If you were a man, would you choose me or your first love?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-04
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give up right away. This kind of man is not worth any nostalgia from you.

    Don't think you're great.

    You are hopelessly stupid in the eyes of others.

    Why do so much for him?

    If he really cares about you, he loves you.

    Will it make you make so many sacrifices?

    Giving up is the best option.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I understand your current mood, because I am also a woman, and now my pain is inseparable from you, I have been with him for eight years, but he still deviated, and it is even more ridiculous that a woman on the Internet has won his heart. No matter how painful it is, you have to let it go, you really just need to figure it out. Maybe now you are still in pain, believe that time will take away all the pain, and when you think of this again, you will only laugh and laugh at him.

    Don't believe that kind of man's vows and sweet words, because those are unrealistic, like the wind blowing, and his only function is to carry the leaves from this tree under another. Cherish the next root that you are waiting for! I believe that I can find a man who truly loves and loves me!

    At that point, you'll feel happier than before. I bless you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be stupid with this kind of male underbrush, look up as soon as possible, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I were a boy, I wouldn't look for a new one just to forget my previous partner.

    If I were a boy, I would choose you because you gave me your body, which is very serious and a lifetime thing.

    If I were a boy, I would choose you, but I wouldn't let you pay so much for me, because if I love you, I will be reluctant.

    If I were you, I would leave, and leave immediately, no matter whether I can be happy in the future, at least not one mistake after another.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you lose the film and lose money, admit it, just look at it clearly next time, the road of life is still long.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Indeed, people are like this, they don't cherish things that are too easy to get their hands on, and his first love is still the most profound after all, because he pays a lot there, so he wants to get more from his first girlfriend. To use the simplest analogy, your parents' contribution to you is gratuitous, but you will not cherish your parents' love as much as you cherish your boyfriend, because you don't give much to your parents, but you pay more with your boyfriend. Since he chose this way, you can only wait for time to heal yourself, to be honest, the boy's vows are just the physiological reaction of human nature at that time, the feeling at that time, and he doesn't love you anymore, naturally his promise can't be fulfilled, and the lack of love is only for the responsibility to go down with you can only delay you.

    People are selfish, and if he can find his favorite, of course he won't be able to take care of you. He doesn't know how to cherish your goodness is his immaturity, and you will definitely be able to find someone more mature than him who is suitable for you in the future. It's normal that you can't think about it now, and when you meet the real one, you'll look down on the past.

    In my opinion, all the efforts are worth it, just like many people who struggle for their careers all their lives may not succeed, but the process of paying is your personal wealth, and no one can give it to you. Wait for your next relationship and you will also grow a lot of experience Come on, I wish you a speedy liberation

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's all for you to get used to! You are also responsible! It's good not to be indulgent with men!

    Some men (especially immature men who don't know how to take responsibility or men with poor moral character) will not cherish what is easy to get, and if you are good to him, he will think that it should be in the end! On the contrary, his former girlfriend has never been loved by the other party, but he is more fresh to her! I don't know your boyfriend, so I can't say he's a man of bad character!

    But there's one thing, he's a man who doesn't like to be responsible!

    Give it up! It's his loss, and he'll definitely regret it! At the same time, you should be glad that it happened early, if it takes another 2 years or old to do this, you will really lose a lot!

    When looking for a boyfriend in the future, it is very important to pay attention to people's morality first! Don't be too nice to men either, think more about yourself. Take a lesson, believe that even if such a man runs back again, you won't want him anymore, and even if you do, will you go back to the feeling you had before?

    So cheer up now, live better than him, be happier than him, and let him regret it! Tell him to get out of the way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why do innocent and infatuated people always run into white-eyed wolves.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Such a man is really not worth your sadness! I'm having the same experience as you! I'm even worse than you!

    My relationship with him for 2 years was finally seduced by a woman who had known him for half a month on the dance! Still scolding me online! Sadness and sadness are only for their own efforts, these are all temporary know?

    You will meet a guy who loves you very much! All you have to do now is wave your hand and say thank you to him for leaving me!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People are like this, the first time is the most important, the first love is always the first in the mind, and no one can replace it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your question now.

    Not waiting for him to decide.

    Instead, take the initiative to let go.

    It's not that mistakes are not allowed.

    It's that he wasn't saved.

    Letting go is your best destination.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You find another one, such a person is not worthy of your nostalgia.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's definitely not worth it, remember that women don't save money for men to spend, if they want to save money, they will save money, if they don't save money, they won't save money, it's not fair for such a person to pay for a person to accept, it's the same for both men and women, it's the same in other respects, and he accepted it, and he still says things like this......Really, it's good for you to give him up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Such a man, do you think you still want it? You should be thankful that you are busy and not married yet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, I would also recommend that you choose to give up, although you feel aggrieved to do so, but it is really the best way to go.

    And then, I think you have to learn to forgive. Although this person is ruthless and sorry for you and you, you have to forgive him, he may not have forgotten his previous object in his heart, empathy, this is also a difficult choice for him.

    In addition, giving up is giving up, and you must not break the connection. You should avoid this. Girls like you are most likely to make this mistake.

