Extroverts and talkatives, please come in!

Nature is the first, a confident smile is indispensable, as the saying goes, reach out and don't hit the smiling person.

Good! Now use psychology to solve this problem, think of yourself as a colleague of yours, and then I come over generously and smile and say to you: Good morning! ^_

What kind of reaction will you have? A normal person's reaction is to smile back and say hello to you, and if the colleague looks at you strangely and turns away, then we can ignore her in the future, because she is sick.

Then you can say: your clothes today are beautiful and fit you well. Or:

You're so good today! (Girls like people to praise themselves, people will be very happy when you say this, and they won't think you're unreasonable, at this time she will smile even sweeter, and she will let down her guard against you).

At this time, you can make some jokes or something, the most important thing to pay attention to is to pay attention to the atmosphere, if you feel a little embarrassed and have nothing to talk about, you should say it immediately: you are busy first, I have something to do now, next time we will talk, goodbye. Then he turned around and walked away with a confident smile Don't hum next to yourself and make a big red face, it's not good for other girls to be awkward.

She will definitely have a good impression of you, try everything, and if it doesn't work, come to me!

When she is happy, she asks why she is happy, when she is unhappy, she asks if she needs help, and she can talk about some topics in life, such as: Have you eaten? What have you been up to lately? And be observant.

Hehe smiled. Then it is natural to say that it is a pleasure to meet you, and that should also depend on the occasion. For example, in a very relaxed scene, it's good to make a little joke.

Everyone is right, first of all, you have to smile, it must be the kind that people want to look comfortable, as for what you say, it doesn't matter.

When people see you, they don't have to think of a poet to say something profound, and it feels like you're natural.

Help him out when he needs it.

Then the next time we meet, I think he'll take the initiative to talk to you first.

Or greet him with a smile in class.

Just smile and say hello: Hello!

Don't twist and pinch, give each other a smile is also a greeting!

Smile and say hello!

Very simple!

Naturally, start with the simplest things, and slowly there will be topics, first of all, to let people know your sincerity.

As long as it's natural and casual, it's okay to be honest and say anything.

Start with a smile! Take it easy!

You can ask the girl to talk to you!

A look and a smile can kill people with electricity.

Don't be too deliberate, or others will say that you have nothing to say.

Self-confidence is the root of everything that becomes a strong man.

First of all, you have to talk to your family more at home, so that over time, when you're talking to someone, you're going to be as kind as you're talking to your family, and it's easy to express your thoughts.

As for talking, it's also a very simple thing: you have to look at the society very well, and you have to read more newspapers, television, magazines, and it's good for you, not only can you know a lot of things that you don't know, but when you talk to others, you won't have nothing to say.

Why do you have to be an extrovert! In fact, you don't have to deliberately change yourself, so it seems that people are different from the outside! As long as you're honest with each other, and you can talk to each other about what you think, but you also have to respect other people's ideas, then you're going to have a lot to say, aren't you?

It seems that he is a person who has a strong desire to express, but does not dare to say it, in fact, it is very simple, bold, to believe in yourself, to speak your own thoughts, your own opinions, don't be afraid to say wrong, and at the same time should accumulate more, because when talking to people, you may encounter problems in any aspect, if you know something in many aspects, it is easy to communicate, and you will become very talkative after a long time.

It's simple, find someone who has a strong desire to listen to talk.

Be a salesman

Selling on the street every day can reach all kinds of people

You can do whatever you want. What are you still depressed! Just don't think too much about doing things!

I would advise you not to communicate with him in person, but rather on paper.

I want you to talk slowly with the people around you

On the one hand, you have to rely on yourself, be proactive, have faith, determination, perseverance, and courage; On the other hand, you have to find an outgoing and cheerful person to help you, guide you, encourage you, and demonstrate you. In this way, through the joint efforts of both parties, you can change from a very introverted person to a more cheerful and sunny person.

Success motivational type of books will make you change.

But in the end, it's about putting it into practice.

It's not enough to just read a book.

Celebrity biographies can be It will allow you to see how others are doing.

It's about being kind to people, showing a lot of interest in what other people have to say, and then getting what you're good at, and what you're not good at talking, that's not talkative, that's nonsense.

I would like to know too

That's what my friends say about me: I'm very silent to outsiders.

To friends, too cheerful.

So this summer I was looking for a job internship in a service agency.

Touching people a little more, I think, I can overcome it

First of all, you have to know yourself and understand why you are not talkative and outgoing.

Think back to the situation and the psychology of the time when dealing with people.

The first thing to do is to find the reason for being introverted. can be further overcome.

For example, some people are introverted and afraid to talk to others because they are afraid of saying the wrong thing.

At this point, you need to ask yourself, what is the worst consequence of saying the wrong thing?

If the most serious consequences you envision are acceptable and acceptable, then you don't need to worry about saying the wrong thing at all, and you don't need to worry about talking to others.

And at this time, you are no longer worried about saying the wrong thing, then you will naturally not be so nervous, and your thinking will be clearer.

Of course, this is just an example. In fact, it's hard to take the first step.

But you have to ask yourself if you really want to change, and if so, then no matter how difficult it is and how scared you are, you have to force yourself to take the first step.

