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It's not like that, everyone's personality is different, some people don't like to express themselves by nature, and they don't want to contact so many people, so they don't seem very lively, and some of these people are very introverted, but their emotional intelligence is very high.
I myself am a more introverted person, once when I got off work, a leader of another department who was not my direct leader asked me to help him do something, and his attitude was very bad, at this time I smiled at him I was off work, and you are not my direct leader, there is no way to direct me to do things.
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Extroverted and lively people do not necessarily mean that they have high emotional intelligence, and introverted people are not low in emotional intelligence, because everyone's emotional intelligence is different, and personality problems cannot determine a person's emotional intelligence.
I am a very introverted person, but I always have my own principles in dealing with people, when there are many people, although I don't like to talk, but I will give people a very comfortable feeling in contact with people, and it is precisely because of this that I have a lot of friends, and many people like to be friends with me.
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Extroverted and lively people do not mean that they have high emotional intelligence, and introverts do not mean that they have low emotional intelligence, because I am an introvert, I feel that my emotional intelligence is very high, I can often come up with some things that others can't think of, and I will know more than others in terms of emotion, I can be liked by many people, I can deal with some things very tactfully, and I can also be liked by many girls.
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A person with a lively appearance does not mean that he has high emotional intelligence, and an introvert cannot be said to have low emotional intelligence.
I am a very introverted person, I usually don't talk a lot, but I feel that my emotional intelligence is very high, I know what kind of people I meet and what kind of words to say, and do not arbitrarily evaluate a person's good or bad, and when talking and doing things, I give people a very stable image, which cannot explain that introverts have low emotional intelligence.
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I don't think that's right, because everyone is different, I'm usually an introvert, and I know how to get in touch with others, how to deal with emotional things.
In fact, our IQ and EQ are about the same, don't think about deceiving others, what you say, others don't understand, but they don't want to break you up, making you seem embarrassed, just like when you lie to your parents, your parents know that it is a lie, but he chooses to believe you.
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This understanding is clearly wrong. Extroverts tend to appear more approachable. But sometimes the knife is the most hurtful, the words are very arrogant, and the lack of attention is also the most hurtful.
On the contrary, those who have a calm personality will think twice before speaking. Such people can often penetrate into the hearts of the people with one sentence and make people impressed. Who's to say that these introverts don't have high emotional intelligence?
It's just that people's personalities, whether they are extroverts or introverts, have their own merits, and they are not good or bad. Don't judge emotional intelligence by character.
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First of all, I used to be an introverted boy, but it doesn't mean that my emotional intelligence is low, it's just that I can't express my thoughts clearly. And I think it's the opposite, a lot of times, introverts have high emotional intelligence, and in some things, introverts see more thoroughly and are more unique. Although introverts are not very good at talking and dealing with people, they are more able to think, observe, and even get things done.
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Of course not, some people keep chattering, always self-righteous and outgoing, but they can't always get to the point, they don't do things properly, but they offend people, how can emotional intelligence be high? Some people are introverted, but they can push themselves and others when they do things and speak, and they are welcomed by everyone, and of course their emotional intelligence is high.
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I don't think extroverts have high emotional intelligence, I know a lot of extroverts who speak informally, and it is easy to offend many people, introverts also have delicate minds and rich feelings, there is no need to force yourself to be another kind of person, if you bloom butterflies.
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I think this statement is debatable, because I am a more introverted person, but I don't think that my emotional intelligence is very low, I think introversion and extroversion are a manifestation of a person's personality, and it does not have much to do with a person's emotional intelligence.
I read an article in the newspaper that high emotional intelligence is to make others like you, make others feel comfortable, and have a lot of friends, in fact, this understanding of emotional intelligence is superficial and biased, completely ignoring the personality and spiritual connotation of emotional intelligence.
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People often say that extroverts have high emotional intelligence, because these people are very tactful and thoughtful when dealing with things, take into account the face of many people, and are very good at talking and finding a scene, so they have high emotional intelligence, so where is the high emotional intelligence of introverts?
