I have doubts about the world

This society does have what you said, it is inevitable that there is a dark side of society, but you can't blindly immerse yourself in it, this is the tip of the horns, everything should be considered from a different angle, think about the good, things have two sides, since there is a dark side, there must be a bright side, an optimistic attitude can help you a lot, you can try to adjust the mentality, a vacation or something.

Whatever circle you enter, there are rules of the game, you kill them, revenge on them, it can only prove that in IQ, you admit defeat, solve the problem by force, in fact, there is nothing difficult to deal with, it is about the approval of others, let the people around you recognize you, prove yourself.

Everyone is like this, not others, think for yourself Do you have a time when you bully the weak, even if you don't, have you ever deceived people Don't always look at the world with pessimism Don't you have a happy time? In life, there are always more happy times.

I'm also extremely cynical, what's the use. I don't care about anyone, I live my own life.

There are contradictions in some people. There are no completely good people, and there are no completely bad people. There is no good or evil.

You kill yourself first and try it, it's fun, really, I often play it, it's much more fun than killing others.

Life is so cruel and realistic, these have existed since ancient times.

You need to adapt to the society, not let the society adapt to you. When you become a human being, you will be able to call the shots. Good luck!

Uh''How can I tell you?''

In fact, the decision is yours, you can't say that they are wrong, this is their way of life or the way they get along (but you don't fit in''

Two ways: one, learn to get along with them, but you don't want to bully back, this is their way of treating you, you can only say that one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer the other, the road is different, do not conspire with each other, do not be friends

The choice is yours!

There is a fisherman who goes out to sea every morning to fish, and by noon he can catch a few fish, and then take them to the market to sell them to support his family, and in the afternoon he has time to play guitar, play chess, chat, and enjoy life with his family in the village with a few villagers.

Then one day, an economist came and saw that the fish he was catching were big and good, so he gave him an idea: If you fish like this, if you can have economic foresight, you will definitely achieve something. The fisherman asked, "So what should I do?" Economists say that first of all, you should spend more time each day catching more fish and then accumulate money.

The fisherman asked, "What if you have money?" The economist went on to say that when you have a certain economic foundation, you can set up a small factory to make canned fish, and then sell your products to other places. The fisherman asked, and then what?

In a few years, economists continue, you can go public and become a business for the benefit of your company.

The fisherman asked, and then what?

The economist said: Then you can catch a few small fish at home every day, play the guitar with your fellow villagers, play chess, chat, and enjoy life with your family.

Isn't that the life I'm living now! ”

Human beings live to complete a physical journey from the starting point and finally back to the original point, no matter how brilliant or bleak your life is, you will eventually return to the original point. Everything is like this, starting with a starting point and eventually going back to that starting point. The "goal" should only be regarded as a point in this journey, no matter how important this point is to you, no matter how much it occupies your entire life journey, it cannot be your end.

We can think of everyone's life course as a "circle", and all the bits and pieces in your life process are a point on this "circle", no matter what you do, it is a necessary process to form this "circle", without this, you cannot constitute your "circle".

I don't have much to say, just a few pictures.

I don't know if there's your shadow in there.

I studied psychology, so first of all, I will tell you that introversion is not a disadvantage, and don't feel that it is because of your introverted personality that you can't get along with others. By no means! Introverts are just not too overt, and introverts tend to be more introverted.

They are good at thinking, thinking about themselves and others. You can feel this in your words.

Second, talk about being sincere. This is absolutely true, no matter who you treat, no matter what time it is, sincerity is right and necessary. Your frustration ** your "hope":

You've been sincere with them, and you certainly want them to be honest with you. But maybe they're stubborn and unbelievable, maybe they're just pranks, and you take them too seriously, so you always feel like you're being tricked. What if you looked at things from a different perspective?

For example, if you treat them sincerely, regardless of how they treat you (don't hope for things that you can't control), if you treat them sincerely, it means that you are cultivated and moral, and you have an advantage in personality. If they are sincere with you, then they are very good. If they don't treat you sincerely, it only means that they are not good, so why should you be angry at their mistakes?

Third, be brave in the face of various situations. It's not that you're introverted, it's not that you don't want to say things that make others uncomfortable, it's not that you don't dare to say things that others don't feel comfortable with, it just shows that you're kind. I'm here to tell you:

If you are sure that some people are bullying you and making fun of you with your kindness, then be brave enough to say no! Tell him that you look down on their behavior and that they don't deserve to be your friend, and then have less contact with them.

As long as you are kind, brave and sincere, you will never lack friends, I believe you can!

Can't be too weak.

Shoot when it's time to shoot.

Since they tease you like a fool.

You can look at them as fools.

HOPE: You dealt with it early

Treating people sincerely depends on who they are.

As for them ...

Hum... Let them look at another you.

Living with good people, such as entering the room of Zhilan, does not smell its fragrance for a long time; Living with people who are not good, such as entering the abalone, do not smell its smell for a long time.

He once taught us that the peace obtained by concession is not peace, and the peace after war is true peace.

However, for bad people and bad things, do your best to stop them, and if you can't stop them, don't let yourself be in the same stream as them.

I don't know what you do? If possible, you can change your environment, stay away from those gangsters, you don't need to be sincere to those people, because they are not worthy of you to treat them like that, all you have to do is to find someone who is compatible with you, and then gradually expand your social network, in fact, there is nothing wrong with being introverted, but you must not be inferior, don't let others look down on you.

Hi, it's simple, everyone is drunk and I am sober, and the whole world is turbid and I am clear.

