What do you think about many girls now marrying someone in exchange for 20 years less struggle in ex

Take advantage of each other's fair exchanges. Men use money or power to make up for everything they lost when they were young, and women exchange their youth for the material security of a better future. -- It's like doing business.

According to statistics, there are now more than 10 million peasants and peasant workers in the country who are unable to marry a daughter-in-law. The girls in the countryside are all married to the city, they are not willing to find a husband in the countryside who cannot afford to raise children and the elderly, and some girls are not willing to marry "Zuma" as their wives.

So you should understand that many girls get married in exchange for love in exchange for 20 years less struggle.

Loving someone The person you love just has the ability to make me struggle for 20 years less What's so bad?

It's normal. Men work hard for 20 years to get a good wife or a good wife for their son.

For a better life, there are a lot of them.

.-Society is actually so realistic. I can't help it.

This phenomenon is actually quite normal, why is this society still so sensitive and unfair to the relationship between men and women.

Many people think that it is understandable for a girl to find a rich man and get married. Even in some places where the culture is not so developed, it is even normal for a girl to want to marry a rich man. Because he feels that girls are a vulnerable group, and there may be times when she lives a less glorious life, so he needs to find a strong backer to rely on and spend the rest of his life.

But why doesn't this standard apply to boys? Isn't this a bit of a double-standard dog? The ancients said that the hustle and bustle of the world is all for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit. So it's normal to pay more attention to interests in the hearts of boys.

And the only thing I hope is that my future partner will not value your possessions or your looks. It's just you. This is something that many people can't ask for in their lifetimes, so if you have it, cherish it.

Now this society is accusing girls of being very powerful, but in fact, boys will also dislike girls' poor family conditions, but they won't say it. In people's perception, men are the most important members of the family, and it is natural that as long as the boy's family conditions are good, it does not matter what the woman's family is. Just like when we go on a blind date, many people's first feeling is that the woman will definitely ask about the man's family conditions, while the man often does not do this.

But in real life, both men and women will pay attention to the right family, and there are many people who want to find a wealthy other half of the family to reduce their burden. As the question says, this statement is actually shown in the minds of many men.

There will be such a plot in the TV series we usually watch, that is, the boy gave up his girlfriend for a richer girl. The so-called art is in life, and there are many cases in TV series in real life.

But I think it's very normal, after all, human beings are selfish by nature, and they will definitely be good for themselves first.

It is said that women worship money, whoever has money will go with whom, and if you find a rich man, you will marry, but in reality, men are often more powerful than women. And even more ruthless.

There is a man next to me, he is a boy who is very good, his family is rural, he looks very good, thick eyebrows and big eyes, the university is in a 985 college, he talked about a girlfriend in school, almost three years, after graduation, it is said that there is a fortune teller who says that this woman is not a prosperous husband... Then the man didn't expect to really break up ruthlessly, and then he asked someone to introduce him to a girlfriend, and finally married a girl with a relationship and background (parents are in a hurry to marry the girl) Alas, after marriage, the surface is indeed more beautiful, but the people around him look down on him, saying that he eats soft rice, and it is said that there are many conflicts in the family, and he is not so happy as he seems, but he just deceived himself.

Such a man is first of all rational, because such a man judges his own needs through his own rationality, rather than rejecting such a good life in order to cater to some people, and there is such a man who knows his future and plans, and will better realize his wishes by using this resource.

Secondly, such a man should be very good looking and tall, isn't it a bit of Jia Nailiang's appearance? Maybe, it's not like me anyway! I also want to marry into a wealthy family, but the door is in**?

Such a man is good-looking, and he also has brains, what happened to marrying a rich lady? Isn't it the appearance of a rich woman? Isn't it a good match?

Needless to say, men, girls don't have this? How many girls are squeezing their heads to marry into wealthy families, they are better than me is that they know that the door is in **!

It's really sad, sacrificing yourself in exchange for your own struggle, I don't feel much meaning, in fact, sometimes it's better to rely on yourself, although you marry someone else, but people have to bow their heads under the roof, what is the point of living without dignity?

I don't think this kind of man is much different from Ma Bao man, they are all lazy, they all want to rely on others to eat, and they are not enterprising. So I advise women to stay away from this kind of man, this kind of snobbish man is over, and when you have no money, this kind of man will kick you away immediately.

I don't feel like this situation, this situation generally does not exist in real life, and if you marry someone else, you can work for 20 years less, you need to see if you have this capital, if you have this kind of capital, it is also very good.