Good friends, why did we become like this

I read your text seriously, it's a bit long, but I can see that you have a lot to say. I think you should have a good affection for a friend for me, really. In that case, I, according to my thoughts, assumed that I am from your standpoint, and will tell you about it.

You may not be able to figure out why your best friend would do this to you, and there is no way to do it, and no one can figure out what happened suddenly. From your account, you know that you have a relatively close relationship, 7 years; However, he only gives you this sentence: there is a generation gap between us, and he doesn't give any explanation, maybe he is afraid of hurting you if he says bad to you.

This shows that he still has you in his heart. Regarding his character, you said that he was a little depressed and didn't see you for 5 months, but you have maintained a friendship for 7 years, and I think you can go on with it.

You might as well throw everything away and go to his house. Insist on going to his house as soon as you have time, and it doesn't matter at his door. Tell him quietly and tell her what you think in your heart.

Just babbling to her like this, even if she is annoyed, it doesn't matter. After this goes on for a while, you try not to go to her house for a few days. Look at her.

I understand your friend's personality, and that's okay. Dear, you go and try it, I am sure that everything will be fine. Please wait and take action. Because you were friends and will be friends in the future.

I hope you have a bounty point.

I suddenly saw that there were no points to earn, but since I was here, I would like to say something.

First of all, I think LZ has a strong identification with the cherishing attitude of friends, because now I think the most missing thing around us is friends, which is the type of LZ that takes cherishing as the primary psychology.

Now that I'm older, I suddenly find that my childhood best playmate, Young, is around, and maybe unconsciously. At one point, I remembered that I was a little lonely.

Okay, let's get down to business, it's just a little emotion before and don't mind, because I don't have any friends right now.

I think something may have happened to you before, such as the fact that the two of you were present at the same time or that you were holding the two of you, and you didn't pay attention to it. Now I don't know what age LZ is. But if it's an adolescence, there are a few things I can think of, and while it's not right, I can imagine if there has been a similar problem.

1. Emotional problems, such as love between men and women. Because love causes friends to turn against each other, not only in the soap opera at eight o'clock, but also in daily life.

2. Family conditions, such as inferiority complex caused by comparison. I think this situation is at the heart of the estrangement between LZ and his friends, after all, LZ has been talking about the intention of friends for a long time. Oh, it seems like 7 years, sorry I don't remember it clearly.

Well, let's say so much first. I can ask more, or I think of something else that I might come back to.

Inexplicably, friends, it's mutual, mutual honesty, mutual respect, mutual concern. If it's just your one-sided concern, it will make him more annoying, rather than this, it's better to let him be silent alone.

A bit of a tricky question. I think it's up to you to think about what to do, others can only give you a suggestion, and it's up to you to decide what to really do.

She's going to change, probably because of some of her own reasons!

If she doesn't talk to you much, she may have her own thoughts, it's not that you don't have friendship, but there is something in your heart that blocks you!

If you can talk about it, tell each other what is on their minds.

You're still going to be fine!

1.She doesn't see you as a friend anymore. The people who can speak ill of you behind your back don't see you as a friend anymore.

In the adult world, the end of friendship begins with silence and a stab in the back. 2.Sometimes, it is necessary to accept the "coming and going" between friends.

Sometimes, Noduan really wants to subtract his circle of friends. Even if you still think of the other person as a friend, sometimes, you have no place in the other person's mind. It's sad, but it's important to adapt and accept it, because it's an objective reality.

3.Be yourself, and those who really want to make friends with you will take the initiative to approach you. Don't always be nostalgic for the past and never come back.

It's better to be in the moment, if you are good enough, someone must take the initiative to lean towards you. You can rest assured, excellent people will definitely be favored by God. 4.

In fact, sometimes, the relationship between friends is really weak. Sometimes the relationship between friends is also somewhat utilitarian. There must be a reason why you can become good friends with Ranlun, for example, eat and drink together, talk about other people's rights and wrongs together, travel together, and so on.

When one of the parties changes their state of life, this harmony between you is broken, and with it alienation and silence, and finally, to the end.

At the beginning, we were admitted to a major and added each other as friends. We didn't talk much, but we fell in love. I vaguely feel that her temper, her preferences, and her behavior are all similar to mine.

But we didn't have a lot of words at first, because I didn't like to talk on V very much, I preferred face-to-face communication. Suddenly, one day, because of something that made me very unhappy, I didn't expect that a stranger I had never met would write me a tirade. She didn't say anything pretentious, she was very real and true.

