How can a good friend who likes his former girlfriend tell him?

Girlfriend's best friend", there are two possibilities: a good friend is a woman or a man. "How can I talk to him", it is a "he", this cannot be had. Just kidding, o(o, have fun first for the New Year.

Although this has been avoided for a long time, it is often a scene in love stories, especially in the story of Aunt Qiong Yao, and only in this way can the story be poignant, and it may be the love that has been obtained through a lot of hard work, and it can be more unforgettable. So what to do in reality (o)?

First of all, look at this "he" hehe, see if she feels about you. Try to understand the small details yourself, and remember not to show that you are experiencing this feeling. For example, to greet you with warmth, hand you a napkin, etc., at this time you should pay special attention to your eyes.

The ancients said that the eyes are the windows of the soul, and the eyes are the easiest to expose one's psychological manifestations and thoughts. However, this look at the eyes requires a certain amount of skill, and this can be had.

Then don't step on two boats, it's easy to fall into the water, and it's easier to hurt yourself and others. The water is more flowing when the knife is cut off, and only in this way can the stream flow for a long time and cultivate new feelings.

The last is to seize the opportunity, for example, now for the New Year, you can take this opportunity to get along with the two people simply first, and see if what you don't get is better.

Actually, it's not the point, three words, (=@ =)**? It doesn't matter if it's three words, what matters is whether the feeling is more real, whether it's more perfect.

Wish, Happy New Year.

I wish you, the heavens follow your wishes.

Just confess directly! Pluck up your courage, it's not about your ex-girlfriend.

Let's just say it! It's okay with an ex-girlfriend!

I think at this time of age, your friend's ex-girlfriend likes you, first of all, you should ask yourself if you are calling his ex-girlfriend, and you should explain this to your friend, at least verify that your friend and his ex-girlfriend are separated?

If you are together, you must take a hard look at the relationship between the two of you, in fact, there are two things to pay attention to.

One is whether you can accept the fact that this girl has been with your friend, because if you accept it temporarily because of love, and your heart has doubts about this love, then you don't want to be with that girl because it is a kind of harm to each other, if you can accept the fact that she is your friend's ex-girlfriend, then you can be together and enjoy love.

The second is whether your friend accepts his ex-girlfriend to become your current girlfriend, which involves the question of whether the friendship between you and your friend for so many years can be better continued, if you still want to be friends with other people but your friend can't accept the fact that his ex-girlfriend is with you, the friendship between you, or the love between you and her will face a test, at this time it depends on how you reconcile these two relationships.

In fact, how to grasp friendship and love is in your own hands, and if you grasp it well, you can make friendship and love coexist.

If you have a very good relationship with that friend, you need to think about it carefully, and don't start to be fluttering and agree to anything just because a girl confesses to you. You should know that your friend's wife can't be bullied, although the other party is your friend's ex-girlfriend, this relationship is also very special, and if you are together, it is very likely that you will accept other people's accusations and discussions, because others will think that it is you who intervene in your friend's feelings, which will cause your friend to break up with his girlfriend. Even if you are innocent, no one else cares about it, as long as you can provide everyone with something to talk about, no one cares what the truth is.

Moreover, if you are with that girl, how should you face the friends around you, is it like someone else explains, I am with her, it is after my friend broke up with her, I am not a third party, and I have not done anything immoral. Aren't you tired of this kind of life, can you really stick to this relationship to the end?! Also, how do you explain to your friend whether it is for the friend to show support for your relationship, or whether it doesn't matter what the friend's attitude is?

Of course, the most important point is, do you like that girl?! Let's not talk about the identity of the other party for the time being, if you don't like it, it's useless to say anything. If you just like a little bit and don't get to the point of love, you should also think about whether to accept this uneasy relationship, the most unbearable thing for love is testing and criticism.

That girl's character problem, you should also think about it, after all, she is aware of your relationship with her ex-boyfriend, and she still confesses to you without scruples, this kind of behavior is not something that ordinary people can do.

The answer to this question lies in whether you like her or not.

Besides, if you like the situation, if it is, it will be more embarrassing. But since you asked this question, it means that you have feelings for her to a large extent, otherwise you would have directly refused. In this case, it has to be treated in two more cases, because it is a matter of three people.

In the first case, she doesn't like your friend, but your friend still likes her, this situation is the most difficult choice, it depends on which side you like more deeply, if the feeling of liking is not very strong, then don't accept it, wait for your friend to let go; If you like her very much, then talk to your friend and trust him to understand you. After all, twisted melons are not sweet. In the second case, she and your friend don't feel for each other anymore, so you can just accept this situation, but it's better to talk to your friend and let him know about it, so as to avoid suddenly knowing that he can't accept it later.

This kind of thing is very simple, as long as you deal with two boundaries:

First, you have to make sure that you don't have any sexual relationship or connection with your ex-girlfriend, and you have to make sure that you either have no contact anymore or have a very, very pure relationship.

If this thread is cut off, then you have nothing to blame for having a relationship with anyone else. This is your rightful right.

Second, if you broke up with your ex-girlfriend because you got along with your current girlfriend, then I can only say that you are morally flawed. It's easy to get caught up and it will affect your personal integrity.

So, the second boundary is your love, which must come after your ex-girlfriend. This is what is right and bright.

Why do you care so much! This kind of plot is not much on TV dramas, is it? Emotional thing does not need to be reluctant 1