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Be more mindful of everything, pay attention everywhere, pay attention to observation, don't listen to biased beliefs, don't be stubborn, deal with people more, can't avoid difficulties, persist for a period of time, and you will definitely be able to reap changes.
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Talk to your friends a lot, watch some funny** and humorous jokes, you can get a big change, don't care about other people's opinions, you must stick to what you think is good, you know!
Sometimes when you encounter trouble that you can't touch, you use one of the thirty-six strategies"It's best to go"
Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent diligence. Edison uttered this maxim!
Believe that you are the best, so that you can be your best, face the world, face people!
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Have fun hanging out with more friends and don't spend all day alone to slowly change your introversion. The special evidence you mentioned earlier is the character of a good person, and it is better not to change it, because there are very few good people left.
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It's that you are trapped in it and don't want to come out, make more friends, you understand your own problems so well, you won't be able to change, if you think you can't change, you don't need to say anything, by the way, do you work, if you have the opportunity to be a salesman, it's very exercised.
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Make more friends, work hard, nature is difficult to change, time is a problem, nature is beautiful, and there is no need to force (personal opinion).
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You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.
It would be nice to keep an eye on it and go through a little more grinding.
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Just don't change it, find someone who will protect you.
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Considerably agree with the second floor! Remember that society is a melting pot and hope you don't lose yourself.
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Personality can't be changed, and this is also one of my own characteristics.
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How to become smart for stupid people: 1. Eating more fish meat, especially fish brains, can indeed make people smarter, but now there are no stupid children, only lazy children, so it is the most important thing to study hard. A person who can say that he is stupid must be a positive person.
2. As long as you are self-motivated, it means that you are not stupid. Usually read more books and don't stay up late at night. Keep up with the pace of the teacher's lectures during class, and I believe that your grades will definitely improve.
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Friend, you put too much attention on what you don't want, not on what you want, and instead of asking yourself how to overcome these shortcomings, you should ask yourself how to get the opposing strengths.
First of all, I don't think you have as many problems as you think, because your problems are common to everyone, and if you have the courage to say it, it means that you have made up your mind to change, and you will definitely change.
Again, your problem is essentially an inferiority complex due to a lack of self-esteem, friend, your problem I have also encountered, it is an emotional problem due to the influence of family, but it can be solved.
There are many methods, and I think a few are more useful:
1.Change your body movements: Actions change emotions.
Faster speech rate Exaggerated movements Deep breathing Laughing often.
2.Autosuggestion, often saying to yourself: I can do it, I like myself.
3 Interrupt inertia: The next time you feel inferior, loosen your shoelaces and tie them up, or do 10 push-ups on the ground right away.
4 Change the question: When you start thinking about the worst, ask yourself: What did I learn from this, and what is the significance of this?
5.Imagine: Think of the person you are afraid of as a child, and then you will find out how strong you are ...
I believe that you can change, because I believe that I can.
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Well, you can read more books, edify, don't think too much, and increase psychological pressure on yourself. In fact, all the psychological shadows of people are ** to themselves. Make more friends and accept criticism from others.
Don't lose your temper casually. When you want to get angry, count the numbers silently, don't be impatient, and ask yourself: Does this help you?
Think more about others. Learn stronger.
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Maybe it's a health problem Don't always blame it for mental illness, if you lack qi and are weak, it will affect your mood very much Or see a doctor!
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。。You have carried out a very comprehensive criticism and self-criticism ...
But, I think, first of all, you have to regain your self-confidence!
First of all, there is no good and bad character, but you care too much about your character, in fact, all personalities are 2 sides, you say that you are introverted, introversion is not bad, introversion means more subtle, and the fine tradition of the Chinese is implicit :) You said that your mental ability to bear is very poor, this can only show that you are not mature enough, not experienced enough, not a problem of personality; In the same way, being timid and afraid of things can also be said to be conservative, emotional shows that you are still young, self-centered is a manifestation of assertiveness, there is nothing wrong with talking to yourself and saying what you think, lack of patience as long as you are not a kindergarten teacher, the problem should not be big, anger and grudges, suspicion and illness are all signs of immaturity, and do not blame your own character :)
In fact, if you are really as you say, it is not to look for personality problems, but to find the reason why you are like this, what causes you to feel that others look down on you and cause you to be suspicious? Only by finding this reason can we better help you let go of your burden :)
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Can a person's personality be changed? "It's a very valuable question, and many people are also distressed and confused about their own character flaws
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It is to practice more and improve self-confidence by constantly breaking through yourself. It is possible to change the personality if there is a strong desire to change and long-term persistence. Psychologists' research shows that about 50% of personality is genetically determined, and the rest can be perfected, shaped and changed as oneself grows under the influence of the environment.
