Life is really just a few decades, how should you realize your value at the age of 22?

A lot of people are not very successful right now, but they have a lot of confidence in the future, and I am too, although they are not very successful now, but they have a lot of confidence in the future.

Friend, do you know this?

Many people have a lot of confidence in the future.

Do you know what this is all about? Because in the future, it will be a fiercely competitive society, and it is necessary to have strength to survive here.

It doesn't believe in what you call tears and glitz.

Do you know what you need to do now? Do what is most easy to survive and grow yourself. If you are a student, take every opportunity in front of you to learn knowledge and exercise your abilities.

Believe in yourself. Don't forget, since we're friends, maybe we'll be competitors in the future.

Don't want me to knock you down.

Let's work together.

Oops, sorry, I'm 24.

What would you say when you were sitting in front of a computer as bored in your natal year as I am now, with the same question now?

Ay! There are so many things to worry about at the age of 22. I really don't know what I'm supposed to do. ”

What, what value. It's twice as comfortable as it gets. Play Warcraft no, brother take you. ”

Yes! 22 Ra, brother. Be confident, don't be so refreshed. I'm going to be pretty good.

You should have your own goals, your thoughts. Ability to think independently. It takes exercise. That's how my success began".

Or maybe you simply won't waste your time like I did.

It's Sunday; Sunday is boring, Sunday is boring!

When I first stepped into the workplace, I didn't think I had the ability to realize my life value first, but learned how to do a good job first, how to get along with others, how to adjust my mentality and role, and accumulate experience. I think most people can be frustrated when they first enter society, but I don't mean that something big will happen. But looking at society from the perspective of a student is obviously very ideal and superficial, and I am also learning.

I guess it's achieved by constantly changing jobs, and I'm also confused

It's too big a topic to be clear, because I'm still figuring it out.

The only thing that can be confirmed is:

If you have started to work 100%, then you have already started to realize your value!

Don't change jobs all the time.

It's not good for you.

Only those who have been baptized by society can succeed.

I'm also 22, graduated in June last year, and although I haven't changed jobs, I've changed 3 companies! Confused

Confused, I don't know why.

How to make one's life more valuable means to improve one's own self-worth, that is, to improve one's various abilities qualitatively. This is my understanding. I think there are several ways to make your life more valuable, which I can refer to for you.

One: At the age of 20, if it were me, I would increase my reading, read some good books, and then increase my knowledge. Books like "The Grocery Store" and "Who Moved My Cheese" are good books that you can try to read.

Let me have a better grasp of the opportunities in the future.

Three: I think you can also learn what you should learn and do what a student should do. Learn your own professional courses, and then get the certificate you should get, and then graduate successfully, I feel that this is all something that makes my life more valuable.

When we are twenty years old, it is when we are young, it is very easy to increase our own value, as long as you are willing to work hard, don't be lazy, nothing is impossible, Grandpa Mao once said, there is nothing difficult in the world as long as you are willing to climb, so come on! Making your life more worthwhile isn't just talking.

When I was in high school, there was a boy in our school, who was handsome, good-looking, and very good at studying, and often the first in their class. I'm probably in his 20s this year, and I sometimes hear his classmates mention that he spent time in the library until 12 p.m. before going back to his dorm room at university. Most of the scholarships from the school were taken.

People who encounter this kind of effort are really admired. Some people say that in college, as long as you don't have to fail a course, it's fine. But if there are good companies to recruit for.

Can students who don't fail the course get in? Everything is a matter of personal competence, as well as the reserve of personal knowledge. Therefore, it is necessary to recharge at the age of 20.

You need to read more books and enrich yourself with a certain amount of knowledge. Don't think that you are already 20 years old and should go out to work early to earn money. When you learn a certain amount of knowledge, even if you go out to work at the age of 25, you can earn several times as much money as other people.

Of course, the above is talking about people who go to college. There are also people who were born in their 20s and did not go to university for some reason. If you want to make your life more worthwhile, then you should read more books in your spare time, after all, books are the ladder of human progress.

Even the security guards at Tsinghua University are graduate students. Therefore, to realize one's own value, one must have perseverance and perseverance. It is necessary to have a certain amount of knowledge to pave the way.

I'm at this stage right now, on the road from being in my 20s to being in my 30s. Briefly share some of my practices and experiences.

First of all, keep trying, learning, broadening your abilities, and finding your own interests.

Learning is not just about reading, interacting with people is also a form of deep learning. For example, if you go for an internship during the college holidays, try to try different jobs as much as possible. It's not just about finding a job, it's about meeting different people and discovering your strengths and interests.

I interned in Shanghai during my freshman year, at the Beijing Art Gallery in my sophomore summer, and at a high-end private travel agency in Guangzhou in my junior year. After graduating from his senior year, he came to Shenzhen, and his current job is a combination of his interests and previous work experience.

Second, find a point of interest or a small thing, and keep doing it.

For example, I insist on drawing one vignette every day after work, and I have already drawn more than 500 of them. Do a little bit every day, accumulate a mountain of soil, and your results will be seen in time.

It is also more important to insist on a certain amount of exercise every week, adjust your work and rest, and ensure enough sleep. It is true that the young heart is very restless and energetic. Good work and rest and time management can complete various tasks more efficiently.

1. Do something that can increase your own value. Make some investments in what you want to be in the future. Get to work and make sense of it.

2. Don't sit in a well and watch the sky. New things come from what we call weak ties, friends of our friends. When people in their 20s only associate with like-minded peers, they limit their social circle, what they know, think, speak, and where they work.

3. The best time to manage a marriage is before you get married, which means that choosing love is as positive as choosing a job. Choosing your family is about choosing wisely who you want to live with, not just spending time with someone who just chose you.

30 is not a new 20, so recognize your adulthood, gain some identity capital, take advantage of your not-so-direct connections, and choose your family. Don't be limited by what you don't know or don't do. The decision of your life is yours.

Thanks for reading!

First of all, I remember watching an old man's speech at a table, and he wept and said that the happiest thing in his life was to meet his wife in his twenties, although they were still arranged by his parents at that time, but even when he was criticized for ten years of turmoil, his wife insisted on staying by his side.

So love in your twenties will be the most precious memory in your life, of course, it is best to be true love, although we all know that true love in this world, we don't know whether it exists or not, I think a sentence in "American Gods" is particularly interesting, you don't believe in love before you meet love, you don't believe in God before you meet God, but they are there.

So the feeling is the lubricant of the social and social environment, you should find a partner at the age of twenty, and you don't have to be vigorous, and you don't necessarily have to be able to enter the palace, but at least there is a memory, and the older you get, the more precious it is memories.

Then read more, Emperor Zhenzong persuaded the study of the poem repeatedly mentioned in the book has its own Yan Ruyu, the book has its own ** house, of course, it is full of romantic style, but in the Great Song Dynasty, there are many people who have been prosperous and rich since then, and Wenzhi is the peak in the Great Song Dynasty.

In modern society, although there are almost no people who can read books, because the competition in this society is becoming more and more fierce, but after all, reading can open the mind, know literature and etiquette, he can greatly affect a person's judgment on one thing, and his influence is mostly right, provided that it is a good book.

And then find a career, this age is the age of confusion and wandering, it will not be easy to find a career, after all, not everyone is Zuckerberg or Bill Gates, start a business at a young age, but at least have a sense of dedication, hard work and hypocrisy, if it is not a great grievance, patience will pass, if it is a great grievance, it should be decided, young is willful.