Let s talk about how you usually behave and behave, right?

Even if we are not talking to big people, we should speak to them with an attitude of asking for advice rather than an arrogant attitude, because people are not deceitful, and many practical mentors and friends often come from humble life and work.

It is not appropriate to ask the host and the guest of honor to order food when you are eating, because that is not what the distinguished person usually does, but please be careful to ask them about their preferences and not just order what you like to eat. However, it is necessary to study the menu and accumulate experience in ordering dishes. When serving, respect the host's arrangement and do not rush to the table first.

Speaking should really be aimed at other people's personalities and identities! When you say a word, you should consider the feelings of the other party, whether you can afford it, or you should speak according to the mood of the other party, speaking is an art, and saying different things to different people!

Even if you are not a service person, taking the initiative to pour water when a friend or colleague has a guest will make your friend and colleague feel very respectful, and it will also make the guest feel that your friend and colleague are very prestigious. This will make your friends and colleagues especially appreciate your gesture.

When you are praised by others for your appearance, things, and character, don't take it for granted, and don't deny it, the appropriate way is to express gratitude, especially thanks to friends for their affirmation and support.

Always find out what makes friends, partners and colleagues (even children) worthy of recognition, note that even your boss needs to be recognized by you, but praise should be done privately as much as possible, and praise should be done publicly for friends and colleagues in general.

It is not suitable to ask for gifts from others, and it is very rude to receive gifts from others whether you like them or not, because the giver will care about your reaction, and it is not suitable to transfer a gift from one place to another, especially if you still retain the symbols and traces of the original giver.

Entering someone's room after consulting them, reading their bookshelves or indoor items, using someone's computer with their consent, sitting in someone's private seat, but usually not flipping through someone's notebook.

Learn to use sticky notes, including IOUs, collar slips, leave slips, and application letters, if you are very active in using these notes, it will make other people feel that you are very standardized, and if you know how to ask others to do so, you will be better able to deal with them in the future. Being able to write notes will impress others.

How do you talk about dealing with people? Let's talk about this topic with you.

01 Say more nice things, don't say some frustrating words when dealing with people, praise more and praise more, blame less and criticize less, you will find that your social relationship is very good.

02 Don't say right or wrong, although no one doesn't talk about people behind their backs, and no one says people behind their backs, what I want to say is that right and wrong will only get you into trouble.

03 Say three points to people, you can't say one heart sooner or later, just say three points to people, you have to remember, especially those who want to calculate you.

04 The last thing I want to say is that what to say to whom, don't let your temperament be whimsical, and say whatever you want to say with patience, it's useless.

Good at listening to others. Empathy, empathy in everything you do. The greatest danger of giving advice to people carefully is to give advice when others are not asking for advice.

Conduct yourself in the world:Dealing with people in the world refers to being a person and dealing with the world as a general term. To be a person is to be a person, "place" is to deal with and contact, and "world" is the external environment and all kinds of things.

The general meaning is that a person lives in the world and treats things and the way they deal with affairs, both positive and negative.

<> Hello, the skills of dealing with people are as follows: 1. Use your brain to speak, be cautious in your words, talk too much, your mouth is just a speaker, you must pay attention to supervise and control the FM knob and voice control switch, otherwise it will bring you a lot of trouble. Don't just talk about the momentary pleasure and open your mouth, thinking that people are appreciating your smile, and endlessly tell all the words that dig out your heart, and as a result, people have completely figured out the bottom of the family.

And secretly laughing at you. 2. Don't rush to conclusions, even if you have an answer, you have to wait, maybe there is a better way to solve it, there are different answers from different angles, you must learn to empathize, especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait and rely on, many times not only the trouble is resolved, maybe good luck is coming. 3. You must be patient with the villain, take a step back and shout the ruler of the sea and the sky, and give them their own space if they can't do it, so that they can be intoxicated like a warbler singing and dancing.

As the saying goes, adults measure big, don't take mundane things to heart, villains are rats and chickens, and if you provoke villains, you will wait and get into trouble, and the most villains in the world can't afford to provoke. Until now, I haven't figured out a better way to defeat the villain, and I don't know if it's feasible to stay away.