I was very confused at work and depressed!!

Low description. Your life has found its way. Not the carefree kind.

Happiness is not something that the human heart rejoices. It can only show that we are still in a sluggish state. There is no sense of direction.

It doesn't matter if it's love or righteousness. Just cheer up. Work towards.

If you are in the manufacturing industry, you will have to lie dormant for about 5 years.

In this case, as you said, most of the undergraduates in the company can't stay, and it is estimated that a large part of it will be lost every 3 years. Am I right?

Personally, I suggest that you stick to it for a while, after all, there are many personnel changes, and there is a chance to mix in the middle level, so it will be easy to change jobs with management experience.

As you said, the plan is also order management, planning management, etc., which is the most potential position for promotion and change, and all departments can be accessed, and it is normal to be busy, but in fact, other positions are also very stressful. It's good to be bearish.

I am a teenager who is about to step out of school to go out to work in the society, maybe I will experience the same setbacks in life as you in the future, but as long as we persevere, do everything seriously, and have a good attitude, I firmly believe that it will pass. Let's do it together.

In fact, every industry is similar, but depending on what your own opinion is, even if it is now at the bottom, as long as we work hard, we can still climb up.

I have done more and gained more experience. Of course, if you do this job, others will have to ask you about something. If you do your best, there will always be a time when you will reap.

The past is good, it depends on what kind of person you belong to, whether you dare to take risks or pray for stability, which determines whether you should go or stay.

1. Correct work attitude. Attitude is everything, and a good attitude will have a good start. Zero yourself, start small, and work hard to complete each task. In this way, there will be gains and progress every day.

2. Define a goal. Whether you are in a private enterprise or a state-owned enterprise, "climbing up" is the goal that everyone strives for. You can have several short-term goals and have a long-term goal. When you accomplish one short-term goal after another, is the long-term goal still far away?

3. Change the status quo. Many people are poor after graduation, and after entering the company, you should start your capital accumulation. When you have money, you can do a lot of things. Accumulating your own network is an invisible "fund".

4. Accumulating experience is accumulating wealth in life. When they first joined the work, many people were careless and did not consider the problem comprehensively. This requires the accumulation of experience, and every time you finish something, you must think more and make a good summary.

5. Become a "specialist" first. Nowadays, no matter what major you are in college, the school will give you a lot of courses to understand, but you are not proficient. So in your work, you should find what you are good at, understand it, and refine it. Become a "Professional".

6. Young people are not afraid of challenges. We are still young and we have a lot of time to improve ourselves and add value to ourselves. So don't be afraid of pressure, pressure is motivation, and when you stand at the highest peak, you will "see all the mountains".

Let's start with my experience. I graduated from university in 2004 with a bachelor's degree, majoring in polymer materials, but after graduation, due to my girlfriend and the poor development of this major in the north, I changed my career to sales, and the salary was 600 yuan. I did sales for a few years, then did purchasing, and then opened my own store for two years, and now I have taken the civil service exam to work in **.

I want to say that I can understand your feelings, because I have also experienced and walked through many detours.

I suggest that you put your mind at peace and strive to do a line of love, with my experience: 1. The taboo of development when changing jobs; 2. Don't deliberately pursue which job you like and which job you don't like, in fact, the facts are not necessarily the same as you think, and you don't necessarily really understand yourself, and you should strive to develop well in the industry where you get opportunities; 3. Don't be ambitious, think too much, use the time you think about it, and you'll be OK; 4. In the process of life and work, gradually understand your own needs and really know what you want? What kind of life do you want to live?

What will make you happy? What would it hurt to lose? These questions are different for everyone, don't blindly learn from others, what others want to get, in fact, you don't necessarily need.

Before the age of the formation of their own outlook on life and values, the formation of their own principles and style of work.

Trust me, you will find a direction to work towards; Believe in yourself and you will live a successful and happy life. Open your mind, take care of the overall situation of life, and don't dwell on some specific issues. All you need to do now is one sentence:

Calm down, think less and do more, do your best to do the job at hand, wait, wait for your own maturity, and wait for the opportunity to choose".

What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

There is no good job, only suitable and unsuitable, see what kind of future you want.

