How can a blind date make a good impression on a girl, and what to talk about?

If it's a date at a restaurant or bar, it's a pleasant topic to talk about your favorite delicacy. Talking about food, not only to understand her tastes, but also to find common ground, and never to worry about running out of topics again.

Talking about each other's hobbies, and they are the same interests and hobbies as each other, there will be a lot of topics to talk about, if you blindly talk about your favorite hobbies without considering each other's feelings, you will be disgusted.

If it's a place, let's talk about the customs of our hometown, as well as the recent changes, this is something that both of them know, chatting and chatting, it can be regarded as having a common topic, and it won't be cold.

It's nothing more than talking about your hobbies, then asking the other person what hobbies they have, and then chatting about the same hobbies, so that you won't be cold or embarrassed.

I usually talk about things about work, and although it's boring, I can tell from the conversations that she's a workaholic or someone who knows how to enjoy herself.

When I went on a blind date in '08, the other party was the same age as me, and we both talked about each other's interests and hobbies, as well as our own experiences.

When I was on a blind date with a friend, I was embarrassed to ask about the other party's income, so we talked about some interesting things in life, and when he talked about his work, we asked him about his income, so that it would not seem too abrupt.

During the Chinese New Year, my aunt introduced me to a man, and then I went on a blind date, and when I met him, I asked him where he worked or something, and I found that he worked in the same building as me, but he was not in the same department, and I felt that it was really fate, so I talked to him about work.

I vaguely remember the first time I went on a blind date, I didn't speak for two or three minutes when I first met, and finally spoke, the first sentence turned out to be how much is your current monthly salary, the scene was very embarrassing, in fact, I wanted to ask where you work, who knew that as soon as you opened your mouth, it was chaotic.

The premise of what to talk about is that the girl does not reject you at first sight, and if you reject you, everything you talk about is an awkward conversation.

One of the most bizarre blind date experiences in my life was actually asked if I needed to buy insurance, and the two of us talked for two hours on this topic, and there was no one.

I said that my experience of traveling north and south over the years, as well as the interesting things I encountered along the way, can not only show my breadth of knowledge, but also liven up the atmosphere, why not?

I've been on a blind date a few times, and the impression that girls give me should be okay! It's a pity that when you ask what kind of work you do, you are speechless, whether it is a jobless vagrant, or an unemployed, it will be gone.

Pay attention to your external image.

I don't know if you've heard of it, but there is a word in psychology called the "first cause effect". This means that when different pieces of information are combined, people tend to value the information that comes in front of them, which is often referred to as the "first impression". Therefore, "the source of the person is corresponding" is also called the "first impression effect".

Studies have found that a first impression can be made within 45 seconds of a late meeting with a person, and this first impression can have a significant impact on the relationship.

So, in a blind date, first impressions matter. So when going on a blind date, you should pay attention to your appearance. Even if you are a person who does not like to clean up after yourself, you should also wear light makeup on a blind date to show respect for people.

Even though you like to wear something comfortable and loose in your day-to-day life, you should also wear the right combination instead of a pair of flip-flops and a pair of ripped jeans.

First of all, when you go on a blind date, your appearance and dressing taste must be passable. It doesn't have to be extravagant and tall, but it must be clean and decent.

Chinese blind date, each other's introducer has introduced the situation between you, your family background, the girl already has a certain degree of impression in her heart, on this basis, the girl is not interested in what you talked about with her, these only account for a small part, the girl values the first impression of you.

Your taste in dressing, your mannerisms (your humor, your self-motivation) make her feel. For example, imagine that you go on a blind date, and it turns out that it is Sister Feng who is on a blind date with you, wearing wrinkled clothes, and she hasn't changed for many days, the most important thing is that you have oily hair, and you swing your head like dandruff rain. No matter how eloquent you are, no matter how good your writing is, you don't want to chat with her.

One. Be sure to clean yourself up.

Try to dress as neatly and neatly as possible, and if you don't know how to match, you can dress as plain and generous as possible. In addition, to see if their nails and hair are tidy, boys should pay attention to their hair, even if they work overtime for a month in a row, remember not to go to see a girl with a face of vicissitudes, otherwise it will leave the first impression of sloppy and unhygienic to the other party; In addition, boys should not wear leggings, and most girls cannot accept the opposite sex wearing strange or feminine searches.

Girls must dress up, try not to wear heavy makeup, do not wear revealing clothes, even if they are not good at makeup, tidy up and neatly dressed, they can also show people a fresh and refined visual experience.

Don't be nervous and introduce yourself in a sunny and generous way.

You can start with the most basic name, hometown, occupation, hobbies, and add the resonance point of "empathy", so that you can introduce yourself to the other party with a sunny and lively feeling.

Each name is different, and while not necessarily unique, it all has its own meaning and expectations. For example, the owner of the name Xia Lin was born in a drought and many crops died, but when she was born in the hospital, the first rain in two months relieved the thirsty earth, so her parents named her "Xia Lin", giving her a beautiful vision and expectation. If you feel that your name is too ordinary and has no story to tell, you can set a background for the name, which may not be completely true, but as long as it can be remembered, even if it is a made-up story, as long as you leave a memory point.

Mentioning your hometown, your profession and hobbies are all good starting points for the conversation, which can help you get to know each other better and generate a steady stream of topics.

Secondly, you can also make the atmosphere of the scene relaxed immediately by self-deprecation. Self-deprecation is self-deprecating on the surface, but in essence it is a manifestation of self-confidence, accepting one's imperfection is not afraid of any impact it brings to oneself, daring to show one's weaknesses, and can also produce a humorous on-the-spot effect, which can usually arouse the favor and interest of others.

