Guys are cold to their girlfriends, what should girls do? Don t want to break up.

It's hard to be together if you don't have a different personality, but your words also show that your boyfriend doesn't love you very much, I'm a man, and if I love a girl very much, I will tolerate her many shortcomings, no matter how fatal those shortcomings are. It can only be said that he doesn't love you very much, and you want to change yourself for him, unless he loves you, your change is not at all disdainful for him!

Speaking of his friends, can you ask if your boyfriend is usually close to his friends? Forgive me yy. I always feel like they have a leg of OTL. It's not that I'm a rotten girl. It's just a little personal feeling, and it's not necessarily right.

Anyway, judging from the current situation, there is really no need for you to be together, you will not be happy, and he doesn't say it, probably because he wants you to break up first, so that he will be less guilty.

It's a waste of youth to spend like this, think about it, I don't think there's anything worth it for him to be so cold to you.

But I support you to have a good talk with him, why is he consuming you when he doesn't like you, why is he so cold when he forgives you. I think you're sinking deeper, but the long pain is better than the short one. And time can really fade everything, not forget, but forget.

Think about it for yourself.

Find an opportunity to talk to him, talk about the problems that arise between you and your feelings, and only by letting him understand your feelings, only by understanding how he thinks, can you solve the problems between you. In fact, what others say is unsolvable, if he has made up his mind and we don't know, what is the use of blindly guessing, if he really still cares about you, how can he bear to make you feel uncomfortable, if it really changes, if it can't be changed, then what's the use of saying that you can do more, it just makes you hurt more. Maybe you don't find out because you don't really want to face it yet, but sooner or later you have to face it, so you should face it.

Simple, you do the same to him, let him think from your point of view, OK; If you don't understand, it's in vain.

He doesn't have feelings for you anymore. You have to break up, otherwise it will hurt a lot.

Find a chance to talk to him.

1.Don't complain about the other party after a breakup.

Some people are likely to feel that they have done a lot of things for themselves after a breakup, and their hearts are likely to be unbalanced. Some people will tell the surrounding friends about their own mistakes, and even complain about the other party. How to save love?

In that case, it is possible to express all the momentary experience, but this is not the right way. Saying this is likely to pass the other party into your own ears, because the other party feels that you are bending your character, so the decision to break up with you will be more firm.

2.Don't make contact, expose a sense of low demand.

When they broke up, many brothers apologized for the mistake and felt that the other would reconcile. But that's not the case. At the beginning of the breakup, the other party's emotions are at their peak, and if you are stalking and fighting, it is useless, and that will make things even worse.

At this point, the best solution is to do nothing and cut off contact. Women, there is no doubt that they will be a little bit of a temper, and if you don't contact her afterwards, she will miss you. I feel that I am not doing a good job.

You need to maintain a stable mindset that will help you in the end.

You should first think about the reason why the girl broke up, what is the reason for the breakup?

In fact, the main point of touching the promotion belt is that the girl is cold not because you laughed at the breakup, but because she has estimated that there will be a separation scene with you during this time, so after the breakup, she has silently accepted that the result will be very cold.

In any period of emotional development, it is impossible for us to let our relationship continue in a state without changing. Especially men, because of the original pursuit of the heart, so that all kinds of courtesy to cater to all kinds of flattering women, the performance is particularly warm. There are feelings that come from the heart, and there are reasons caused by the psychology of hunting.

But with the passage of time, many women will encounter a phenomenon, that is, as their relationship deepens, their man's attitude will suddenly become extremely cold。At this moment, the feeling of a woman's heart is anxious and painful, because it will overwhelm her, change her initial attitude of concern, and make her disappointed and uneasy, because it will make us full of uncertainty about the future of life.

Most women react very strongly, even hysterically, because our purpose is simple, we just want to quickly return to the way we used to be。It looks hideous and pretentious. But smart and emotionally intelligent women don't deal with crises in this way, and most of them respond in this way.

Maintain rationality and emotional calm, and observe and analyze what the other person is for

There are many reasons for a man's coldness, whether it is slackness after the relationship has stabilized, or it is already disgusted with the relationship, or it is distracted by having a new relationship. Of course, it also includes the lack of time to take care of it caused by work pressure, and the difference between a smart and stupid woman is that she can control her emotions well.

A smart woman is not impulsive, blind, inferior, or aimlessly entangled with each other at this time. She will reflect on the relationship very well, examine whether there is something wrong with each other's feelings, and focus on observing what is the reason for the other party's cold attitude, whether there is a real emotional gap, or the other party has changed his mind.

Find out the reason, find the source, and then know how to respond in the future. If a man is frustrated, then she will give comfort or companionship, if he is in trouble, then he will do his best to assist, and if he changes his mind, then he should let go, and forget what should be forgotten, so know the truth and find out the reason for the things that smart women will pay attention to during this period.

I think that when facing the indifference of boys, girls should think carefully about which link has a problem, if it is their own fault, just apologize quickly, if it is the boy's fault, at this time we should pay attention to communication.

In the face of boys' indifference to each other, girls must have the right judgment to see what men really think, if they are always so indifferent to each other, then girls had better leave as soon as possible.

Don't pay too much attention to their attitude, if the other person is really important to you, be patient and ask them about it, and remember not to be discouraged.

