How to choose between love and your own path?

Maybe it's a hurt for you to reject him now, but if you really get along and you choose to leave him, the hurt at that time will be far greater than now.

Of course you will feel that he is not worthy of you because you don't like him at all.

Faint sensations will become stronger or disappear over time.

Of course, the above are all suggestions, you have your own practice, and everyone's approach and ideas are different.

Take your pick.

Addendum: Love is not measured by family background, you can say that you are not with him because of bad conditions, but you can't say that you do not love him because of bad conditions. So none of these are the questions, the question is whether you like him or not.

If you don't contact him for a while, maybe you'll miss him.

Maybe you're feeling it.

I'm talking about maybe the landlord has good luck.

Alas, bliss! How can there be such a thing as unworthy? The concept of the landlord makes me very helpless!! You feel superior because someone treats you as a treasure! Cherish it! Don't be a grass in the future!

Feelings are slowly cultivated, not built up by feelings, give yourself more time, slowly get to know him, maybe after a long time you will slowly discover what you want, don't jump to conclusions too early, give yourself time is also to give him a chance, so that you can better understand him. As the saying goes: "A man cannot be a man, and the sea cannot be measured."

You don't need me to explain it to you, the most important thing is that others are good!

When you are forty or fifty years old, the question of whether you are worthy of it is not so important, because no matter how beautiful a woman is, she will look old, he is good to you, and it is most realistic for you to feel happy, after all, this is life is not an idol drama, so the couple who is on the right page may be envied for a while. As for his behavior, it may be caused by the difference in personality between the two of you, you can talk to him about this, as long as he is really good to you, self-motivated, and will not lose his temper with you, this is enough, this is my opinion.

It's not to prove that you have a sense of superiority, but to say that you don't really like him enough.

Why force yourself to treat feelings not to see whether the other party treats you well or not. If you don't like him enough, don't care about him enough.

It doesn't matter how good he is to you, the key to feelings is to be true to your heart.

In a word: don't force yourself, love is sacred, find what you want, don't settle.

Try to open your heart and accept him with the normal heart of a girl in love. Maybe it's hard, try it to find out.

Summary. After making a choice, the poet regretted that "you can't have both fish and bear's paws", so she could only choose one path and go on firmly, only to sigh and regret in his memories many years later. The poem is unpretentious, fresh and timeless, with profound meanings.

The poem is divided into four stanzas, each of which is the first.

Lines 1, 3, 4, 1.

The second and five lines rhyme separately, and the free rhythm is firm and oozing a trace of regret. The whole poem has a beautiful rhyme, and it conveys an elegant sense of ** when read.

The emotional tone of the unchosen path.

After making a choice, the poet regretted that "the fish and the bear's paw wheel can have both" did not close, so he could only choose one path and go on firmly, only to sigh and regret in his memories many years later. The poem is unpretentious, fresh and timeless, and has a profound meaning. The poem is divided into four stanzas, each of which is the first.

Lines 1, 3, 4, 1.

The second and five lines rhyme separately, and the free rhythm is firm and oozing a trace of regret. The whole poem has a beautiful rhyme, and it conveys an elegant sense of ** when read.

The Road Not Chosen is by the American poet Robert Frost.

If life deceives you, you use the tone of admonition to tell people that life cannot be without setbacks, and when facing setbacks, you must treat them correctly, be calm, and firmly believe that the future is bright and beautiful; The path that Min Jin did not choose warned people that there was only one path to choose in life, so they must be cautious, not to follow the crowd, but to think before making an independent choice of Xinnatan.

Hope mine is helpful to you, dear

I think love is very important, if you like him, cherish him, and then try to be with him. Of course, your own path is also important, as long as you work hard, everything can be achieved.

First of all, I will give you a brief analysis of these three men.

The first one, recall a sentence you often hear, marriage is the union of two families or even families, if you don't feel for a person, then don't choose him because you are moved by the other party, because life is trivial and realistic, and that touch will be easily shattered.

Second, his so-called non-marriage is related to his current state of life and mind, and it is also related to the fact that you are not the person he wants to marry, and his so-called freedom of love can only prove that he is still a child and cannot bear the responsibilities of marriage and family.

Third, I can often say your thoughts, with my own understanding of men, he should have rich emotional experience, and sophisticated social skills, so often can say your thoughts, in fact, he can always say the minds of many girls, just like me, hehe, so you will be afraid, the root of fear is that your subconscious consciousness has not risen to the subjective consciousness. Actually, this is not a bad thing, the key is to see how his character is, his attitude towards feelings, whether he has a sense of responsibility and responsibility, you can conduct some investigations and tests on him, for example, let a beautiful woman ask him to see how he behaves and so on.

Next, analyze your state of mind.

You have now shown a leftover mentality, but obviously you are not enough of the leftover girl standard, indicating that your surroundings are putting a lot of pressure on you, especially your parents and important people around you. Your anxious mentality makes you calm in the face of love and marriage, the atmosphere has gradually disappeared, and you begin to become flustered and anxious, and when you are in chaos, you are likely to rush to the doctor or constantly lower your standards and forget the original insistence, and finally give yourself to the wrong person.

