insults her children all day long, I believe that no one will calmly say to her, "Actually, I can understand your suffering, everyone has a lot of unsatisfactory lives, you have to think about it." Words of comfort like these.

No one is perfect, in the face of a shrew, not in every situation we will choose the best way to deal with it, we also have emotions, and we will lose our temper when we can't help it.

I am in my 20s, growing up in the midst of my parents' quarrels and witnessing the mental journey of a wrong family for more than 20 years. If you have the conditions, it is better to choose a good wife with cultivation and integrity. Happy to you.

This is a thing that no one can say, if you want me to say either you change it, change her, or sooner or later you will have to separate.

Don't you think you're inappropriate?

Dealing with the relationship with your wife requires you to be patient, lower your status as a man, and treat the women around you well.

I think it's a very normal thing for two people to quarrelBecause it is impossible for two people to be together that no contradiction will occur to a certain extent, some contradictions will occur at any time, because the life experience of two people is different, then there will be more quarrels to a certain extent, which is a very normal phenomenon, I personally think that it is not possible to give up the opportunity for two people to be together because of this phenomenon or because of this aspect.

I think it's not terrible for two people to have contradictions, but what is terrible is that when two people are brave enough to contradict each other, they are unwilling to find the trigger point of these contradictionsIn fact, I think that two people choose to quarrel with the attitude, and to solve the problem is to solve the problem, rather than to end the relationship, so I personally think that the reason why he quarrels with you is also to solve the problem is to solve the emotional problems between you, so from this aspect to consider, Don't make hasty judgments about your relationship, you must believe that your other half actually loves you, and he doesn't want to separate from you when he argues with you, or has some other ideas.

In fact, if a girl is a girl, it is an understandable thing, because in many cases, in fact, girls are not able to show great generosity, which is also a very normal thingThen, when you encounter this kind of thing, the first thing you need to do is to tolerate and understand your girlfriend, because in many cases, she may, have this kind of calculating, or say this kind of temper, to a large extent, it may come from your influence on her, when a person, she has experienced too many things, then she may make corresponding changes in this aspect, there is no complete reason, just because of her personal reasons, I personally think you are also responsible.

So I personally think that whether two people can persist depends on whether two people really love each otherAs long as it's true love, then I think we should actually continue to persevere, and if you give up too soon, both of you will regret it very much.

I don't think your married life can continue, and neither of you is willing to endure and give.

It's better not to have such a wife, because it will make you feel very tired.

Maybe she has such a personality, why didn't she see this before she got married.

What kind of mentality do you have, which family doesn't quarrel, if you love to quarrel, you will resolve the conflict, don't want to divorce at every turn.

It should be as you please, you can continue if you want, and you can get divorced if you don't want to.

In this family conflict, as a husband, you are too impulsive, and the consequence of your impulsiveness is your future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The estrangement will be deeper, more difficult to ease, and your wife will be disappointed or even hopeless about you.

For now, you need to get your wife back as soon as possible, if she does something unforeseen in her emotional state, it may make you regret it. Find her and take her to a hotel or something like that, and sincerely apologize to her and apologize to her on behalf of your mother.

The counselor believes that in this mother-in-law dispute, your wife will not be completely right, but now is not the time to pursue this issue, the most important thing is to appease her first.

You have a temper and apologize to redeem it, live separately, don't live together, and tell your mother to go back to her hometown.

You didn't even understand why the two of you were arguing, so you hit your wife, and besides, it was your mother who did it first, and I think it's time for you to apologize seriously.

You're not wrong, your wife is not filial, and it is natural to beat her.

You have to know why you are arguing, and if it's your mom who is at fault, you should talk to your mom. If it was you who hit your wife indiscriminately. That's what's wrong with you.

You said that you know everything about your wife, then you still beat her, it's too undeserved, no matter how a man can't beat a woman, it's not right to beat someone, you should apologize.

Hello, for your question, I have the following in mind:

First of all, you need to analyze the cause of the incident.

Back to the process, you have to calm down and face the wife and mother who are answering the anger, first of all, you have to calmly analyze with your wife and talk to her, but be careful, restrain your emotions, don't get angry!! Don't even hit people!!

The second is to let the wife know the importance of respecting the elderly, and if the wife is a short-tempered person, she should find a way to coax her to try to be a gentle and humble person.

If the wife cannot calm down, she should think from the perspective of the children and persuade her to set a good example for the children.

Then there is the mother's problem, the old man is old, he can't always get angry and quarrel, hurt his body, persuade the old man to want to open some, and tell her not to always have conflicts with his wife.

It's all a family, why always quarrel, you have to be a good middleman and try to maintain family harmony, understand?

I hope it can help you with your problem, but it's important that you take the initiative and maybe discuss it with your friends.

I believe that your family will be able to reconcile soon!! Best wishes and thanks!