She said she didn't want to be a good person, it was too tiring to live like that, and told me that it wasn't that no one cared. August 28th was also the day I really started to get to know her. She told me she wanted me to go to her house, and she told me very seriously.

Of course, I also know that she is a person who does what she says. She could understand what I was really sad about, and she didn't come up to comfort me. Rather, it's about your own concerns and worries.

She really did it for me, instead of just saying inconsequential words to prevaricate me. And she told me, "You have a lot of friends, but you're the first friend I made in college, and it means a lot to me."

I like your candor and sincerity. When you do something wrong, it's never that princess disease. And they will realize their mistakes and make me happy.

I have a bad temper and every time I talk about you, but you will tolerate me. Isn't that the best relationship? Now the semester is over.

We've known each other for six months. In the past six months, I have been really happy because I met you. Interestingly, no matter how early or late we left the dormitory, she and I were always on the road, exercising in the morning and studying in the evening.

No matter how tired you are, you will take a group photo when you see the mirror. Stinky and beautiful together, there are new cosmetics always try to try. My desk and bed, the moment I met her, were no longer mine.

Actually, I haven't dyed anyone's hair either, and neither has she. Then we recorded the last moment of yellow hair, and that day we woke up early and put on the makeup we hadn't seen for a long time. We rest assured that even if we are ugly, we will not dislike each other.

I still remember when I first added you, when we were in the same class, I felt that you would be my roommate. Sure enough, it came true, maybe our fate is really not shallow. I will always make this friend seriously.

Because, you and I are worth it. Because I'm Ah Ling, she's Xiaoman.

1.Differences in lifestyles: With changes in lifestyles and pursuits, former best friends may gradually find that there is a lack of common ground in their ideas, interests, values, etc.

2.Time and space limitations: With factors such as leaving school and work, former best friends may have limited time and space with each other, resulting in infrequent communication.

3.Misunderstanding and mistrust of each other: Former best friends can also have problems with miscommunication, misunderstanding, and mistrust, which can lead to strained or distant relationships.

4.Changes in personal factors: With personal growth and life changes, there may be changes in some psychological factors, such as changes in the standards and tastes of friend relationships, and more likes or recognition of new friends.

5.Height difference, the same frequency can go together.

I've heard the saying that a friend is someone who needs to exchange ideas, not just feelings.

When two people do not have a common experience and lack similar situations, then it is difficult for them to talk about the same frequency.

Only when the similarity of two people's life experiences is relatively consistent, will they also maintain a similar consistency on the cognitive level. On the contrary, it is difficult for two people to continue to talk.

It is difficult for people with different aspirations and opinions to walk all the way, especially when there is a gap in the growth speed of two people, and when the height is inconsistent, the friendship is easy to fade, cold, and separate.

Because we all know that when two people have different cognitions and three views, it is difficult to get close to each other and become close friends. Only evenly matched, tacit is an important way to maintain a relationship.

6.The needs are different, and the new circle of friends comes into being.

In fact, there is a cruel truth in life, that is, we need friends of different values to accompany us at different times of our lives.

When you are innocent, innocent and simple, you need playmates like you; When you are a fledgling and have no social experience and experience, a friend who is a guide is more suitable for you; When you want to cooperate to achieve a career, tacit friends are your first choice; When you already have mature values, a stable career, and need a mutual friend......

I think there are the following reasons.

1.Life trajectories are different: The trajectories of people's lives can change over time. Once-best friends may pursue different aspirations, ideals, or career paths, causing their lives to change and gradually move outside of your circle of friends.

2.Lack of common interests: When your friends start pursuing different goals, they may start new hobbies or hobbies.

If these new hobbies are different from yours, you or your friends may lose common points of interest, leading to gradual estrangement.

3.Poor communication: In today's online age, even though it may be easier to stay in touch with friends, busy lifestyles and daily routines can make it more difficult for friends to communicate with each other.

4.Different values: You or your friends may develop different values over time.

For example, you may value social activities more, while your friends may prefer to be alone. This situation can lead to different concepts and philosophies, which can eventually lead to disagreements and even disputes between each other.

5.External factors: In addition to the above factors, external factors may also have an impact on the birth of friendship.

For example, your friendship may be challenged when you or your friends meet a new partner or a new group. If you don't give enough attention and support in this situation, your friendship may drift apart.

In conclusion, the distance between friends is not only about time, space, and location, but also about lifestyle, communication skills, and a range of external factors. When these factors change, the best friend may gradually go elsewhere, which is a common phenomenon in friend relationships.