Why is my father like this, and under what circumstances is he his own father

Communicate with him more! When you pick up a glass of wine and have a drink with your dad! Doesn't it feel warm?

Talk to him more! With emotional people! I'm sure your dad will get better!

After all, your dad loves you!

...Bad behaviour can be changed. At least he loves you.

So you have to oversee him. Knock him. Help him to repent. Got it?

Communication can bridge the generation gap.

Why do you only think about your dad's shortcomings?

My dad is like this, self-righteous, obviously he did something wrong and put the blame on others.

And the conditions of my family are very poor, and life is very bad.

Then I got through it and went to college.

I always felt that the road ahead was bright.

So when I am sad or angry, I always look ahead, dream about my future life, and smile slightly.

By the time I'm getting closer and closer to my dream.

I found that I was relieved a lot.

Although in the past, hatred or scolding has passed, no matter how it was before.

It's a good time now.

There are some things that don't have to be taken care of.

Only by relaxing yourself, anyone and everything can be better.

It's not that you are asked to tolerate him and forgive him, to love him with kind words and move him, maybe we can't do it, because we are not saints, we are not some godlike person in a TV series.

We're going to do it.

Be forgiving yourself.

Communicate with him more and talk to him, it will be better, and the status quo will change slowly.

You should have a good chat with him about this, for example, it is drinking, gambling, the harm to him, there is nothing beneficial, and, anyway, he is your father, he does that you can only talk to him in private, if you can't talk about it, I suggest you go out by yourself first, go to the place you want to go, wander around, scatter your heart, I sometimes feel like that when I am depressed, hehe!

A mature person is eventually able to reach the point where he is both his mother and his father. When we turn away from our parents and forge our own path in life, we need to be the one who loves us the most

Believe in yourself unconditionally, support yourself unconditionally, and give yourself the greatest tolerance and acceptance no matter what outcome you encounter; At the same time, we must also become the most strict people who ask ourselves to dig up their skins: not afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness, and do what we say.

Fathers play a very important role in everyone's life. When I was a child, my father was the greatest person in my heart, he was omnipotent, knowledgeable, and an important source of his knowledge. After entering middle age, the role of the father himself will also change, and he will no longer be the one who helps him, but also a beacon to guide him.

The way my father does things for others is always influencing him. Especially when he was confused, his father's big hands were the powerful hands that pulled him out of the fog. Sometimes, my father is the shadow in my mind.

When you're frustrated at work, give yourself encouragement and get yourself back on your feet. When you are tired, go to your father's side, be coquettish, and pour out your inner troubles, and in an instant you will feel refreshed and energetic. At this moment, my father is the patron saint of my soul.

Throughout his life, fathers play many roles, each of which is important.

Every important decision in his life has a figure of his father. It's even more important in adulthood! On the occasion of Father's Day, may all fathers in the world be safe and healthy!