What should you do if the TA you like doesn t like you?

As someone who has come over, I tell you, don't give up.

If he really doesn't like me, then I'll give up. Don't waste time on him. I know it's easy to say, but if you don't start thinking about giving up, you'll keep thinking about him, and that will only make you sadder. It is more important to find your happiness.

If you know that there is no result, if he has no feelings for you at all, of course you have to give up; Emotional things can't be forced, sometimes you have to know how to let go, it's not bad to watch him happy, it's better than you stalking him and making him hate you! Sometimes giving up is also a kind of beauty, put it in your heart, and in the end, it is also a kind of beauty!

What is the reason he doesn't like you?

It's certainly not for nothing that I don't like you, but if you like him a lot and want to be with him.

Then you should find out and try to let him know where your shine is.

But I'm not much of a proponent of trying to fight to the end. Because in that case, you usually get only emotion, not love.

I hope LZ is happy.

Like a person is not forced, emotional things are even more indescribable, to unknown, like a person may not be together, sometimes as long as you silently pay attention to ta, watch him happy and happy. There is also the need to work hard for yourself, as long as you do your job, there is nothing to regret.

In essence, in fact, you have nothing to do with her, if the mother-in-law is the husband's biological mother and the child's immediate family members cannot get rid of the relationship, and the concubine is the wife of the husband's brother, it can be said that there is no blood affection.

If you don't like it, just because she is not good-looking, her behavior is vulgar, and her personality is misbehaving, she is regarded as a passer-by on the road, and if you try not to deal with her, you don't pay attention to her, and if there are any family affairs, let your husband and his brother hand over them.

The most fearful thing is that comparison and jealousy cause dislike, which is also the most common reason for the contradiction between concubines: for example, there are concubines who are well-behaved and clever to please their in-laws, and they feel aggrieved and unfair when they get more praise and support from their in-laws; Then there is the envy, jealousy and hatred that crushes herself in all aspects of her life, which is either hard work, or slowly digested by time.

Get along with a relative who is a little closer than a friend. Sometimes the more only the "friend" level of the relationship is beneficial, after all, it is not a matter of not conspiring with each other, and if you can talk about it, you can get together, and you can walk away a little if you don't agree with the other party's point of view.

But concubines are the care of friends and relatives, and the relationship between friends and "relatives" is separated. As the saying goes, "whether you are close or not, you are connected" and "the father and son are still soldiers in the war", and it is reasonable and well-founded to do their own virtual wheel about the "relationship between relatives", as for the "friend relationship", they can get together, and if they don't like it, they will be fine.

Keep your distance: If you don't want to be in contact with your concubine, you can keep a certain distance to reduce the chance of communication and meeting.

Communicate with the concubine: If you feel that there is a problem with the concubine, you can take the initiative to communicate with the other party, express your thoughts and feelings, and try to solve the problem.

Find common ground: If you want to improve your relationship with your concubine, you can look for common ground, such as common preferences, interests, etc., and try to establish good communication and relationships.

Seek help from family members: If you feel that you cannot solve the problem, you can seek the help of family members, such as husband and wife, in-laws, etc., to negotiate a solution together.

Then try to have as little contact as possible.

To each his own day. If you come together, move around more. If you can't get along, move around less.

If you don't like it, you can't come and go, so why care!

Even if you don't like it, you can't make the relationship stiff, after all, it's a family, even if you don't like it, the etiquette in daily life is indispensable.

Don't have too many contacts, just save face. Don't have money as a problem.

If you don't like it, don't have a relationship, meet occasionally, smile politely and nod when you're happy, and ignore it if you're unhappy.

Keep your distance, just come and go again during the New Year's holidays, out of sight is clean. As the saying goes, distance produces beauty, and when the distance is far, there will be fewer contradictions, just walk around as an ordinary relative.

Don't let the dislike affect her mood, and she won't live in my house every day, so why not let yourself be generous.

I don't like his brother's family, the old couple is the eldest, and so is the child, his sister-in-law is about to give birth to a second child, and he is even more respectful to others.

tore his face and ignored it for the rest of his life.

Even if I don't like it anymore, I will still get along with her in terms of human relations and sophistication, but I don't get along too much when I don't have anything to do with each other. Because after all, there are brothers in the middle, and the harmony of the entire family cannot be affected because of the relationship between concubines.

My sister-in-law is okay, but her mother-in-law is not very good and will not come to trouble, so we are not very close.

Like that, if the mother-in-law and her partner both work under the eldest sister, can they get married?

It's good if you don't come and go, what else can you do?