What do we marry without sufficient material foundation?

Let's have a naked marriage, that is, a marriage without any material basis, as long as you get a marriage certificate, and then go out to play nearby or elsewhere, it is considered a honeymoon trip, such a marriage will definitely have an endless aftertaste after getting old, and such a marriage can be easily remembered. Naked marriages, for people nowadays, are not very numerous, but I think it's very interesting. The wedding ceremony does not need to be too grand, it will feel very boring, and the wedding ceremony is to let the two people reminisce when they are old.

In fact, marriage only needs to have a proof, and it doesn't matter whether there is a banquet or not, it is only for others to see. You can get married like this, and then you can do it again when you have a wedding that you can do. My parents are the same, and I just took a wedding photo a few years ago, so I think it's not bad, so let's try it.

For young people, getting married is inherently numb.

Hurry a bird.

It is indeed a real problem. But there are a few young people who have a ready-made material foundation, so they should still work hard in a down-to-earth manner, and the relationship between the two people can also be consolidated.

Then you go and accumulate together, my husband and I are self-made and don't take a penny from the family, because my parents are also like this, and I am very satisfied.

Now we have a house and a car, but we don't have a loan, and we are very happy.

If there is no material foundation, create a material foundation.

Matter comes by struggle, where does not struggle come from material! This shouldn't have much to do with what material basis you get married! You can struggle for a few years, have some foundation, and then slowly struggle after you get married.

Love and marriage are things that everyone has to face in the course of life, a sweet love is certainly happy, and a good marriage is even more enviable. But it is not easy to enter into marriage, which not only requires two people to have an emotional foundation, but also a certain material foundation.

In modern society, if a couple of lovers want to enter marriage and embrace a better life, a certain material foundation is necessary. Two people need to have a home of their own, maybe they also need to have a car of their own, and even need to pay a high bride price when they get married, all of which are necessary components of a good life, and these things are actually what we call the material basis.

I don't think this issue needs to be discussed at all, marriage definitely costs money, it's just a matter of spending more and spending less. But no matter how much money is spent, a certain material foundation is needed as support, and it is possible for two people to truly move from love to marriage.

The reason why people are willing to enter into marriage is fundamentally to be able to live a happier life. The clothing, food, housing and transportation included in a happy life are indeed very convenient in modern society, but everything needs financial support.

When they enter married life, if two people want to live a down-to-earth life, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all cost money. It's hard to imagine what life would be like for two people without a certain material foundation.

From another point of view, we can imagine what a marriage without a material foundation looks like: two people are worried about money all day long, not about living a better life, but about surviving. In such a life, two people will definitely break out, more contradictions and conflicts, and there will definitely be countless quarrels waiting for these two people.

I don't think anyone can last too long in such a marriage, and divorce is a doomed outcome for two people.

Everyone is looking forward to the arrival of beautiful love, and there may be no material foundation in love, but marriage is slightly different from love after all. Regardless of who has a certain material foundation, it will become easier to enter into marriage.

Wanting to get married without a material basis is irresponsible for a marriage.

Marriage requires a material basis. First, because marriage is for 2 people, 2 people will definitely have a new home, there will be 2 children, and the child is born, and you need to spend money to buy clothes, and you need money to study in the future, so the material foundation is necessary.

Need. Because the material foundation is a necessary prerequisite for marriage, I believe that a material foundation is needed for marriage.

Need. Because marriage is a matter of two families, and at the same time, after marriage, you also face the trivial things of life, so you need material things as a foundation.

Marriage requires a material foundation, because without a material foundation, the life of two people will be very bad, and there will be a lot of contradictions.

Mainly because after getting married, the two-person group has become a family respect, if there is no material foundation, it may make the family completely broken, as the saying goes, a penny is hard to beat a hero.

Because of a certain material foundation, the living expenses of two people can be guaranteed, so that two people will not quarrel over some money.

Because as long as there is a certain material foundation, two people can have a better start and be relatively happy.

1. A responsible man.

You must be mentally prepared, you must be responsible, you must love you enough, if you are not ready to get married in your heart, no matter how much money you give him, no matter how much room he has, he will not necessarily be happy, and the happiness I am talking about is the kind of happiness that comes from the heart. After marriage, a responsible man must have a strong sense of responsibility for his family, his wife, his children, and his family. I will do my best for the happiness of my family.

Will care for his wife and children. He is a very good man. Therefore, to get married, you need to have a strong sense of responsibility.

Marrying this kind of man will make you feel very secure and happy. The most beautiful marriage is to marry your own love, not to get married because you think it's okay. His marriage to you is only about you meeting his or his family's requirements in every way, and this marriage is not about him loving you.

Such a marriage is very sad. Because there is no affection, it is difficult for him to tolerate you in life, be considerate to you, and consider your feelings in everything.

2. There is a certain material basis.

First of all, you must have a place to live, and you can't get married and have no fixed place to live. The car is not available for the time being. But the house is there to be one.

There may have been naked marriages a few years ago, and there will still be naked marriages now, but I think most people (men and women) want to have a home after getting married, even if it is a mortgage, and then the two of them will jointly pay the repayment. This can also be viewed according to the different areas where it is located, if you plan to stay in the city all the time, buying a house must be a hard indicator; If you have a house in your hometown and the two of you are away from home after getting married, you can live on your own according to the economic conditions and just need to consider whether you need this material condition. I won't talk much about some other material conditions, but the more material conditions the better.

3. A down-to-earth and capable man.

First of all, it is necessary to be able to do some daily housework, especially cooking, which is definitely the marriage partner that women dream of finding. Don't underestimate that it's just a little thing in life. If you marry this kind of man, you will be able to realize that you will live like a princess after marriage.

