Broke up, did anyone really help me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-27
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Actually, after reading your statement, I think it's a bit contradictory, because I don't know whether to advise you to give up the relationship or if it's possible to influence her and keep her.

    But, to be honest, if you continue to love her, and her relationship with you has deteriorated, and because of her special circumstances, then your insistence on your own will become redundant, and it will only make you feel tired.

    However, if she still loves you, then your persistence may save the relationship (in fact, if I were you, I would have chosen to give up).

    People have always made trade-offs in their lives, and you can also ask your good friends for advice, they should know better, and hope that you will get rid of this trouble as soon as possible*(

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you want to save you, you must first save her, find a way to find her, forcibly go to the retreat, and completely free her from the quagmire and abyss, so that you can be happy...I wish you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Like you said, she can't resist the charm of dupin, but you can't pull her back to a normal person, it's definitely not easy to let go of being together for so long, but you have to think about it for the future, she's not a child, she's still like this when she's old, it's really hard to change sex in the future, in fact, it's good that you're separated now, if you really live together, if you have this problem again, you don't have to go crazy, and if you don't contact her, you'll forget.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let go of the past and start again, the old man has to have a little backbone, let it go if you break up, the road you choose, you have to go down on your knees, not to mention, the future life is still very beautiful, I believe you will find the right person.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're such a big person, think about it, will you really be happy together?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give up, the wife in the future will come to live! Find another one yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After breaking up for a long time, he always tells you about something, and he will also ask you for help, so there are two kinds of emotions that disturb Lao Sen. One is that he is still thinking about you, and he is more dependent on you with a sense of slipperyness, and through re-contact with you, see if he can get your attention, or even get back together with you, and then return to the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. The other is that he can't be a lover and you are friends, he just treats you as a friend, and if there is anything to share with you, what can't be solved will ask you for help, because compared to other strangers, you always know each other, you were still lovers before, and you will be asked for help in the past.

    Anyway, you can just ask him if he just thinks of you as a friend or if he has other ideas. to take countermeasures. After a long breakup, he always tells you about something, and he will ask you for help, so there are two situations.

    One is that he still thinks about you, is more dependent on you, and through re-contact with you, see if he can get your attention, or even get back together with you, and then return to the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. The other is that he can't be a lover and you are friends, he just treats you as a friend, and if there is anything to share with you, what can't be solved will ask you for help, because compared to other strangers, you always know each other, you were still lovers before, and you will be asked for help in the past. Anyway, you can just ask him if he just thinks of you as a friend or if he has other ideas.

    to take countermeasures. After a long breakup, he always tells you about something, and he will ask you for help, so there are two situations. One is that he still thinks about you, is more dependent on you, and through re-contact with you, see if he can get your attention, or even get back together with you, and then return to the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

    The other is that he can't be a lover and you are friends, he just treats you as a friend, and if there is anything to share with you, what can't be solved will ask you for help, because compared to other strangers, you always know each other, you were still lovers before, and you will be asked for help in the past. Anyway, you can just ask him if he just thinks of you as a friend or if he has other ideas. to take the corresponding policy of slowing down the mu.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Here's how that sentence came about:

    After a breakup, they can no longer be friends because they have hurt each other; You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you once loved each other deeply.

    Love is like this, as long as you move the true feelings, once one party leaves the other, there will always be a wounded person who dies and lives to think about it, and time will wear everything down. I've experienced it.

    My friend once said to me: Love is like two children pulling rubber bands, and the one who is hurt is always the one who lets go last.

    I believe you can cheer up, even if there are tears in your eyes, you have to shout: The big husband He Huan has no wife!

    Also, I wish you a Happy New Year! 2011, a new beginning!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone has their own aspirations, that's all. The Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe she does treat you sincerely, but she doesn't feel right. It's like....Friends alike. She wants to be friends with you, but she doesn't care about your feelings. It's nothing. Relax. Live well, and you will always meet the right one for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because I'm cousins with her, I'm related by blood, so I can't get together

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Well, how do you say this, I just broke up with my boyfriend, I was the one who proposed to break up and asked him to continue to be friends with me, and I used to love him, and he loved me too, but my personality was incompatible, and it was very hard when we were together. But if you want to open it, you can let it go, so it's not sad to be friends. Because we've been together for a long time, we talk about a lot of topics, so I really hope to be friends after the breakup.

    I don't know what my ex-boyfriend thinks now, but he comforts me when I'm unhappy. Or your girlfriend can already let go, and you should learn to let go too.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That's what I said about my life.

    If you meet someone you like, just chase it, I don't care, even if you and I are talking, as long as you tell me I will definitely let go, because my request is very simple, as long as I see you happy, I am enough, I don't care about myself, every important person in my life must remember, I will not force you, if you want to go, you will stay!

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