Only by taking the first step is the beginning of change.

Otherwise, it will always be just your ideas and desires and will not come true.

Make more sociable friends and learn from them.

Psychologically. I don't talk much, and you can't change much for a while in order to improve. But take your time with this kind of thing, because your performance may be tacitly acquiesced by the people around you, so you have to change yourself at the same time, but also change their perception of you.

For example, if you try to ask other people's questions after class, the best topic starts from this, and then you can talk about a certain book, a certain item, a certain TV series, etc., because only in this way, first expand your conversation circle, at that time others think hey, you are also very talkative, and then others will also have topics to talk to you, of course, the most important thing is to change your own opinion, don't think that talking about these things with others is very boring, very boring, and people of the same year should talk about the topics of people of the same year, otherwise they think you are more alternative.

Of course, you can suddenly change a hairstyle and change the ...... you wear

Only you take the initiative yourself, otherwise people will talk to you a few times, and you will feel that there is nothing to talk about, and then gradually others will snub you.

Moreover, when you step into this society, often people who don't take the initiative to speak will be left in a corner. So change your mentality, change your mood, change yourself, and make others look at you differently.

Actually, it's nothing! I think that's good! I'm changing in your direction right now!

I don't want to talk to anyone right now, I don't think it makes sense, and no one understands me, so I want to swap with you! Hehe! You!

Just be confident and tell others what you really think! Don't worry so much! That's it!

So how can you do the same as you!? Introverted and don't talk to people!?

Talk to them.

Find out what they talk about.

Find out for yourself.

That's it.

If you don't know what to say, you can blow it to them, and if you want to say anything, whether they listen to it or not, you should be telling a story.

Listen to what they're saying while they're having a good time.

Learn a little bit more about things and be able to step in while they're chatting and talk.

The premise is that you are all interested.

Don't know what to say?

Say whatever you want. Make it up.

Say whatever you want. It's okay to talk about Mars...

If you don't have friends right now.

You will become more and more autistic.

This will have a great impact on your later life!

I can understand your feelings.

I was like that when I was a kid. Rarely speaks. Since I went out. Living in a collective environment. Slowly, it changed.

I've had that uncomfortable feeling like no one is talking. It's very uncomfortable. Very jealous of others.

Learn to be cheerful.

It's all about being happy!

The landlord shouldn't be from Fujian, right?? Why are you so similar to my classmates? It's exactly the same.。。

Open your heart to others and don't be afraid of being hurt. Maybe they're also eager to socialize with you, but your silence separates them from each other.

First of all, you must have self-confidence (hehe, because self-confidence is given by yourself), you must believe that you have the ability to communicate well with others You can often talk about favorite topics with your classmates The most important thing is to find an entry point for the chat topic, so that you can talk to everyone naturally Contact more people, and you will know where you should work hard Come on

Learn more about the interests and hobbies of the people around me, and chat more Why do I want to sit quietly and have people talking to me all the time!?

Loneliness is not about whether there is someone around you who often talks to you, but about your heart. If you are lonely, even if you can't be quiet all day long, you will still feel lonely and uneasy in your heart. If the inner world is rich, you will be very fulfilled and happy without having to rely on the external environment, and you will not feel very lonely and uncomfortable.

Always show a natural smile, and the affinity it exudes will attract others to take the initiative to communicate with you.

I also sat alone after class and read my homework, not talking to others, I didn't feel uncomfortable, I felt so quiet.

Take the initiative to be I used to be a girl who didn't like to talk much, but in the end I let myself communicate more with others...Now the popularity is hidden.

You're going to learn from me, I'm going to talk to extroverts, (*hee-hee-hee......

Don't be too upset, it's nothing, just be in a good mood!!

Mentality, from now on, you have to be obligated to talk to others, and it's okay to talk to others for a long time...

The most important thing is to cultivate your own hobbies, chat with friends to have something to talk about, rather than a simple greeting, hobbies can quickly shorten the distance between you, is a good way to benefit others!

I'm going crazy because I'm not talkative, and while others won't mind you as an inconspicuous person, the awkward feeling is really uncomfortable.

It's not necessarily a good thing to be talkative and outgoing, but if you have that thought ...

Find an activity that you are interested in, such as basketball, online games, dance, karaoke, etc., and then find out who is familiar with this type of activity, build a circle, and expand it.

You don't have to say much at first, you just need to keep pulling friends in, but trust me, soon you will find yourself very talkative, even talkative, and even your friends will have to stop you when they want to speak...

Like me, I'm still a little struggling with communication. In fact, a person's personality is not so easy to change, will it be a little tiring to deliberately be another person? You may be a little surprised at the beginning because of the change, but over time you will find that you have become a little nondescript.

Just be yourself, not all people should be talkative and outgoing, don't always think about how you feel to others, after all, people live for themselves, you just care too much about what others think. You can participate in more activities, have more contact with the outside world, expand your horizons, and slowly there will be improvements, some internal things come from within, and superficial actions alone cannot play a fundamental role.

It is normal for the relationship between people to become dull, remember a sentence, the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, not sticking together, and it is good to talk about everything. Friends, never limit yourself to just a few.