Different relationships are handled differently. If it is a close person, you should take the initiative to ask what is going on to untie the knot in his heart, and it is not necessary to take the initiative in a stranger relationship.

Be sure to keep your emotions stable, because I'm also a girl who has been cold and violent in the past.

In real life, some women will feel sorry for themselves after encountering cold violence from men, and always feel that they have not done a good job or have been blaming themselves for doing something wrong, and such an approach will only make women more and more unhappy.

The reason why some women have a little depression in their lives is because they blame themselves too much after the cold violence of men, so they become more and more unhappy, and eventually Brother Zi will be particularly seriously hurt.

In fact, this mentality of women is not right in itself, because in the world of male and female feelings, mistakes cannot be made by one party, if you blame yourself too much, then you will only make yourself more and more unhappy, and then you will suffer more serious damage.

Therefore, as a woman, after encountering the cold violence of a man, the first thing to do is to adjust your mentality, and you can't feel too sorry for yourself, otherwise what awaits you will not only not be a particularly good ending, but will usher in a life tragedy.

I feel that your boyfriend should not have found a home yet, so he does not agree to break up with you, if he has found a home, or is better than you, then he will definitely agree to break up with you immediately.

As for why the two of you have come to this point, you have to ask him well, if he doesn't want to say, you have to observe it yourself, I believe that as long as you look carefully, you will be able to know why he started to perfunctory you after a year of love.

If I were you, I would probably decide to break up with him regardless of whether he agrees or not, because for someone who doesn't love me, I won't waste my precious time, and for a boyfriend who is perfunctory and indifferent to me, I'd rather live alone alone, and he may leave me at any time, which is equivalent to the boyfriend next to me, maybe tomorrow will become someone else's, so why waste my time.

And you gave him a chance to ask him why he was perfunctory to you, but obviously he didn't want to explain the reason, he was perfunctory even when he kept you, a normal boy, when his girlfriend proposed to break up, at least he had to give a legitimate reason, explain why he was indifferent to you, but he didn't, he was still perfunctory, in my opinion, I would pass him directly.

Boyfriend 100 for you and 100 for him.

A man's sudden indifference to you is nothing more than a decrease in your attractiveness to him. It's like if you're going to read a book again after the exam? It's the same thing. So it's especially important to be a book that allows men to dig and explore infinitely.

First, it is difficult to determine whether every relationship can have a result, and it is also necessary to make a good ending that is still irretrievable despite all efforts.

Prepare for the best and prepare for the worst. Many girls may feel that if their boyfriend suddenly becomes cold to them, then the girl's first reaction may be to reflect, like if there is anything she has been doing well enough recently. In fact, this kind of thinking is not recommended, because like many people, you may find that sometimes if you suddenly say that you are cold to your girlfriend, then part of the reason may be that he wants to force his girlfriend to break up with him through cold violence, and the responsibility is all on his girlfriend, not himself.

Therefore, if there is no better consideration for something like this, then it is most likely that as a woman, it will be more disadvantageous.

Second, in fact, there are many possibilities for the boy to be cold, maybe it is a better possibility, he perceives the inappropriateness of the two people, and also feels the shortcomings and contradictions that you can't accept for him, just want to calm down by himself, after a few days of precipitation, feel whether he can accept some things, or how to tell you about this matter is better, and a few days is enough for the other party to redefine a certain thing.

Third, in our lives, many girls are now independent and self-reliant, to be honest, when we are single, we insist on these benefits a lot, and when you have a partner, proper dependence is very helpful to promote your relationship. Men actually enjoy the feeling of being needed, if you always look like a woman and can do anything by yourself, your boyfriend will definitely gradually lose interest in you, and it is not a shame to rely on your boyfriend in some small things, but it is a kind of fun, which will stimulate his desire to protect and better maintain the relationship between two people.

Fourth, in addition, in fact, when your boyfriend gradually becomes cold to you, it is because he thinks that he knows you very well, and there is nothing in you that can arouse his interest. When we know a person well enough, we definitely don't want to care about him, everyone always has a high enthusiasm for things they don't understand, so what you have to do is to ignite this enthusiasm, to improve yourself a lot, so that your boyfriend can find out that you are still different.

First of all, you must determine the goal, that is, you have to know what type of opposite sex you like, and then in this type of opposite sex you need to find the one you like, remember not to be half-hearted, don't pursue a person too casually, and don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, and pursue several people at the same time, and your own distraction will also make the person being chased sad, and when the time comes, none of them will succeed, and you will regret it. First of all, you must determine the goal, that is, you have to know what type of opposite sex you like, and then in this type of opposite sex you need to find your favorite ta, remember not to be half-hearted, first of all, you must determine the goal, that is, you have to know what type of opposite sex you like, and then in this type of opposite sex need to find your favorite ta, remember not to be half-hearted, don't pursue a person too casually, and don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, pursue several people at the same time, and distract yourself to make the person being chased sad, When the time comes, none of them succeed, and I regret it. First of all, you must determine the goal, that is, you have to know what type of opposite sex you like, and then in this type of opposite sex you need to find the one you like, remember not to be half-hearted, don't pursue a person too casually, and don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, and pursue several people at the same time, and your own distraction will also make the person being chased sad, and when the time comes, none of them will succeed, and you will regret it.

A person should not be too casual, and don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, pursue several people at the same time, and distract yourself to make the person being chased sad, and when the time comes, none of them will succeed, and you will regret it.