If your girlfriend is just complaining about the separation of the two places in the future, then you say that you come to Shenzhen, or that you find me a good job and I will go back. If she doesn't have an idea, you say it's temporary, and you'll reunite you. If you can't say anything, it's your girlfriend who has a problem, and use this as an excuse.

Men must not let go of their dignity, put down their careers to blindly follow women, to the day you can't show, you lose your charm, only successful men have unlimited charm, when your charm is strong enough, women are completely a rootless grass, adsorbed on your body.

Mine: 1. If you "really" understand that you have really worked hard, but your ability to work has not improved. You can quit your job and go to work in the industry you love. Explain the reason for your resignation to the leader, and don't waste time because of your own face!

2. You have worked hard, but your work ability has not improved. It may be that you are working in the wrong direction, but you are able to make the most of your work and manage your relationship with your superiors and colleagues. If it is only your own reasons, it causes your own misunderstanding of the current situation, disgust with the job, and a bad opinion of your current treatment.

Then you can start from now on, do your essential work, accumulate work experience, and ignore the salary for the time being. Through your efforts, the leader will naturally give you a salary increase when the time comes.

Analysis: Reason for confusion: I feel that what I get is not proportional to what I give. Because the salary is very small, and after working for more than half a year, he still hasn't been regularized. I will work overtime a lot, day and night. - Get not only salary, but also experience!

At present, my logic is a bit poor, and it is difficult to make proposals; After careful analysis, I felt that my understanding was not enough, and advertising was a place where creativity was needed, and I was lacking in this aspect. - Then you shouldn't complain about low wages.

I said to the leader twice before that I resigned, and the leader said it was very realistic, and after talking, I felt that I should persist and work hard, but it turned out that the result was different from what I thought. - proves that you are indeed limited in your ability to work.

Summary: You can choose the first one! Hope you find the right job for you!

Now it's not about working hard to get a relative thing, it's about learning to win over the top.

I've also encountered such a thing, I work in the railway bureau, I feel that the work is so hard, the salary is not as high as others, plus I feel that I am really not suitable for such a company to work, so I think what I can do, as long as I know what I can do, what I love to do, and then work hard, I am now engaged in the Internet business, I feel quite suitable for myself, I hope you can find your favorite career, let the troubles dissipate, hehe.

Some personal advice for your reference:

1. If the economic conditions allow, it is recommended that you do not rush to find a job, and concentrate on completing your studies first. If you find a job that you are very comfortable with, not only will you not be able to do your job well, but it will also have a great impact on your self-confidence.

2. As for the unit introduced by the classmate, if you really don't like it, it's OK to refuse it, and there is no question of offending anyone. It's just a function of your heart. But you always don't give a clear answer to the unit, and you don't go to the end of the day, so you can offend everyone.

3. Looking for a job for a long time and not finding a suitable job, this is a very normal phenomenon, I have been out for so many years, I feel that I still have not found a suitable job. In fact, my personal understanding of the right job is: my own standard high-bottom positioning.

There is no such thing as idealized work.

4. I must also mention to you: I think the space you leave for yourself is too small, and you want to be at home and want a good job. It's really difficult, and for you, with such a high diploma and knowledge, you should let yourself go and go to the outside world to hone yourself.

Because today's enterprises, there is still a lot of demand for talents like you. There may be unexpected gains.

Judging from your expression, I think you are a more homely man and a man who takes care of his family, but as a man, if you have nothing, or you don't have anything, you can't take care of it.

I think it's better to go, close to home, + as long as you work hard, the opportunity will come.

Let's get a job first, then choose a job, I've had this experience, it's really painful, but self-positioning is very important.

It's really difficult in Beijing, public institutions can take the civil service exam, and the success rate is very high, sometimes the reality is very cruel, you and you are in activities, and now public institutions are rushing to enter, Beijing will realize its dreams, but the odds are too low, or make a choice.

Whether you want to choose a wider range of job opportunities and space in Beijing, or a more comfortable living environment in your hometown, you know what you want most, and you have to give up. Of course, if it is difficult for you to choose between the two, then you can only ask relatives and friends to help you analyze and decide, it is very difficult for people to face a dilemma, and making any choice may make you have illusions about another choice, so think about what you want most, and then communicate with your relatives, asking them to make the most decisive decision will make your choice less painful.