Can someone break up and still be friends?

No, because when he looks at you, you want to have it again.

It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

This question varies from person to person, I talked about this problem when I was in a relationship with my girlfriend before, we didn't agree at the beginning, her opinion was okay, my opinion was no, and in the end we really broke up, it was okay when we just broke up, and I felt that I might be able to be friends in the future, and then I didn't see her for a year and thought that she was my girlfriend, and I haven't accepted her as an ordinary friend from my heart! Anyway, this issue is quite complicated, some people can and some people can't

As long as you give real affection, you can't.

But there is also a possibility that you are forced to separate, but separated by external factors, and you have feelings for each other, and you will be friends, and you are best friends.

I can, because I still love him, I want him to live well, I want to share his happiness with him, he doesn't choose me, it's definitely not me enough.

You can't be friends after breaking up because you've hurt before; Nor can you be an enemy, because you once loved deeply; So you can only be a stranger! I have a point, right?!Hehe.

There are only two possibilities to be friends after a breakup:

1. You didn't start seriously at all, so there was no "love".

2. One of them is still in love with the other.

I hope you're not 1, but I don't want you to be 2, because that's really hard.

I can do it, but it's definitely not an emotional relationship.

If you are emotional, you can't do it.

Surely not, unless you are not in love.

Yes. But it's not just a breakup.

Once a partner, will never be a friend now.

Because of deep love, you can't be an enemy after a breakup;

Because I've really been hurt, I can't be friends after a breakup.

See which aspect you look at more ......

Like my current situation.

After a long friendship, it may sublimate to love. After a long time of love, you may end up finding that it is just a habit. And habits can always be changed slowly. At this time, love may turn into friendship again. Although, the process has been painful.

Personally, I feel that it is not easy to do it!

1.Personal factors.

First of all, the person factor has a great impact on whether two people can be ordinary friends after breaking up. If the reason for the breakup is that they are not suitable for each other, have no feelings, etc., then there is a possibility that the two people will become ordinary friends after the breakup. However, if the reason for the breakup is betrayal, cheating, and other hurtful behaviors, then it is difficult for two people to become ordinary friends.

2.The time factor.

Time is also one of the factors that affect whether two people can be ordinary friends after breaking up. If two people have a cooling-off period after the breakup and are able to calmly deal with each other's emotional problems, then there is a chance that the two people will become ordinary friends. But if two people want to be ordinary friends immediately after a breakup, then it is likely to complicate each other's emotional problems.

3.Social circle factors.

The social circle factor is also one of the factors that affect whether two people can be ordinary friends after a breakup. If there is an overlap in the social circles of two people, then the two people have to face each other. If two people are able to deal with each other's emotional problems maturely, then there is a chance that two people will become ordinary friends.

However, if there is no overlap in the social circles of the two people, then the two people may choose not to contact each other.

In short, whether two people can become ordinary friends after breaking up depends on many factors, including personal factors, time factors, and social circle factors. The most important thing is that two people must be able to mature and deal with each other's emotional problems before they can eventually become ordinary friends.

I know a lot of people don't understand what this sentence means.

I'll give you an example, if you really want to change your phone now, then it just so happens that people around you are using the phone you like every day, and they are showing off to you every day.

Maybe you don't like to buy now, maybe you buy things now, but if the longer it drags on, the more you can see these things, I think occasionally there will be impulsive behavior, maybe you will snatch this person's phone.

There is a saying called out of sight and out of mind, and this is the way things are about feelings, for example, you have been together for four or five years, going to work and getting off work together every day, of course, you can't forget it for a period of time after breaking up, this doesn't need to be explained, anyone understands.

Of course, from the perspective of a bystander, how can a person not forget, of course, everyone's thoughts and feelings are different, their attitude towards feelings is different, and the time we can let go of our feelings is also different.

It's not that you can't be friends but you can't face this thing forever, you think about a person who gets along with you every day, and finally failed to come together, so if you see each other again, do you want to have it again, do you have any regrets? Regrets reappear in front of your eyes, and even if they appear every day, I think that's the biggest regret.

I'd rather see and touch what I want, out of sight and out of mind, and I don't want what I want every day, what I want to get, appear in front of me every day.