If you are not satisfied with your personality, you can try the following methods. Successful Character Training – Self-Training The specific method is as follows:
Clause. 2. Determine what role you would like to play if you were an actor and why you like it. Clause.
3. Choose any person you worship and list the traits and qualities in him that make you worship.
Clause. 4. Combine the second and third with a personality of your own choosing.
Clause. 5. Change what you don't like in your image, behavior, and personality, and reinforce what you like.
Clause. 6. Express your new personality. I would like to remind you that you should not expect to develop a character that will be successfully transformed anytime soon, but that you must also build on the core of your character.
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Before taking the lawyer's exam, in order to be able to speak in a compact and logical way. The teacher suggested that we use more four-character idioms. My advice is to practice your listening and understanding skills.
It's about listening carefully, then understanding quickly, grasping the main point, and not misinterpreting. Also, don't express your thoughts when no one asks you for your opinion.
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Chat more with strangers and participate in more social practice activities
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Find a friend who is more talkative and often go out to parties and learn more from him.
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Talk less, and talk to you more well.
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Apply for a buckle, nothing to talk about.
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Why do you bother yourself with the mistakes of others? Let go of sadness, let go of troubles, let go of attachments.
Be less calculating and be considerate of others. Think more for the other party, we have the willpower, do not change ourselves, but ask others. Have a pair of eyes and don't look back at yourself.
And to find fault with others. This is where troubles arise. Be your own master. Take full control of your own behavior and will not let others affect you.
Firmness of heart. Because ordinary people can't be their own masters, they can't control their inner thoughts. Let him fly around. I can't even perceive my sincerity. This.
The mind is too scattered. So filter through meditation. Scattered hearts. Achieve a central force. Know your own heart and be happy alone. Not because.
He has more, but because he cares less. To control one's own heart, not to let him, is to master one's own behavior, which is equivalent to mastering the study of life.
Be able to smile, learn to be happy, learn to be strong, and learn to face everything in life with a smile.
Relax your mind, don't think too much about it, and breathe in the fresh morning air.
Feel the taste of nature o( o....What's more, don't care about the word "happy", the real happiness is actually around you, feel it with your heart.
It's not fixed, it's caused by karma, and there will always be times of disillusionment. We cling to it and refuse to give up the suffering, and the Diamond Sutra says, everything has a way, like a dream.
Phantom bubbles, like dew and electricity, should be viewed as such. You won't cling to the pain.
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The first thing that is not assertive is self-confidence, even if you are confident to the point of being a little narcissistic, don't trust others in anything, even if you believe it, it has to go through your own brain, don't blindly follow.
Secondly, I think that not having an assertive opinion is often closely related to too little knowledge, many things are, you have not seen, you have not been contacted, there is no idea of your own, it is recommended that you contact more things, expand your knowledge, even if you make a few mistakes, it doesn't matter, people are constantly making mistakes to improve themselves.
Finally, it is recommended that you find someone you trust and you feel very assertive, tell her (him) your problems, listen to other people's opinions about you, and think more about yourself.
It's not a big deal.
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If you have already worked in the society, you must know how to learn to smile, because communication requires a pious heart and comes from the heart. Of course, you should also learn to be calm and composed, and you should also consider saying suitable words in different places and in front of different people, and try not to say irrelevant words. Do you accept such an answer?
The action is grinding. This kind of personality is innate, and you can't change it if you want to. Otherwise, there will be no people who are chronic, and some people who are quick tempered, so there are all kinds of personalities. I can only remind her often at the right time, and there is no other good way.
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Second, read more books, because books can teach you many ways to be a human being, and you can also improve your self-cultivation.
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Can a person's personality be changed? "It's a very valuable question, and many people are also distressed and confused about their own character flaws
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Can a person's personality be changed? "It's a very valuable question, and many people are also distressed and confused about their own character flaws
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No one is born with a thick face, and a thin skin means that you still lack a sense of social responsibility, but those who are thick-skinned also have to be "polished" after a long time and many things. Everyone has their own dignity, and only by letting go of their dignity and being accepted by society can they realize their own value in life.
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Change slowly,,Give yourself a goal,,Don't rush.。。
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Can a person's personality be changed? "It's a very valuable question, and many people are also distressed and confused about their own character flaws
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First of all, you have to accept and recognize your personality, and know that introverted personality is not a bad character, and introverted personality does not mean that you are unsociable. Both introverts and extroverts have their own strengths and weaknesses. Secondly, learn to be good at giving full play to the advantages in your personality and be good at reducing the shortcomings in your personality.
Take a look at the narrative below, it.
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Before you do something and speak, slow down and think about it for a few seconds. In doing or talking.
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