See who's right and who's wrong, and if it's right, it's wrong.

Matrimonial Law:

Article 31: Where both men and women divorce voluntarily, the divorce is granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

This kind of communication can be waited until the other party is discouraged, of course, if one party has taken a very serious divorce luck, it will be difficult.

You never quarrel, which proves that you are very happy. We are very understanding, respectful, and tolerant of each other. Won't quarrel over a trivial matter.

There has been no quarrel, and it should be said that there are three possibilities.

Should I say that do you feel very polite to each other, do you feel a little strange, do you feel that there is a distance between your hearts? I wonder how far you've come in more than a year together?

If the stage is not deep, what I want to say is that you lack people to take a step, you want to go into the other person's heart, and you don't ask, you feel that you will always tell you if you want to tell you, don't tell you and don't force it, in fact, you can ask, there are some things you can ask because of your relationship. It's good to be tolerant, if it's not tolerant, I just don't want to quarrel, I feel that it's not good to have a relationship, and I'm afraid of hurting the other party and I'm afraid of myself.

If this is the case I said, please open your heart, don't think that a good girl will understand you, a good girl will tell you everything, some things you don't ask, you don't say, who knows if you want to know, whether you want to say it!

But personally, I don't think there's any need to quarrel, it's okay to discuss.

Prove that you're quite compatible.,You should be glad you haven't quarreled.,And there should be a party with a good temper.,It's the type of people who love it.,Don't think about arguing or something.,Please.。。。

In essence, it can be said that you have a good temper and rarely quarrel with others. But you are afraid that you and your girlfriend will not quarrel like this all the time, and in the end will it be because the relationship will slowly fade, sometimes you always feel that quarreling can increase each other's feelings, but you are afraid that once you quarrel, you will lose her, and you have a good temper, as long as you quarrel, you will definitely let her, so in the end there is no quarrel at all.

This shows that you and your wife love each other and are in love, it shows that the two of you understand and respect each other, and that you both have a relatively high level of cultivation and greater tolerance. This is a very harmonious and happy family relationship. I wish you a long and happy world.

It shows that there is a deep love between you!

Isn't it good not to quarrel?

I think; This is something to be admired!

It's a good thing, it proves that the two of you have deep feelings, love each other, and know how to respect people who are worth cherishing.

First of all, there is never right or wrong in the affairs of husband and wife, only good or better, and there are no exceptions, and in this case, you don't take your wife's affairs seriously, because you can't take them seriously, you don't have time.

It's your fault that makes your wife unhappy.

And your wife didn't forgive you because of your fault, and it was unintentional, and there was a conflict between the two parties.

This contradiction belongs to the category of creating something out of nothing.

So the best workaround is already figurative.

You have to compromise with your wife first and make things clear, because the cause of the thing is you, even if you don't mean to, but the root cause is you.

Then, when your wife asks you for a treat, if you are not sure whether you can go or not, you will decisively refuse and let him go by himself, and then you will have to pay for it.

If you have time afterwards, you can go and surprise your wife, so that the married life is full of vitality.

After reading your long summary, you are really nonsense. It belongs to the woman's character and is cautious and loves to grind.

If you really love your wife, you will tolerate all her mistakes. Also, there is no one right or wrong in love, there is humility and mutual understanding. And you big man, I found out why you are so grinding for a long time on this little thing, and you came up here to ask who is right and who is wrong.

At first glance, you are a guy who has no opinions, and there is a big man arguing with a woman, he is really a cautious and grinding talent. There is no man's demeanor and grandeur. Serious bs you.

And after a unanimous vote of 15 experts to decide that you are wrong about this matter, apologize to your daughter-in-law.

Seeing that you and your wife are also newly married, I think two people should learn to communicate and understand when they get along together, like you, I can see that you are actually very aggrieved in your heart, and I think that your wife is unreasonable, but each other can think about each other, sit down and talk about it, after all, it is a lifelong thing, and the mentality is very important.

If you don't have time to participate in this event, don't participate, after all, filial piety comes first, and it can be seen that you are very filial, and I believe that your wife will know sooner or later and will understand, because she chooses a good man.

Remember to be humble and let your wife go! Who called us a man?

Men are generous, since you are all more stubborn. You can't let a girl bow her head first, right? Admit your mistake first.

When the fit is as good as ever, I am looking for an opportunity to communicate with her. She must know what's wrong with her, and even if she does it wrong, there will be plenty of reasons to say it's your fault. Bear with each other.

Husband and wife can't talk about right and wrong, they can only talk about love, since you love her, be tolerant of her. In addition, we must learn to communicate, and communication is very important.

Even if it is nonsense, the Chinese live in nonsense, so don't take it for granted that she should know, or she can figure it out, what should be said must be said, big men bow their heads are nothing, women need to be coaxed.