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Another pair of failed parents! Talking so impulsively to his own child, as if he has a deep hatred, do you regret giving birth to her, I feel that she is a burden.
What your sister needs most now is understanding, comfort and encouragement, and usually you may have to take care of her a little, she needs support.
The children under the fence must know how to observe words and looks, and do not have a head-on conflict with their parents, otherwise there will be no good fruit to eat, and secretly comfort their sister, a look, a word, a smile, a gesture, a glass of milk, ......It is a great relief for those who have been battered.
Even if there are 10,000 parents who are not, even if they can say such heartless words to their own flesh and blood, but they raise you and remember their good deeds, after all, it is not easy to raise children, and they have no less trouble, their mistakes can't cover up their merits, and they have the ability to live independently, and they still have to repay them.
There are many tribulations in life, and we need to support each other to walk together. All roads lead to Rome, there is not only one way to study, if your sister can continue to study as she wishes, it is the best; If you can't, don't be discouraged, enlighten her, don't drill the horns, you can learn by yourself without going to school, in modern society, it is not difficult to learn, there are many ways, (such as books, CDs, the Internet, training courses, ......You don't have to be taught in school to find a way of learning that suits you. ”
Persistence is not necessarily wrong, persistence is victory; However, there is a saying that "if you choose the wrong choice, your efforts will be in vain." "I hope your sister's efforts are equal to the reward. She was still young and had time to learn anything.
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Is it true that such parents have problems with their brains? I don't even believe it. Originally, their children were unlucky, how can parents hit their children like this, they should be encouraged, comforted and cared for.
If you like to go to school, you won't be allowed to go to school? Is that a person? Are you reluctant to spend money?
What's the use of their money keeping? That child still knows how hard it is to go to school, how can she say that she has spent it? I don't think such parents can support them in the future, and they are uneducated at first glance.
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Now everything in this society needs to be educated, and now the employees in a store must at least have high school or above, and they can't do anything without a degree. Parents should let their sister continue to study, which is a requirement to adapt to social development... Parents' blind accusations may cause children to have a psychological deficit, which is very bad for my sister...
The above is purely my own personal opinion, sorry)
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There are certainly shortcomings in the parent's approach. Did you take your sister to check it out? I hope that good Samaritans will help and convince your parents. After all, education is a must. It's scary to be without culture.
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As a parent, you should love your sister more, the body will hurt the heart, the family's care is the best medicine, you should care more about her, so that she can have a better and faster recovery of physical and mental health.
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Hehe, is your sister stupid, you can see if what she said and behaved abnormally, looking at the opinions of her classmates, maybe the psychology has changed a little because of the accident, it can be said that it is scared, you can comfort it, after all, it is related to her future, and it will be easy to solve the psychological problem, her parents are not right, maybe it is rural, right? Culture is important. You have to help her.
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After that, it is wrong that parents should let their children have the right to education.
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Yes, there is something wrong, but what is the condition of your family? Isn't it hard for your sister to study? You also have to think about your parents, but it's also wrong for your parents to say such ugly things, you have to communicate with them.
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I can only sympathize with you, our parents have a nurturing grace for us, first of all, we can't be disrespectful to them, but now the generation gap between our parents and us is really big, the thinking is different, if possible, I still hope that you communicate with your parents, and your parents say that, it is estimated that they also love face,,
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You can talk to your parents and comfort your sister.
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Summary. Good afternoon, dear, what parents did wrong, must be wrong, how can it be right? Some people say that it is right for parents to be wrong, but it is just that parents are our elders, and the captain has no nurturing grace, not that they are wrong and right.
My dear, good afternoon, my parents have done something wrong, and they must be wrong, how can it be right? Some people say that it is right for parents to do wrong, but it is just that parents are our elders, and the captain has no nurturing grace, not that Qili is also right to be wrong in theory.
My dear, we have to learn to distinguish between right and wrong, what is wrong is wrong, and what is right is right. My dear, if the parents did something wrong, let's not have to worry about her at the time. Wait until they're in a good mood and bring it up to them so they realize they're wrong and let them pay attention next time.
Don't make such mistakes.
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It's not that whoever is the elder is not qualified to say the elders, nor does it say that the younger generations can only listen to the lessons, as long as people will make mistakes, but if they don't find their own mistakes in time, when they can make others put it forward, don't be happy to accept it, don't feel that it is your son or daughter who will feel faceless, in fact, it is difficult to educate the next generation, so you have to lead by example to better educate the next generation.
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If this matter can be ignored, then there is no need to point it out, it is better to turn a blind eye for the sake of the parents' face. But if it is a big event, as children, we must point it out and make our parents realize our mistakes, which is also for their good.
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I think it should be brought up, because children are also members of the family and have the right to bring up the mistakes of their parents.
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I think it should be brought up, but it should be done in a tactful way, so that it can help them correct their mistakes, but it will not make them feel that they are old, and these mistakes will be made.
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I think children should bring it up, because after all, it is a family, and telling parents that it is wrong can also make parents develop better.
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It should be brought forward, and only if you bring it up, will your parents realize their mistakes and correct them.
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1. Parents who implement repressive education for their children.
Such parents want to establish their authority everywhere, and no matter what their children do, they will demean and suppress their children.
Parents who practice repressive education are ostensibly for the good of their children, afraid of their children's pride, and want their children to become better, but in essence, they ignore their children's inner feelings, do not know how to empathize with their children, and ignore their children's psychological feelings.
Children who have been suppressed by their parents for a long time will have doubts about their own abilities, and even no longer love themselves, and will feel depressed and inferior. 2. Parents with strong personalities who take care of their children's affairs.
Some parents regard their children as their own private property, do not understand that children are independent individuals, and should give their children full understanding and respect, and children's things are not to let children make their own decisions, but to do it completely in accordance with the wishes of their parents. 3. Parents who don't care about their children's inner feelings, and don't care if their children are wronged outside.
Many parents still have a misconception, that is, only silver only wants their children to be fed and clothed, and everything will be fine, and they have never thought of caring about their children's inner feelings, nor paying attention to their children's inner movements.
In fact, in addition to the child's food and clothing, the child's heart is also growing, especially before the child is a minor, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of incomprehension and ups and downs in the mind and heart, parents should know how to communicate with the child often, go deep into the child's heart, and solve the depression and confusion for the child. Smart parents are growing parents, because they have children, they will make themselves richer and progressive, and while accompanying their children to grow up, they will find their own shortcomings and correct them in time, and become better and better with their children.
Wise parents will always make progress and learn while raising their children, so that their thinking and knowledge will become higher and higher, and they will realize those transcendent wisdom in life.
Children are like a mirror, reflecting the appearance of their parents, and good parents will always make themselves and their children continue to improve, and progress together.
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Too coercive, or reprimanded.
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