When you meet for the first time, you should naturally dress up cleanly, dress neatly, use civilized language, respect each other, and be polite to each other, which is the most basic etiquette, and I believe everyone can do it well.

When you meet for the first time, it is natural to introduce yourself, but how to do this introduction, I think how old and what work education, whether a few people in the family have a house, can be introduced, the introduction is an introduction, but when the introduction is to show that they are serious and positive about life and work, the woman can show her kind and caring side.

When you meet for the first time, you can also talk about your own family, not only about a few people, but also about your family's attitude and preferences, so as to lead to the introduction of the other party's family. Of course, it's all innocuous and interesting topics.

You can also talk about your ideal reality and wishes, of course, the ideal cannot be fake. You can also talk about some interesting things at work.

When meeting for the first time, it is best not to talk about your ex, and don't complain about money or trivial matters, let alone talk about colleagues behind your back.

The first blind date to see the yard bench surface should also pay attention, whether you like the other party or not, you must be euphemistic, don't directly confide that you are forced by the family to go on a blind date, you can change the way of speaking, ask the argument, you are also urged by the family to come.

"Blind date" has become a way for many single men and women to solve the marriage ceremony, but in the face of the blind date, many people are also a little confused, do not know how to increase the success rate, in fact, both men and women in the blind date to be able to harvest true love, should master six skills: 1, pay attention to the image, both men and women must learn to dress themselves before the blind date, so that they can have a decent image, so that they can leave a good impression on each other; 2. Choose a suitable blind date location, when both men and women meet each other, they must choose a quiet and romantic blind date location, so that they can have a good chat atmosphere with each other; 3. Pay attention to speech and behavior, both men and women need to pay attention to their words and deeds after meeting on a blind date, not to speak foul language, to be civilized, so as to satisfy each other; 4. Choose a chat topic that both parties are interested in, and both men and women should find topics that are of interest to each other when chatting on a blind date, so that they can have emotional resonance with each other; 5. Learn to listen to each other's words, men and women can not only take care of their own words when they go on a blind date, but also listen to each other's words, so that they can make each other feel respected; 6. Keep smiling, men and women must be smiling when they go on a blind date, and they can't keep a straight face, so that they can give each other a good impression and let each other have a good development. Both men and women are rushing to get married when they go on a blind date, so they must leave a good impression on each other, so that the relationship between the two people can develop normally and finally have a good result.

In real life, some men and women do not choose the right method when they go on a blind date, so the impression left on each other is not particularly good. Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, when choosing a blind date, you should consider how to leave a good impression on the other party, and then you can have a relationship with the other party. However, in order to achieve this, both men and women should meet six requirements when they go on a blind date, so that they can have feelings for each other and finally enter into marriage.

Pay attention to your own imageWhen a couple of men and women go on a blind date, their personal image is the first impression left on each other, if the personal image is not too good, it may make the other party very dissatisfied at this time, and at the same time, it will also make each other have no development at all, which is a problem that needs to be paid attention to. Therefore, both men and women should pay attention to their personal image when they go on a blind date, and they should learn to dress themselves up in ordinary times, and they should also learn to match their clothes, which can greatly enhance their attractiveness, and they can leave a good impression on each other on a blind date. Choosing the right location In the process of blind date, both men and women should choose a suitable blind date location, because the location determines the atmosphere of two people getting along, and also determines an impression of both parties, which is a crucial issue that everyone should pay attention to.

When choosing a blind date location, both men and women can choose a quiet and romantic location, so that the other party can produce a warm atmosphere, and at the same time let the other party have a good impression of themselves, and they can also have a relationship with each other later.

When it comes to blind dates, self-image is the most important point. As the saying goes, "people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles", and the experience of a person's clothing makes the other party refreshed and feels that you have basic sincerity and respect for her.

When you dress on a blind date, you don't need to deliberately overdress up, just dress appropriately, and I personally recommend casual wear, and the atmosphere will not look very serious. Don't wear bells and whistles, don't make too exaggerated looks, even if you wear a famous brand, it will make girls think that you are unreliable. You can go to the barber shop to make a hairstyle that suits you, just keep it fresh and not greasy.

Shoes are very important in the blind date process, to see if it is clean, those who have the ability can buy a pair of leather shoes, to add a sense of maturity, because there are many girls who look at people from the shoes up. It is also important to note that the nails should be clean and clean, which can add a lot of image points.

The first impression of a boy is very important in the eyes of a girl, which requires the boy to prepare the clothes he needs before the blind date, etc., neat and generous, which will give people a good feeling.

It is often said that speaking is an art, so it is especially good to pay attention to your verbal expression when you go on a blind date, which is also very useful for arousing the favor of girls.

The most important point is not to swear, it will make girls think that you are a person with no quality, which will cause a sense of anti-dispersion towards you. Secondly, a cheerful personality is a good quality, but you can't brag about it all over the world and run the train with your mouth full, which will make the girl think that you are unreliable and an extremely friendly hypocrisy. Then choose the topic as much as possible to choose some light-hearted topics, which will put you in a relaxed communication environment.

Finally, don't speak too fast, it will make people feel that your personality is too impatient, and speaking too slowly will make girls feel that you are not doing things well, so make sure that girls can keep up with your speed of speech. If you can control the rhythm in the blind date, men should do a good job of avoiding too many hand movements, too many gestures will make women feel that you are not confident, and you may have some inferiority complex in life. Men can cross it over their lap or place it more casually next to the cup.

Talking decently can basically see a person's attitude towards life and the level of emotional intelligence, which is also crucial for the next understanding of both men and women.