Feelings will take root in our hearts, and when this seed is dug up, I hope that no one will replant it, because slowly watering it every day and taking care of it every day, I think he will become a big tree, deeply rooted in our hearts, and can never be pulled out.

But he's not the tree I want, but you're here to water it, and that's what it feels like to be miserable.

By the same token, if you had a falling out with a friend, would you be embarrassed to be together? Most breakups won't, peaceful breakups are because you can't get used to me, I can't get used to you, not seeing each other is the best way, and when you meet again, maybe you'll be much calmer.

Zhang Ailing: There are only two possibilities for you to be friends after breaking up.

One is that two people have never really loved each other.

Second, at least one party is willing to pay for the other party silently.

After a breakup, be able to be a lover of friends.

is like the first half of Zhang Ailing's sentence: "Two people have never really loved."

Since I don't have the dependence and reluctance to hurt your bones, how can I be dissatisfied with the relationship between friends?

Of course, this is only part of it.

A strange specially made a mind map to help the friends:

1. High exclusivity.

The biggest difference between romance and friendship is "high exclusivity". Even if you have a good friend in love, you will not have unwillingness and jealousy in your heart.

What about the other party? Looking at the new faces around him, can you abandon your unwillingness and jealousy to wish each other happiness?

No matter how good a friend is, I haven't seen him for a few years, but the relationship is still the same.

In the case of the other party, when he slowly fades out of your life, can you guarantee that there will be no reluctance in your heart?

This is the "high exclusivity" in the relationship, which cannot be completely erased even after a breakup. The uniqueness of a relationship is that it can only be "two people", and when a new person appears around him, you are the loser and the outsider.

Driven by this high exclusivity, there will be shadow memories of each other in your feelings and life for a long time.

Therefore, at this time, the friendship relationship is already a stumbling block for you to start a new life.

2. "Fuse".

Whether you admit it or not, 80 people mind who are interested in their partner, entangled with their ex or too close.

The reason for this is simple, everyone desires to be unique in the eyes of the other. The person in the past will always make himself feel nostalgic and uneasy. The reason is not that they can't accept the other person's past.

Rather, the deeper the love, the more selfishness often comes with it, precisely because you are important. So I don't allow anyone else to share. ”

Therefore, consciously distance yourself from the previous relationship. It is also an attitude and responsibility for new feelings.

After all, we can't afford to miss one mistake and then make another.

3.Wishful thinking.

Take Ah Monster himself, for example, he once encountered the same situation. I was still wishful thinking about her as a quasi-lover, and finally found out that people were just treating us as acquaintances......

In fact, the other party proposed to be friends not because the old love was not over, but because he wanted to reduce the damage value of his departure.

Many people think that it is cruel to not get along with each other in old age. So choose to be friends. In fact, vague hope is the greatest harm.

As the second half of the opening sentence is: "At least one party is still silently paying for the other." ”

But you must know that endless and bottomless giving and expectation is itself an act of self-harm. It is the most self-defeating thing to persuade a person not to give up a forest because of a tree.

Don't be friends again after a breakup, don't be friends again after a breakup, there's no point.

It's best not to contact after a breakup! Since you have broken up, you have to break it off, and since you have turned the page, you have to look forward.

Since you've broken up, don't get in touch, it's good for both parties.

The answer to this question depends on the specific situation. Some people can go through a breakup and still be good friends, while others need more time and space to digest their emotions and eventually return to their normal companionship pattern with their ex-partner. Therefore, it depends on the situation, feelings, personality, and other factors at the time of the breakup, and cannot be the same conclusion for all situations.

If you and your ex-partner can be regular friends, there may be several potential benefits. Being friends can help to stay positive in the relationship, communicate well and avoid the effects of bad emotions. They can share life experiences together, help each other cope with personal problems independently, or maintain small friendships, jobs, or social networks.

However, you also need to consider the important questions you get before you become friends, such as clarifying the reasons and motives for the breakup, etc., to prevent too many injuries, disputes, or unresolved issues. You and your ex-partner must work together to avoid any behavior or bias that could hinder friendship. Most importantly, you need to explore together how this friendship develops and sustains naturally, and maintain mutual respect and understanding, respect each other's wishes, and grow together in the process of rebuilding the friendship.

If you break up, you can't be friends, two people have loved and hurt each other, and you can't get back to ordinary friends at all.