Have a husband who cooks for you. I don't want you to do housework tirelessly after work. When being lovers, women like to listen to sweet words.

But I found out after getting married. Only a down-to-earth and hard-working man can give you the strongest sense of security. A person who is flamboyant all day long and doesn't do business.

No matter how beautiful his love words are. Nor can you improve the quality of your marital life. Only he is proactive and down-to-earth in his efforts.

It can give you the happiness you want. If you have such a man by your side. Be prepared to hold on to him.

There is such a sentence that the economic base determines the superstructure, and there is a certain truth in this sentence no matter how it is used. Even in marriage, the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt is inseparable from the material basic conditions, and marriage and love are completely different things. So, what are the material basic conditions for marriage?

1. What are the material conditions for marriage?

1. Room. A house is an important foundation for becoming a family haven, and a home without a house cannot be said to be a complete home. Therefore, for men and women who want to get married now, the house is also a big problem that needs to be solved first.

2. Car. As a necessary means of transportation, the car is also a major material basis when getting married. However, according to the differences of the family, some families do not necessarily value the car very much, and it is all different from person to person.

3. Work. Stable income** is the root of maintaining a family's stability and harmony, after all, love after marriage is inevitably entangled by oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, if there is no stable economic income**, in the sweet marriage will also lose to a difficult life.

2. 7 basic conditions necessary for marriage.

1. Get to know each other.

Love is a sweet process, but if you want to be sure that you are getting married, you still need to have a certain understanding of your other half. Whether the other party is able to take responsibility in the marriage, whether the other party's family situation and education are suitable for marriage, and the physical health of the other party, etc., need to be understood.

2. Trust each other.

To be able to enter the marriage hall must be ready to go down with the other party. The most basic trust is essential, and if the marriage is full of mutual suspicion and distrust, then the marriage may be in crisis at any time.

3. Economic foundation.

The most basic firewood, rice, oil and salt are indispensable for the birth after marriage, and maintaining the stability of the marriage and economic material are also indispensable conditions. If you don't have enough financial ability and no problematic income, how can you make your marriage and family stable?

4. Respect each other.

A perfect marriage relationship must not be two people who are always glued together, without each other's freedom and space. Maintaining a certain amount of space helps to deepen the relationship, and it is essential to respect each other.

5. Parental recognition.

Everyone says that a marriage that is not approved by the parents is necessarily unhappy. And if a marriage is approved by both parents, it means that the marriage has passed the test of both parents, and the relationship after marriage will be more harmonious.

6. Mutual division of labor.

Husbands and wives play different roles in the family, so there must be a good division of responsibilities in a family. As the saying goes, men and women are matched to work without getting tired, and the family needs two people to work together and cooperate with each other in order to go long.

7. The three views are consistent.

In the same married life, if the husband and wife always have their own ideas when facing things and cannot agree with each other, if there is a disagreement, it will lead to marital instability. If you can't even get to the same line with the most basic three views, it is inevitable that this marriage will fall apart.

When getting married, the house is the most important material foundation. This is also the condition for modern young people to get married and put the house as the first element in the marriage discussion.

The house is a sign of home. As a place to rest from the wind and rain. Marriage has relatively high requirements for the house. There is no house to come to home, a space that belongs to you.

Marriage is two people appreciate each other, from acquaintance to love into the palace of marriage, together with vitality, have a strong will to live together, and as the basis of living together, is a house as a material foundation, obviously essential.

Nowadays, people's pursuit of the house is more pragmatic, not only to have enough sunshine, good ventilation, but also spacious and bright, two bathrooms to provide the elderly, children and couples do not interfere with each other's convenience.

The economic conditions are abundant, life is good, and people still pursue travel, so it is more practical as a car for travel. Therefore, when getting married, the two-phase material foundation of the house and car is the most important.

For the young people of that year, what material conditions did they value most? According to the latest survey, the house comes first, and the income comes second.

According to a survey of 1,937 young people aged 18-35, housing and income are the two most important material bases for young people surveyed when they get married.

In terms of the material foundation that people value when they get married, house ranks first, followed by the income of both parties. There are also cars (and deposits. Only the young people interviewed bluntly said that they did not care about the material base.

The survey also showed that of the young people interviewed said that they were willing to work together with their partners if their parents could not provide them with sufficient material conditions. Interaction analysis found that male willingness (significantly higher than female intention) was significantly higher than female willingness (.

Experts say that marriage is a long-term act, and a certain material foundation is very necessary in marriage. "There is a saying that 'poor and lowly couples mourn everything', and having certain economic conditions can reduce many family conflicts.

Moreover, young couples generally face fertility problems soon after they get married, and having children requires a certain economic foundation."

The material basis of marriage must bear the brunt of money, the reality is that you can't get married without money, and now you need a house and a car to get married, even if you don't have the full amount, the down payment must be there, and the bride price and dowry are the material basis for marriage.

Before marriage, talk about material feelings and worldliness, and after marriage, marriage is no longer a relationship of favor and resentment between two people during the relationship, but to deal with the small relationships of a family in a comprehensive way, and married life also requires various expenses. With the increase of the married life of many couples, more and more expenses are incurred, and how many couples end up in love because of poverty, and the maintenance of marriage requires love and material things to move forward together and compete for the share. If there is a lack of sufficient material resources to lay a solid foundation, the superstructure is threatened.

Marriage management must lay a good foundation before building a house. Matter is the foundation that determines the height and solidity of the superstructure.