Don't expose the shortcomings of others. Some introverts, when they hear others say big things, or see some words and deeds that do not conform to reality, even if they are not used to it, they will not take the initiative to expose it, because it will not involve issues of principle, and in order to save some face for the other party, they will laugh and pass by, but this kind of laughter comes from the sneer and disdain in the heart. Not revealing shortcomings is also a sign of high emotional intelligence.
Don't complain to others easily. Introverts hold everything in their hearts, have fewer intimate friends, and will not easily communicate with others, so many extroverts seem to be very common problems, introverts will not communicate with others in depth, let alone complain to others about life and work problems, will feel that complaining will leave a handle in the future, and at the same time complaining is useless, it is just a waste of time, it can be seen that introverts have a high emotional intelligence.
Don't waste time communicating. Extroverted people seem to have a lot of friends, but after really encountering things, there are few sincerely, so there is usually a lot of time wasted on communication, that is, making a lot of so-called wine and meat friends, this is meaningless, it is better for introverts to make a few practical friends, manage with heart, and then spend more time on meaningful things, with higher emotional intelligence.
In terms of emotional intelligence, we should not simply distinguish between introverts and extroverts, but also look at each person's actual actions and ideas, as well as the starting point of doing things. Everyone has their own ideas and original intentions before doing a thing, and people with high emotional intelligence can handle the relationship between family and work well, as well as the relationship between friends, and can easily navigate interpersonal communication.
Introverts and extroverts have their own advantages, as long as they can be good at observing words and feelings, understand the feelings of others, consider problems from the perspective of others, and do not ignore the feelings of others, they will have a high emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence can be cultivated slowly, and with people with high emotional intelligence, your emotional intelligence will gradually become higher.
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Hello, I'm glad to answer for you I'm Arlene (*According to relevant understanding, introverts have high emotional intelligence but are not good at expressing themselves, often very sensitive, and he can feel hurt himself at all, just because he is introverted and doesn't speak, so he observes carefully and thinks more about expanding information: emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to understand, manage, and effectively express personal emotions. Of course, it also includes how to successfully engage and channel the emotions of others.
You can improve your emotional intelligence by the following 3 points: 1. The meaning of emotional intelligence: The so-called emotional intelligence refers to the ability to deal with people, especially the ability to deal with emergencies.
And people with low emotional intelligence are often slow to react and muna. 2. Master the skills of speaking: When asking for help, be polite and polite, and simply say thank you after helping.
3. Read expressions: People with low emotional intelligence often ignore the expressions of others and keep talking. Always observe the expressions of the people around you, observe the emotions hidden in those expressions, and whether you are interested in your topic or not.
When I was in junior high school, my emotional intelligence was a bit poor, my memory was often very bad, and I was always sleepy in my homework, which led to poor academic performance in all subjects. By chance, I passed the order that allowed me to increase my IQ"Tesla Brain Development Training"After listening to it, my situation began to improve. My comprehension has improved and my academic performance has improved in all subjects.
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Introverts have high emotional intelligence, but they are not good at expressing themselves, they are often very sensitive, and they can feel hurt themselves at all, just because they are introverted and don't speak, so they observe carefully, think more, and hope to adopt.
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It's not that introverts have low emotional intelligence, I think their feelings are very sensitive and easily hurt, so they close themselves for fear of being hurt, but their emotional intelligence may be higher than that of extroverts.
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High emotional intelligence is more proactive
Human emotional intelligence refers to self-control.
The emotions and the willpower displayed are the ability to look at things that has been gradually cultivated through experience. This concept did not receive much attention when it was first mentioned, and it was not until the 90s that people gained more and more attention. In the fast-paced state of life, people with high emotional intelligence can increasingly occupy a dominant position, because they know how to properly maintain interpersonal relationships, gain the affirmation and support of others, and thus obtain more opportunities.
The executive of a certain Internet company is only 26 years old, and he sits in a position that others cannot reach at a young age. Many people are very curious about how he got to where he got there. In one of his speeches, he said:
Maybe it's really because I've had good enough luck that I've gotten more opportunities, and I want to thank my mother for making me feel very smart, and I still do.