Don't care about other people, just be yourself.

Socialize with like-minded people, think about others when you get along with people, open your heart, and say what you want to say.

It's a bit of a hassle, but if you can, leave them and ask for like-minded people.

To treat a gentleman is to have the demeanor of a gentleman, but to treat villains like them can neither give in, nor can they be tough, too tough to find disaster, too weak They think you are a bully, you must learn to be silent, and bravely give back at a certain time.

Can a sheep be friends with a wolf? If you want to find friends, you have to find deer, horses, etc. Being with them makes you feel bad, so why are you still with them? Won't you change a few friends?

First of all, you make a big mistake, why do you feel like an introvert?

When we were children, one day, my mother took us to Qinwei's house, and when we arrived at Qinwei's house, my mother said, baby, this is your little aunt, hurry up and call your little aunt. It just so happened that you were very upset that day and didn't want to call it, so you didn't call your little aunt, and then your mother would touch your head and say to your little aunt"Hehe, our little baby is very introverted and afraid of embarrassment. "This is a meaningless kind word, but unfortunately, you can hear it clearly, and you must be thinking in your heart"Oh, it turns out that I am an introvert, and it turns out that introverts don't need to be called auntie.

And then slowly you start to be reticent and start to have little contact with people, because you tell yourself that you are an introvert, so you don't need to communicate with them, and you don't need to mingle with them, because you are an introvert.

I don't know if you're a boy or a girl, if you're a boy, you should be a little more open-minded, be broad-minded, a person who doesn't know how to be sincere is not qualified to be friends with others, do you have to be with them? Are you really inseparable from them? You are a man, you have your own responsibilities, and if it is true that as you say, they only treat you as fools and will not be able to be friends with you sincerely, then even if you leave, they will not be uncomfortable.

As for yourself, straighten out your head well, put your mind elsewhere, work or study, as long as you have a sincere heart, are you afraid of having no friends?

First of all, tell you that introversion is not a disadvantage, and don't feel that it is because of your introverted personality that you can't get along with others. By no means! Introverts are just not too overt, and introverts tend to be more introverted. They are good at thinking, thinking about themselves and others.

The above sentence is very true, I have also had the distress of the landlord, understand. I think they interfere with you in your daily life, for example, they are still noisy when you want to sleep, and their behavior affects you when you study in the dormitory. Otherwise you wouldn't care so much.

To be honest, whether or not it can be solved is largely different from person to person, that is, if you can solve it, you will be like one of them at first, and you will be a mess. Of course, if you make a 180-degree change, you mix, I'm still a hooligan, you're robbing, I'm still killing, even then it may not be solved, there may be conflicts. Because what is needed is to merge rather than repel each other, that is, to merge the two forces into one, rather than to distinguish each other and fight each other.

There is also another situation, that is, they are intimidated by you and dare not mess around.

China is the most populous country, and people have to live a more social life than other countries. It's okay for people who have jobs, at least they have independent space when they rest. A good university is okay, with only 4 people or less in a dormitory.

The hardest thing is that the students in middle school and the university in general, 8 or 10 get together, in this case, only by integrating with other people can they study and live normally. But not everyone can integrate, and there are a small number of people who are born with a natural personality and just can't integrate.

Landlord, you either do what you have to do, don't care about what others do, just be your true self and minimize distractions. Either there is a 180 major change in attitude, or integration, or repulsion and fighting. Or rent out a house to live in by yourself (that's what I'm going to do now).

In fact, if you can say that you don't know how to be a person, it means that you are very good at being a person. In fact, in life, you don't have to worry too much, you take your single-plank bridge, and I take my sunshine road. Go your own way and let others say go. Brother, let it go!

First of all, change your personality appropriately, and at least be cheerful in front of them.

Many of my classmates are very introverted people on the outside, but they get a lot of chattering in the dorm room.

Then find an opportunity to exchange ideas with them, so that they can get to know you and think that you are worthy of deep friendship.

Do your own thing.

Let others approach you out of envy or curiosity.

This is the best way to do it.

Huh

A villain like this just wants to get you some benefits, so there's no need to pay attention to him, a typical long-tongued woman.

If you don't believe it, you send 2,000 yuan to their house, and it's strange that he doesn't say hello.

Feelings are a matter of two people, you feel that it is worth talking about, whether the shoes are suitable or not, you know best, and you don't have to worry about other people's words.

Go with the flow and don't care what others think.

Feelings are a matter for both of you, other people's words, ignore it.

You just do what you have to do.

What to do with so much concern?

The mouth grows on someone else's mouth, what can you do.

To learn to accept and relax your mind a little bit.

Choose those who are good and hide them, and change those who are not good.

You can learn from other people's strengths, and you can remind others of their weaknesses.

But don't think too highly of others, people are not saints and sages, who can do nothing.

Maintain friendship with tolerance.

Being good at humor is also a good concoction for unburning.

In fact, conceit is nothing, because every young person has this process of growing up.

If you want to change, start with yourself, first of all, maintain a good mood every day, and show your most beautiful smile to everyone.

Secondly, try to accept others from the world, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. The forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, so you have to learn to be submissive, not to be wronged. Instead, learn to be considerate of yourself, so that you can be considerate of others.

If you do these two things first, you will find that everything is not so bad, in fact, life is very good.

If a person is willing to correct his shortcomings, it means that he is very good. You have already taken the first step, so let's do a good job, if young people want to show themselves, it is better to make some achievements to be recognized by others.