Chasing girls sometimes feels really tired, and I really can t figure out her thoughts

Maybe she's hanging on you, testing what you do to her. If you really like her, you can be enthusiastic again, text more, call **, and see how enthusiastic she is replying to you. If you are not enthusiastic, you can snub her, don't text, don't call, and if she contacts you again in two days, there are only two reasons:

One is that she has a crush on you; The second is that she wants to take advantage of you.

It may be a girl's vanity and dependence, on the one hand, I enjoy your care, on the other hand, it is always a glorious thing to be chased.

It's an old topic again.

Leehom Wang has a song called Let Go of Your Heart

You're in the category you can't let go.

My personal opinion is not to dwell too much on the results and to be happy.

The girls around me are either lovers or nothing.

One, you are her second choice.

Second, you and her are not there yet.

Cryogenic treatment. What you can't get is beautiful, this is the truth.

Then give up, liking is a happy thing, not a kind of depression, even if love is dead. I guess the other party doesn't like to talk to you either. Why bother pursuing, liking her does not mean that she has a good life, happiness is also love, please adopt.

Why don't you ask yourself, do you want to make the other person happy? Do you want to improve the personality of the other person? If it's for your own selfish desires, it's better to give up!

Test it, persist in love is like fighting a war ! Step up your game.

<> "If you feel tired when chasing a girl, it probably means that the other party doesn't like you."

A relationship that is pleasant to both parties will receive corresponding feedback in time to give you the motivation to keep moving forward.

Falling in love is the same as playing a game, every once in a while the blue light flashes to upgrade the level, update a piece of equipment, will make you feel that you have been growing up in this game, and one day you will defeat the final boss. Instead of aimlessly playing the game for hundreds of hours, only to find that there is not even a progress bar for leveling up. Of course, this game is tiring to play.

In essence, women are not chasing, but attracted, love itself is a matter of mutual affection, the premise is that two people are attracted to each other, not the sincerity and dedication of men to move women, a relationship can not be sustained only by moving.

In other words, if at the beginning of chasing girls, the enthusiasm of girls is very low, and the feedback to you is also very cold, most likely it is not that you are not "chasing" hard enough, but that the "person who is chasing" is not in the eyes of girls. At this time, if the boy's strategy is to increase the intensity and frequency of "chasing", it will have the opposite effect, and it will not be long before he finds himself blocked.

Therefore, it is better to use the time spent racking your brains to please girls to shape yourself, and use those daily routines of good morning and good night to ask for warmth, and those invitations that try day after day but are unsuccessful, to study, fitness, and make money, so that you can become more interesting people as soon as possible and attract equally interesting souls.

After all, people who can't even hold themselves unscrupulously to please how to deal with a two-person relationship.