    And what I need to explain is that you feel that you have invested a lot and are very wronged, which shows that you love him, and it also shows that you are a girl who knows how to love. Don't stand still, move forward. The color of life is uncertainty.

    If you think about it, it's actually deep inside you. You don't love this person anymore, all you love is that memory of you. Time will dilute everything.

    My If you're still in pain, I can talk to you more.

    Good luck with you**.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    ?b. Bottom line: he owes a beating.

    Are you still worried about this?

    Are you stupid? Walk up to him.

    Spank. And then the Flash Man.

    Don't be reluctant.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Personally, I feel more in love with my first love, because my first love is a boy's first relationship, and it is also my favorite person, and it is also the relationship that I have worked hard for.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My opinion is that boys love their first love more, because all boys have a first love complex, and their feelings for their first love are the most sincere, and they are the most selfless and dedicated to their first love, and they will not be mixed with any material relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Boys love their first love more or love the current one more, depending on the boy himself, everyone has a different view of the relationship and the feeling of different people is also different, love and what kind of person to fall in love with is like a mirror, reflecting what kind of person he is, sometimes the first love gives people a better feeling, the current because he has been by his side, so more trivial things in life, may love the first love more is also a good memory.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This depends on whether the current is better than the first love, men prefer excellent people, as long as you are good enough, you will get a person's sincerity, so you have to improve yourself, make yourself better, surpass his first love, instead of putting your mind on unnecessary worries.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think I have to dwell on this, who can guarantee that I will only love one person in my life? And why should you care about things that have passed, first love will only be stored in a corner of the body like a certain file, if you don't want to open it, it will never be opened, and the current one is the one who will face it every day and will love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My opinion on this is that what boys like is always their first love, and they regard their first love as a benchmark in their love life. The criteria for choosing a mate are also on par with the first love, so the current one will also be compared.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think I still love my first love more, because my first love is very simple, without any entanglement of interests, and I can't forget it for a lifetime.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Naturally, I love the current one more, if I love my first love more, why should I be with the current one, this is difficult to explain, but it is inevitable that there are some male compatriots, who always miss their first love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think boys still love the current one more, because the first love is in the past, and it was just a good memory, and I didn't know what love was at that time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's the first love, because everyone can't forget their first love, they are very impressed by the first love, and the first love also gave them a lot of love, so I think they love the first love more.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think I should love the current one more. The first love is said to be very beautiful, but the first time you fall in love, the feelings are not so strong at all, just because of play, but for the current one, you will use 100% of your heart to her, and you love her enough.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Of course, it's the current one, although the first love is always unforgettable, but the more important thing is now, he will hide the beauty of his first love in his heart, but go on with the current one.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    loves the first love more, because the first love is the mate selection standard in his mind, so the weight is different, but for the current one, some boys are just to satisfy the emptiness in their hearts.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    must love the current one more, if he doesn't love the current one very much, he won't choose to be with his current girlfriend, and about the first love, she will have a certain sense of existence in everyone's heart, so don't care about it specially.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it's the first love, after all, what you can't get is always restless, and the first love will have regrets, and this regret will beautify the first love, so that the boy can't forget it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Of course, I love the current one more, although every boy will have a very memorable first love, but they also understand that the first love can only be a thing of the past, so they prefer the current one.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think boys must love their first love more, because when they first love, they are very innocent, and the relationship between the two people is very deep.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It must be different, because first love is the most important part of a man's life for this man, and it also has a great impact on this man, so men treat their first love and the position of their lover in their hearts differently.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    For men, the status of first love and lover in their hearts should be different. Comparatively speaking, the former is more important. First love is the most impressive for boys, and it is that pure feeling, without any pressure. So the status is definitely different.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This is different, so compared to the first first love, this relationship is sweeter and more feeling, but later broke up for some reasons and can't be together, so for the second lover, which is the current situation, it is more of a kind of responsibility in the relationship, stability, because two people want to live together for a long time.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    There are also some people's lovers who are first lovers, but in fact, the two have nothing to do with each other.

    As long as it is the person who has loved and paid, there will be a place in a person's heart, who has not loved a few people when they were young.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    For men, the status of first love and lover in their hearts is not the same. First love is the first time I have experienced beauty, so it is usually buried in the bottom of my heart. And for lovers, the main thing to cherish is the present. Of course, the status is different.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's really different, because the position of the first love in one's mind is more important, because everyone likes the first love very much, and feels that the first love is a memory that is difficult for them to run into, so for men, the position of the first love is also very important.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    For a responsible man, the first love and lover should be the same in their hearts, because for them, they will treat every relationship sincerely.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    For men, the status of first love and lover in the heart is different, and the first love is buried in the heart for men, and it is always the object that will never be forgotten in the heart; And the lover is the object that needs to be loved, the person who wants to walk through her life hand in hand, and more to love and care for her.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    For men, the status of the first love and the lover in the heart should be different, if you calm down and come to your senses, you will cherish your lover, and you will not have a first love with your first love, it is just a hazy love in adolescence.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    To be honest, first love is a hurdle in a man's heart, stay for a long time, but eventually forget, and when the lover chooses, he basically recognizes him and wants to accompany him for a lifetime, so I think it is better to be a lover.

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