After a breakup, can I still give him chocolates?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's an objective fact that you can't be together anymore.

    We will meet the people we like in our lives, and we will have unrealizable wishes and regrets. You don't know why you broke up, but now that you each have the other half of your life, it doesn't make much sense to study the reason for the breakup or the right or wrong of the breakup. You say that you still like him, but you still can't forget him, this is normal, after all, when two people break up, it is not necessarily that the other party is bad.

    Therefore, it is common for two people to still be friends after a breakup.

    But the question is, have you seriously thought about the relationship between the two of you? Have you seriously considered the possibility of getting back together after a breakup? Have you considered your reaction in case the other person asks to get back together?

    If you really can't get rid of that past relationship, IMHO, you shouldn't start another relationship so easily, it hurts others and hurts yourself; If you just can't forget, that's normal. After all, you have known each other and fallen in love, and it is impossible for us to forget this unforgettable emotional entanglement, and there is no need to forget. Let's take it as a memory of your life.

    Feelings, the most afraid is entanglement, since it has been broken, then be friends. When you say giving chocolates, you may think that you just like it, from the standpoint of friends, but don't forget that we are social people, and colleagues and each other may have completely different opinions, which may bring a lot of unnecessary trouble.

    Therefore, my opinion, if the other party is worthy of your memory, then treat him as a friend in your heart and get along generously, but you must take into account the views of society, and don't add too much trouble to others and yourself. So, chocolates, especially Valentine's Day chocolates, don't give them away.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I want to ask you: why did you break up at that time, when you broke up, it caused harm to everyone. At least I believe that it is impossible for two people to agree to the idea of breaking up at the same time, and there will always be someone who is reluctant, either you or him.

    Finally, the wound has just healed, and your current piece of chocolate looks silky and sweet. Actually, it's very bitter, not only do you want to reopen your past, but you also want the people you are with now to talk about the pain of that time. It's not chocolate, it's bitter coffee.

    Don't be angry like this, I think people are very impulsive, since the freedom of choice at the beginning, don't think about flying to the forest now, you're over, you yourself can't figure out what you think now, so you want to "know" to listen to everyone's opinions. A good horse doesn't eat back grass, everyone has a current life, is he your pet? I fell out of the house.,I missed him again when I wasn't around for a few days.,Give a candy or something and come back.。。。

    I believe one has self-esteem. A confident man will not choose to be in love over and over again, unless he is not.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really like him, you should fly your former boyfriend. In this way, the other person will accept the chocolate you give him, and he will consider whether he can join you again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Whether you send it or not depends on whether you like him or not! If only he had another girlfriend now! You better don't send it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on what kind of person you are sending him something, if you are a general colleague and friend, I think it is okay to give chocolates, if you still like him, yes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you want to rekindle the old love, you can send it boldly;

    If it's just a jealousy mentality, you send it quietly;

    If you just regret breaking up a little, it's best not to send it, so as not to regret it for both parties!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What do you give him?

    All broke up? Why do you want to add to your troubles?

    You send it, you are very happy, you send it to Bei, and no one can stop you from doing something.

    But it doesn't make any sense at all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You shouldn't send it, don't beat the eggs,,, if you really want to send it, send it to me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you know that you can't be with each other, why do you want to create opportunities for yourself??

    You're hurting a lot of people!!

    Think again!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love doesn't have to be something!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I really wish you, I broke up, and we were a little embarrassed by each other, so I sent you away, so it doesn't mean that you can be there again, it's him who likes to be friends with you!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I want to be in the universe, and I love to float in the air.

    Autumn air to help each other, brocade broken silk lotus.

    This is a song by Tang Bohu, I suddenly thought of seeing your question, I think although you broke up, but the feelings or memories are still there, people continue to remember, there is another kind of saying goodbye but reluctant plot in it, although I don't know how you broke up, I guess she wants to meet with you in her heart, but there is a contradiction, the two don't know how to choose, and now they are in a dilemma. I don't know what you think, I think if you want to meet the requirements of the give her a chance, if you don't want to then you make it clear don't make yourself too tired and embarrassed, so it's good for each other, what do you think?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It means that she misses the days you spent together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I may still have some affection for you, I hope it will be redeemed, it's up to you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Give it to you, or ask her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Someone else sent too much. Feel free to send it.

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