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This is not necessarily, usually introverts are deeper, and their expressions of many things are more subtle.
Extroverts, who like to go straight; It gives a joking feel in the expression.
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Hello, the emotional intelligence of introverted people is not 100% low, and the emotional intelligence of extroverts is not 100% high, the relationship between emotional intelligence and personality is not very important, and the knowledge and contact environment will directly affect the development of emotional intelligence.
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I'm an introvert myself, but I always want to bai
Pretend to be very outgoing and socialize with people.。 Zhi has been doing it for a long time.
The Dao himself was very unhappy. It may really be that the emotional intelligence is too low. Extroverts don't actually need emotional intelligence, they always feel that they have no heart and lungs, introverts love to think more, extroverts don't care about a lot of things, they won't be very tired, and they look very emotionally intelligent.
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Not necessarily, the level of emotional intelligence has nothing to do with whether introverts are introverted, but extroverts are good at discovering, and if they have high emotional intelligence, they are more likely to appear, and introverts belong to slow heating and can only be discovered after a period of time.
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Not necessarily.
Because, it's all possible, and the key is still up to the individual.
Here are 2 counterexamples.
Cheerful people talk a lot, and if they don't handle it well, they may say the wrong thing. Introverts talk little and are likely to achieve respectable results by concentrating on a certain area.
Being affirmed is a sign of high emotional intelligence.
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Emotional intelligence has nothing to do with internal and external personality, and the level of emotional intelligence comes from wisdom (the ability to judge things and people, and to be sharp-eyed). While.
Naturally, the answer experience also improves emotional intelligence to some extent. As everyone knows, the most intelligent woman does not need to speak, but only uses her eyes to dredge (conduct, comprehend) to achieve the desired purpose, so that the opposite sex is your attendant, and you can't get rid of it. Tips; Carefully observe, discover, and conclude that the plan is appropriately "put into action".
Knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent will not be defeated in a hundred battles.
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Not necessarily, some extroverts will not speak directly if they have high emotional intelligence.
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Half and half, under normal circumstances, a person with high emotional intelligence is a person who is very good at dealing with things, some more introverted people are also very good at handling things, and some extroverts will also.
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Extroverts talk a lot, so their brains turn fast, and their emotional quotient slowly increases. Introverts who can't arrive are just low in emotional intelligence, it's just that they don't like to express themselves.
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No, I'm also very introverted, but I have a higher EQ than an IQ.
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This is not necessarily, the interaction between people, the accident of human feelings, are all related to emotional intelligence, some people are introverted, but she knows what to do with what people, courtesy exchanges, very understanding of other people's psychological activities, some people are very extroverted, say everything, but she does not understand the way of doing things.
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Not necessarily, it depends on the experience and the environment.
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Guan Yu is one of the main characters in ** bai, especially famous in du Minwen, Guan Yu in Xiao Zhi said, dao surname Guan Mingyu, the word is special, and later changed to the word Yunchang. Because it is two feet long, it is called "beautiful beard". **In the lth chapter, it is written that he is "nine feet long, two feet long, his face is like a heavy jujube, and his lips are like grease."
Danfeng eyes, lying silkworm eyebrows, dignified appearance, majestic"; Later, "stepping off the red rabbit horse and holding the green dragon glaive knife in his hand" was added, thus constituting the overall image of Guan Yu in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
Of course, extroverts are generally more self-acquainted, and sometimes they will use happiness to cover up their inner sadness, but even so, as long as you treat the person you like sincerely, he will definitely understand your heart, and you can naturally meet true love.
Remember that no one is right about everything, so just say that you are happy.
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What I said upstairs, although it is short but not unreasonable, in fact, this is the questioner is too sensitive, introverts are also people, extroverts are also people, they can be treated in the same way, don't think too much, you go to cater to others every day, that's not exhausting, there are not only introverts and extroverts in the world, you just need to treat everything with your own attitude, see the response is making small changes, you will definitely get twice the result with half the effort.