I believe that you are not a woman who intends to live on a man, let alone a woman who believes that it is better to marry well than to do well, you just want to find a person who can make your love and life settle down, so it is recommended that you calm your heart, listen carefully to the voice from the depths of your heart, and then face life calmly, face love leisurely, and wait for a man who makes your heart beat faster to appear in your life, remember: love is for us to enjoy, not to endure, Marriage is what makes us happy, not tormented

Don't worry, it's almost 20 times, no, it's not decided yet.

This kind of thing is rather lacking than indiscriminate, in fact, if you really love each other, you feel that you can get married in 1 year, and you can grasp a few of your own principles.

1.Don't feel like the first one.

2.I don't want to get married, I just want to have fun, it's like the second.

3.Don't see the future clearly, don't feel like the third.

I think you should find the first one, although his family situation is complicated, people are not good-looking, but he has a good job and a good income, at least he does not have to suffer, and he loves you very much, he can be centered on you, he will spoil you, you will be very happy when you get married, you said that you have suffered a lot of injuries, then, you should be better to yourself, find someone who is good to yourself and will not hurt your heart. The second person is very good, but he can't give you a convincing marriage hall after all, find him, he loves freedom, you can't control him at all, why bother? The third, he knows you too well, and he can only be a blue-faced confidant, not suitable for a husband.

As for blind dates, it's really a very bad way, fate will naturally be together, do you still use others to match? Therefore, since you meet someone who loves you with all your heart, it is to accept him, at least, he can give you a sense of security, and he can love you and spoil you for a lifetime.

Say my opinion, I hope it will help you :

First of all, the first boy, you said that you are from the appearance association, and the first boy has been chasing you for a long time without results, plus you also admit that you feel average, then you can be sure that you don't like him from the bottom of your bones, even if you are reluctant to be together, you will instinctively be critical of him in every way; But if you can see it, you should be a man who can be trusted all your life; Let's talk about the second boy, you can see that you like him, and then it's up to you to see what you do, let him be hard to give up on you, if he has been suffering without results, let go, because girls can never be humble in love; The last boy makes you scared, so don't want it, your future partner must first make yourself very down-to-earth and comfortable.

After reading what you are saying, your question is whether you should choose to get married or fall in love. If you choose to be in a relationship, then you can continue to be in a relationship with a building engineer. If you want to get married because of your age, then civil servants are for you.

It's up to you to make this decision, after all, there is no such thing as having the best of both worlds, unless you marry a civil servant and maintain a lover relationship with an architect. So, how did you decide?

It's best to find a favorite one.

If you can't find someone you like, find someone you can talk to and suit you.

I still haven't found the right one, so I'm not in a hurry to look for it. But it's better not to drag it over 28, I feel like so, after which there won't be so much to pick from. Marriage matters, you still have to be cautious.

When fate comes, you can't stop it

Don't choose any of the three, I don't think they're suitable for you, I used to be from the Appearance Association, but now I know that appearance is not important, what matters is how you feel about a person, if you feel it, happiness is not far away. I believe that within two years, you will definitely find happiness that belongs only to you.

How about engineers? Use your charm to make him change from only falling in love to not marrying you, this is a huge project, use your actions to show him that you can be the architect of your love and his love. Two years, you can do it, come on.

Now two questions arise, which of the two girls is more important to you?Which of the two girls' hearts is heavier?

In fact, the key here is your own thoughts, and it is relatively easy to draw conclusions, which of them is more important in your heart, you might as well try to let go of one, try to let yourself know the other one more deeply, and when you find that it is actually more suitable to let go, or the one you are trying to date is the one you like, then you will have a lot to choose!

In fact, there is also a more important thing here is your own determination, if you are always hesitant, always feel that trying to have two at the same time, as long as there is no accident and the mentality that it will be fine, you will go astray, and will make yourself more tired, this is not to enjoy the beauty of love, but to let yourself become your own greedy slave, constantly make up lies for yourself, in order to maintain this idea of making up lies.

By the way, no matter what decision you make, you can't have two girls at the same time, history is always strikingly similar, warning those who are greedy, you can't have both bear paws and fish!

The best way to do this is to choose neither.

Either choose one as your favorite one as your favorite one.

If you choose one of them, you will hurt the other, and if you choose two, you are not allowed, so you should not choose either!I've been like that before!Hope.

I suggest you take a look at Cai Zhiheng's "Quercus Parasitism", and you will understand it after reading it.

If you don't understand it after reading it, let's watch Cai Zhiheng's "Peacock Forest" again.

Don't choose either, neither of them will hurt, and if you are persistent, it means that you are greedy.

People live in the world, and they can't live without money. But if the family is still passable, there is no need to pursue wealth and wealth too much. The days are lived by yourself, and in the future, it is your woman who accompanies you to participate in all your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and money can only guarantee an excellent life, but it cannot solve the emptiness in your heart.

If you and your girlfriend are really in love, then choose love, and if one of you doesn't show love very much, then choose the future.