How to communicate between husband and wife, what to do if they often quarrel

Cold salad 、、、 correct their attitude, adjust their mentality, you must know that quarrels will not solve the problem. A quarrel can only exacerbate the contradiction between two people...

More respect, understanding, tolerance and trust between husband and wife...

There is no shortage of communication, do more communication with each other...

Marriage requires both parties to manage it with their hearts...

There are many kinds of quarrels, but they can quarrel because of:

1. I don't want to hide my true thoughts (some people can hide them for decades) 2. I want to save face too much, my self-esteem is too strong (this is because I am not confident), and I don't want to lose to the other party.

3. Think that you must be right and the other party must be wrong. (I don't know how to always find the reason for myself, and when things don't go my way, I think it's the other party's fault).

4. I look down on each other a little bit in my bones, and when I encounter problems, I always don't review myself first, but reprimand each other first.

You first analyze why you are arguing and how you are arguing. I'll tell you when I can answer that.

I need a couple of info to recover 1How long have you been married? How do I feel about how I have been married for less than a year or two?

2.The content of your quarrel is mainly family trivialities or relatively large things3Did you fight before marriage? Isn't it very little. 4.How long have you two been in a relationship?

To learn to be patient, when the other party is more angry, you can take a step back, wait for the other party's anger to go out, and then find her or him to reason, explain the reason for the matter, husband and wife quarrel sometimes there is no right or wrong, some just have different views, to understand each other, more from the other party's point of view, it is not so complicated.

It's better to be separated for a while, and it will get better slowly, and it will be timely**!

It's simple to get along with love, after all, it's a lifelong thing, love is the only thing to maintain, if there is any contradiction, let yourself calm down first, and then discuss it well, the problem needs to be solved, noisy can't solve the problem, treat it calmly, and change the way.

It's normal for husbands and wives to quarrel, but it's true that exploding foul language can hurt people and hurt feelings.

However, when people are angry, they often overdo it, and if your husband is usually rude and often rude to you, then you should pay close attention.

This involves the issue of communication between husband and wife:

1. Husbands and wives have different needs in marriage

The husband wants to be grateful, adored and appreciated by his wife, and the wife wants to be secured, distressed and valued by her husband.

In the event of a quarrel, there must be a fuse, but when you quarrel, you forget the original reason, and the reason why the conflict will intensify is that the town of ruler generally violates these needs of the other party.

2. Wait for both parties to calm down before communicating well

Replace criticism, accusation, and complaint with "direct expression" and say what you want from each other: Husband, you are rude to me, which makes me very sad